This may be heavily difficult to answer, because I've tried most anything that I can think of.
I have tried the plan ahead approach, where I write the things that I have to do. It fails because I end up just staring at the plans, and actually not do anything.
Another is reward approach. This also failed me, because I tend to just take the reward anyway, in effect rewarding not doing anything.
I had also tried to start on a project for 15 minutes, but again, failed. It's really difficult to start, and even after I had started, I tend to space out and get distracted later anyway.
Also, I'm trapped in this complex situation where I can start quickly and may perform when "there is a whip cracking", and yet, I'm also unable to work well when there's somebody "hovering" around me.
I've heard some things relating to being a perfectionist ; i.e. not wanting to do anything because it won't come out "perfect". I'm not sure if this is the case, but if it is, how would I deal with this?
2006-07-10
03:53:43
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