My husband and I are in our late 20s, and have been married for almost 3 years. He had one previous partner before we were married, and I had none.
I have a very high libido, and find that I am 'up for it' at least a couple of times a week. He always says that he has a high libido too (and promised lots of nooky after we were married, as we waited). However, it doesn't happen. If I am lucky, I get some twice a month (usually about once every three weeks).
HOWEVER, I find that he looks things up online (never hardcore stuff), and then 'pleases' himself. We have discussed how this makes me feel, and he always says that he'll stop, but he never does. He says he doesn't set out for the end result, but sometimes he just happens to get very aroused by what he's looking at. I please myself solo a lot.
My question is this: how can I get him to stop looking at these things, and to start wanting to be intimate with me? He says he still fanices me as much as when we were dating. Help?!
2006-10-06
20:35:56
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