i had unprotected sex on the 12/2 and 12/9, my pd is 9 days late. i haven't gotten my pd this month and i have absolutely no symptoms of it. i took a preg test 2 days ago when i was 7 days late and it was neg. was it too soon. all i feel is xtremely tired and sleepy naseous sometimes, and slightly dizzy. i told my bf i'm late and he said he wants nothing to do with me. my last pd was 11/20....i found out a few days ago that on 12/2 i was ovulating thru the online calenders. i feel really depressed and me being bipolar doesn't help, and right now i'm off the medication. what are the chances that i'm actually preg? i plan on keep this baby.
2006-12-29 12:09:06 · 15 answers · asked by dominicanay2k 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i'm 22 and his 27
2006-12-29 12:14:00 · update #1
I'd suggest you find someone who wants a baby instead of having one with someone who doesn't. For his sake I hope you aren't pregnant. 7 days is usually long enough for the HCG hormone to show to tell if you are preg or not. So you probably aren't pregnant, you are just late.
Did he think you were on birth control? If not he was stupid too have unprotected sex with you if he didn't want a baby. You both seem to immature and unstable to have a baby anyway.
Don't be one of those women who lies about birth control to trap your boyfeirnd in a relationship or just to get child support.
2006-12-29 12:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't go by ovulation calendars...sometimes they are inaccurate. Your period could be late for a variety of reasons such as stress or changing your medication....since you are off the medication that could even affect your cycle if you recently stopped taking it. Remember that sometimes feeling the symptoms that are associated with pregnancy are also signs of stress and depression and since you have a bipolar disorder that might factor in.
Go to the dr and get a blood pregnancy test just to be on the safe side....that will tell you for sure and there has been plenty of time since you had sex to get an accurate response. Usually home pregnancy tests are very accurate so chances are, if it came back negative, you're probably fine. Good luck to you!
2006-12-29 12:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by kath_08012 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aparently you want this child and that's not anything to feel bad about. You need to leave that crap you call your boyfriend. He wanted to have unprotected sex and his consequense is to pay child support for 18 years! Next you need to call a help line if your feeling depressed, that's never a good thing. You need to schedual an appointment at a clinic or at an OB imeediatly! Just because you have a negative pee result doesn't mean that your not pregnant. Then if in fact you are pregnant you need to go see the doctor that put you on phsyc meds and be gradually taken off or put on something that's safe while your pregnant! Good Luck and don't get an abortion if you don't want to. You WILL feel guilty for the rest of your life if you do something that serious and you didn't want to do it. If you not pregnant... still dump the donkey, and from now on make sure that you use protection unless you and your partner agree that it's time to start a family!
2006-12-29 12:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by Camerons Mama07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you had sex while your ovulating the risk of being pregnant is higher, but I personally wouldn't get to stressed until you have been to a doc for a blood test, the blood test is fool proof and you wont get false negatives with it.
Secondly...dump your low life boyfriend on his butt and tell him to not come back, if this is how he treats you then hes not worth the time or effort.
Thirdly...if your not pregnant...get on the pill or use birth control till you are ready to have a baby...and then seek out medical advice before you conceive to see how your bipolar meds will effect the baby.
Cross each bridge one at a time...
Good luck
2006-12-29 12:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your period could just be late or you could be pregnant. Take another one. If your ex wants you to have an abortion and you don't, I suggest you don't. There are a lot of side effects from it. Also, think about all the people out there that can't have children and here you are pregnant, and going to have an abortion, that child could be adopted by a loving family. What if you have an abortion now and later on in life, you want one and were unable to because you had an abortion?
2006-12-29 12:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry you are having all this in your life right now... first things first... get back on your meds.. it will help you to think clear about the situation... it may have been a bad test.. or wasnt done right... maybe it didnt work.. i would take one more.. or go see your doctor to be sure... as far as your b/f if he is going to leave he is not much of a man.. and what kind of love is this.....
i dont believe in abortion.. so no i dont think you should do that if your pregnant.. also do u have family or friends that you can talk to.. it helps to have love and support from the ones that do love you.. please do this ok..
thanks rhonda
2006-12-29 12:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by greeneyebutterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 04:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your period is normally on time, and you are sure you were 7 days late when you tested, then I would say you are not pregnant. Those things are really pretty accurate... You can have a blood test to make sure thou.... Call your doctor. Good luck.
2006-12-29 16:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by jordansmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im sorry for your boyfriend walking out on you what a jerk
im guessing that you are mainly because if your periods late and the test came up negative(these tests are not 100% right)
plus you have the symptoms of pregnancy nausioia ect ect
2006-12-29 12:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by JH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i want to congratulate you on still wanting to keep the baby despite your boyfriend wanting nothing to do with you. just know that you will have to do it alone which is not a bad idea. babies are a blessing whether they come unexpected or planned. you just have to mentally prepare yourself for it. i recently had my son whom i am darely in love with and when i was first pregnant i was always tired. i went to sleep around 9pm on the weekend. maybe you are pregnant. take another test in a week and if you aren't dump that loser you called a boyfriend for saying he wants nothing to do with you if you are pregnant.
2006-12-29 12:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by HunnyMommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋