The father isnt my boyfriend. And everyone thinks that they know and understand but they dont. He is on house arrest and cant leave his house without permission. My mother kicked me out. I am doing this the way i think it needs to be handled. Please Help.
2006-12-29 11:02:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
youre dating someone but the kid isnt his. you shouldve given the baby up for adoption to someone who can raise it and not around criminal element
YOU shouldnt have a baby at 15
2006-12-29 11:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by BoTToms UP 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all I'm not gonna call you anything(babykiller) no matter what you would have choose to do. If you are gonna be a parent at 15 or 16 then you have to accept that challenge and will receive rewards for it beyond what I can type here. Making bad choices in life has to result in lessons learned, remember that. I was a father at 16 and married the mother at 17. We have both done very well and have 2 great boys from the time we were together. You have no choice now but to grow up quickly and make sure you take responsibility for any choices you make.
2006-12-29 11:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by boxerslive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a horrible situation. 15is much too young to be having a baby. Having the father on house arrest is even worst. I think the best thing for you and the baby is to put the baby up for adoption. There are plenty of loving people looking to adopt a baby. Get rid of your loser boyfriend. Makeup with your parents or seek out a good friend or relative that has their head on straight and start your life over.
2006-12-29 11:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by J T 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to the people that you want to communicate with and TELL THEM that this is hard and that you will do the best that you can. But you can not do this alone. Focus on the baby you are growing inside, not the father or the boyfriend. Take care of yourself and your baby! Ask for the help and people will know that this is hard. (Actually I am sure your adult family members know this is hard. OF course it is hard!) You need all the support you can get. Ask. Dont be stubborn. Focus on your baby. Good luck.
2006-12-29 11:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by shazi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are under 18 you shouldn't be held responsible and if the father is under 18 it should not be considered as statuatory rape. I think you really need to put up more information about your problem for people to answer the question. Having a child early in life is hard since it can be detrimental to your future career and change your life. The thing is that your parent will always your parent, tell them what you really feel, and apologize for your actions, they will forgive you it will just take time... good luck
2006-12-29 11:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by jdansng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to social services or womens help place. you obviously have internet. you can fulfill a married couples dream to raise a child. my sister nannies for a couple who paid a mother 30k because they were unable to conceive. complications in an abortion might mean you will never be able to have another. they will also help you through this time of pregnancy. think into the future a bit and be proud of yourself, this is reality of life. 15 is a tough age, find some support groups with people u can trust, good luck
2006-12-29 12:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by matthew m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just ignore what people are saying and try not to be upset. This extra stress is not good for your baby. Talk to some type of counselor or social worker at school that can help you get into some type of shelter. Pray about your situation and surround yourself with positive people not people who speak negatively.
2006-12-29 11:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Amy C2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish you all the best of luck with this! it will be difficult, but you will manage, it is a wonderful gift to become a mother. i would suggest you speak to any friends family you can and find out where you can get support from because you will need help. i hope so much this works out for you and i hope you mum comes round.
2006-12-29 11:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by kimberley123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have consistently considered God as my actual Father. i think of one reason human beings don't comprehend is they do no longer seem to be yet waiting to have a real courting with God. they do no longer seem to be yet waiting for the dedication it takes to have a real courting with God. a real courting with God isn't right here sometime and then long previous the subsequent. this is an entire life dedication. some human beings do no longer choose for to comprehend and obey, it extremely is the actual reason. i'm so chuffed I chosen to comprehend and obey. He has crammed my existence with lots exhilaration and delight!!!
2016-10-06 04:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother cannot kick you out. you are a minor and she has abandoned you. call the cops on her.
go to a clinic for help and my advice, don't deal with the father of this baby...it will do more harm than good.
2006-12-29 11:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by just that girl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋