Are you sure its yours? you might be surprised... in the other hand if the baby its yours, and if she is an adult what is the problem? if she is a minor, then be worried. Besides you are worried about a job instead of a new life that is just beginning and coming without even asking if he/she wants to come. Dont be a jerk and step up to the plate if its yours.
2006-12-29 11:12:07
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answered by ednaywilliams 2
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From the information you give, and the responses you have received so far I think you can get a little taste of the hate crime you are now a victim of. AMBLESIDE calls you a loser, "poor girl" that attacked you is a victim of something, what? Her own desires? I don't know. michael d says you should hide "like a ninja". What about "poor girl" is she also required to hide? No.
My experience shows the politically correct culture we live in today will raise "poor girl" up on a pedestal, demanding public sympathy, your financial support as the head of household, free housing in battered women shelters (you are not welcome). If she chooses life, then so be it. If she chooses death, well it is just a part of her body now, isn't it.
If you stick your foot out as she walks down the hall way, she falls and aborts. What is that? Assault? Choice? Bad humor? No sir, that is murder. What died? I don't know Rowe vs. Wade says a fetus is not a life.
If you dare to file for custody you will find out what this system is all about? Under the color of law, so called "Judges" try their best to determine the best "custodial" or "primary" parent. 95% of the time they choose the mother. 85% of the adult prison population comes from the single female headed household. When the father is the head of the household you have about 2% divorce rate, in our feminist society it is better than 50%. By the way ednaywill if Freddy is a minor he should file criminal charges for statutory rape, have her locked up, put on the sexual predator list.
Just a question is child support a criminal matter or civil? Seems odd that one could be placed on probation for violation of a civil contract. Seems odd that a contract could exist without, well a civil contract. So fatherhood is a crime. I should have known.
2006-12-29 20:20:09
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answered by ozywadle 3
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Run and hide for cover,lol, just kidding, you got yourself in a pickle, so to speak.
I f you two are truly good for each other and it wasn't just a fling, and she likes you, take her aside, talk seriously about it, and find out how she feels about you and the whole relationship wise , the whole nine yeards.
After that is settled, fight like the man that you are and stick to your guns, support her, if not, don't forget , it is her free will, keep that in mind! hope for the best, and , above all else, cross your fingers, that you servive this through,.
If all else fail relocate to another country, man your in hot water, , i hope all things work out well for you!
talk it over with her PARENTS WITH THE BOTH OF YOU, BE , COOL, and be calm,Things will work out well.
Also beore igo there are help lines that support group, out there that you can call, to get the best advive you can get , they are threr to help you!
You can also use your search engine , and look up pregnant mother help line, they 'll have all the facts for you!
Also how well do you know her ? was this the only time? a spear of the moment thing?, don't forget, that she too could also be in another relation , perhaps , is she using you as a scape ? , and above all else xmas time , it take longer then that too know the truth, have you asked her when the last time her monly was? All these things to consider, take care.
2006-12-29 19:38:56
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answered by Anonymous
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you gotta talk to her. even if she did get pg from your encounter, it is way too soon for her to know it...come on, x-mas was only a couple of days ago.
if she is, ask if she thinks its really yours, then fess up to her dad asap, let him know what happened, but do not blame it on his daughter...that is one sure way to piss him off
lastly, i dont think its legal for him to store your dna, and i doubt he would be able to do it, because the doctor you were sent to has the information about the disease testing, and unless there is a problem i think confidentiality would be an issue here
2006-12-29 19:23:28
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answered by mommy2b 1
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This happened when? And she now knows she is pregnant? I'm guessing there was something that happened before you entered the picture.
2006-12-29 19:15:21
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answered by azohawk 3
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Nice reading material.
2006-12-29 19:18:33
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answered by cliffhanger 3
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Hide in the darkness, Like the NINJA!
2006-12-29 19:07:54
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answered by michael d 3
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wow ... sounds like you got yourself two problems.
2006-12-29 19:08:26
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answered by ♥just me♥ 5
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you can kill everyone before anyone finds out !
GOOD LUCK ! =]
2006-12-29 21:46:22
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answered by . 3
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poor girl, you sound like a loser.
2006-12-29 19:07:24
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answered by Anonymous
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