Before my husband and I got married, and for the first few months of our marriage, he was always willing to talk about our "future children" and he said that he wanted to have 3 or 4 kids. Then, one day, out of the blue, he all of a sudden refuses to talk about having children, and he says he NEVER wants children. Any time I try to talk about it he gets angry and leaves the room and won't even discuss it with me. I have tried asking him what happened to make him not want children anymore, but he always just says "I don't know" and gets mad that I'm trying to bring up the subject. I have even provided reasons for him as to why he might not want kids...I ask "Are you worried about being a good father?" "Are you worried about money?" "Do you just not like kids" He won't answer....he always says "that could be part of it" or "i don't know". It is so frustrating that I can't even get him to TALK about it with me. He says there is no reason to talk. Please someone tell me what to do!
2006-10-25
06:17:45
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