Making eye contact is very difficult . I think most of the times I just give a frown or something like that , drowns me and the other persons eneergy completely .
I dont understand the root cause of this . I try to avoid this as much as possible . A typical situation is when a relative visits ... I find it hard to speak to then and when I look at their eyes I have this disgusting feeling of taking off ! And after that I just try to answer to the question they ask me and thats all - the conversation that I have .
With some friends I find it easier , not bcoz I have this eye contact problem , but kinda know that they know this problem of mine.
I read that "eye contact" cud mean an attempt of establishing emotional connection , and u might feel awkward . Another is "superiority" complex .
Can anyone who this prblem or know about it help me ?
please I find life very dull with all these prblems , feels like my life will go into resolving such trivial issues ... any help appreciated thnx
2006-10-01
11:05:41
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WaterGuy
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