I have been told that I have endometriosis and have known this since I was 21, I am now 28. I have never had an endoscopy, this was just based on my symptoms. When I found out, my ex-husband and I tried for a year and a half with no luck. A few years after our relationship ended, I was engaged again and he and I tried a year with no luck as well. Both of these men have gotten other women pregnant before and after my relationships with them. I have recently seen a doctor and he says that this concerns him. That if I decide I want to try anytime in the future, he would skip making me wait a year of trying and immediately try fertility drugs, and then surgery if needed. Also suggesting that I not try after 35, because of health risks for the baby and mother. All of this information if very intimidating and depressing, because I feel compressed into a time frame. I am completely open to adopting, but having a child, of course, has always been a dream and my maternal clock is pounding.
2007-02-07
04:56:30
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barefootbabee
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