I am 28 years old and am pregnant with our fifth child....yes fifth. My first child was from a previous relationship. Our second and third was planned. I got an IUD in 04 and got pregnant! After that I got the Depro shot and now I am pregnant again!!! The ages are 8,4,2,1 and due in Feb. I want no I need a tubal ligation for me. My husband won't get a vasectomy. No other birth control works for me, I am just too fertile. My husband said we just won't have sex. Yeah right that is a bunch of BS. I know marriage isn't based on sex but it has a nice size contribution to it. He tells they are side effects to the surgery, I know that but every thing now has a side effects. It also differs with each woman. I am getting this operation done with or without his support. I just don't know how this will effect our marriage? It is time for me to do something for me now. I may have to move to a different room in the house, permanantly.
2006-12-29
10:55:56
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