Pregnancy & Parenting - 23 August 2006

help me support it?

Since you supposedly care so much, wouldn't it be hypocritical to not help me with my child?

I believe so.

If you so badly want me to keep it, even though i don't want it, will you help me raise it?

Will you still care about my child after it is born and help me supprt it?

Will you send me monthly checks in the mail paying the expenses?

Will you visit me and babysit?

Will you buy my child a car when (s)he turns 16?

Will you pay for their education?

Will you make sure they are not on the streets and always have a roof over their head if i can't support them?

Are you willing to take this child into your own home?


^unless you are willing to do all that i stated above, don't you dare criticise me and other women who are going to have abortions or have had abortions.

2006-08-23 14:38:18 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

My boyfriend fingered me and I, as of today (August 23), am 11 days late for my period.
I'm worried I might be pregnant.
He didn't masturbate right before he did it, but I don't know if he had done it earlier in the day, but even if he did I'm pretty sure he would wash his hands. (Would that kill the sperm?)
This is the first time I've EVER done anything like this and I've also been wondering if being fingered could delay the cycle of menstration. He did it kind of hard and forcefully and thats why I'm wondering.
I'm pretty confused because I've been getting slight ovarian cramps and the feeling that I got my period, but when I check there is nothng.
Could this just mean I am late but going to get my period soon?

I'm really scared and I'd appreciate the advice.
Thank you.

2006-08-23 14:34:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

My daughter will be 3 next month & should be starting head start this yr...well I have been potty training her for about 5 months now, she was doing good for about 2 months & for the past 3 months she has gotten stubburn, wont listen & throws a fit when i want her to go potty on the toilet & she wont use the potty chair(s), i bribed her with popcicles the first time & it worked for 2 months, but all she wants anymore are pocicles, a sticker chart wont work cuz i dont feel like listening to her screaming fits cuz she can't have her own way, candy is a no-no. lately i just ask her if she has to go potty & she always says no or if she wants a popcicle i tell her she has to go potty in the toilet first & she says no & pouts, she says she poops, when she didn't & she knows the difference between poop & pee! she has undies butt she poops in them everytime! help i want her potty trained by her 3rd birthday which is in 1 month from today! shes a quick learner!!! theres more info.....

2006-08-23 14:32:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

My baby brother will not take the bottle. My step-mom needs to go back to work in 2 days, and hes going to daycare! Hes 4 months! We need help and fast!

2006-08-23 14:31:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

When They Ask For Something You Dont Agree To, Whats The Most Peaceful Way To Tell Them No? Example, They Want A New Toy, Want Ice Cream, Etc..

2006-08-23 14:28:24 · 29 answers · asked by Angel_Anton 6 in Parenting

my mum couldnt produce milk and i just wonder if it is hereditory - she wasnt given any specific reason but couldnt feed either me or my sister, and her mum was the same i think. i really want to be able to breast feed but figure that i should get a steriliser etc to be prepared just in case. any helpful suggestions?

2006-08-23 14:27:22 · 12 answers · asked by kittyurmston 2 in Newborn & Baby

I know its basically impossible to do during third trimester...but how about during first and second? Is it safe to do? Has anyone tried it?

2006-08-23 14:17:27 · 17 answers · asked by Sandy H 3 in Pregnancy

the test i took was a first response and i took one a week ago that said negative. when i got up this morning i took another one, that came back negative. in result i went to planned parenthood and they said that the test was negative. is it possible that it is too early for their test?

2006-08-23 14:09:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

right now im pregnant and i would like to talk to some one about my problems if any would like to talk to me email me at eeyore-raver@yahoo.com thx

2006-08-23 14:09:12 · 14 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Pregnancy

i put him in time out in his chair and he picks it up and throws it, continues to scream at the top of his lungs (scares my little 2 month old-then i have 2 screaming kids)my husband says to spank him, i just don't know what to do?

2006-08-23 14:09:07 · 25 answers · asked by momto2boys 1 in Toddler & Preschooler

thank u! now answer it are u goin to be goin or havin an halloween party? i am no chaperoanes allowed! im 13 wat r u goin to be!???

2006-08-23 14:08:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

2006-08-23 14:07:25 · 7 answers · asked by Terri L 2 in Pregnancy

My fiance's brother is in the air force and his wife lives here in my town and she works at the mcdonalds up the street she is 7 months pregnant and has cheated on her husband with 3 or 4 different guys they have a 1 year old together too...... his wife just turned 18 we use to be friends but she used me and I could just stand back and watch her cheat on her husband.... Well her husband is coming home in a few weeks do you think that I should tell him??? Him and my fiance don't get along that well so I don't think that he would believe him if he told him.... so do you think I should say something??

2006-08-23 14:04:11 · 15 answers · asked by Groover_84 2 in Pregnancy

I heard there was a tea that helps you to produce more breeast milk. Mine is slowing down. I have to pump becuase he was in the hospitla the first 2 weeks and only takes the bottle. He drinks about 5 ounces at a tiem every 2-3 hours. I only produce like 2-3 every 3-4. Does anyone know of a tea or a way to produce more???

2006-08-23 14:04:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

If a girl loses her virginity and gets her cherry popped, what would happen if she doesn't have sex anymore for about a year because I've heard that a girls hymen grows back if she doesn't have sex for a year?

2006-08-23 14:00:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

my daughter will be 6 in Sept. When I told mom I wanted to throw a party, she said it was a bad idea. See, I've thrown a party the last 2 years, (althoug at one only 2 kids sowed up and it was a all around bad party-that was her 4th) anyway, mom said I shouldn't throw her one this year cause she will come to expect one every year, plus, she'll just remember hving parties, and not one special thing about her b-day. My daughter just started kindergarten last week and I though a b-day party would be a great way to get to know / meet her classmates better. I prob won't be throwing another party till sh'es at least8. I don't see the big deal. Mom said the decision is mine. Does anyone have a take on this? What do you think? is it spoiling(i don't count her 4th, it was such a disaster) I would appreciate evryones opinions.

2006-08-23 13:53:28 · 16 answers · asked by Alexis and Abbigails' mommy 4 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

2006-08-23 13:50:10 · 18 answers · asked by A B 1 in Pregnancy

Can a girl who's had sex before have her hymen grow back?

2006-08-23 13:46:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

In school, girls go to loo together in group. Infact one girl wait for another so that she both can go together.They are not lesbians.

Why they do?

2006-08-23 13:45:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

I was playing some crazy cartwheels and tumbling and just going crazy at me friends house.. Then when I came home i was about to take a shower and then my vagina (well the outside) felt wierd.. I looked and this part was like.. broken in half and I paniced.. I didn't want to tell my mom of course.. So can someone help me? (Im only almost 13 so I haven't had sex and no i don't masturbate.)

2006-08-23 13:44:13 · 16 answers · asked by xgloomy_heartbreakerx 1 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

i just met a frien at school, and she totally trusts me, and i know i can keep a secret after she told me what the secret was i was astonshied! it had something to do with her parents if you know what i mean.....anyways what should i do, im in a big mess right now, i mean have you ever met someone with the scariest life ever???

2006-08-23 13:42:56 · 12 answers · asked by ccg 1 in Adolescent

I was playing some crazy cartwheels and tumbling and just going crazy at me friends house.. Then when I came home i was about to take a shower and then my vagina (well the outside) felt wierd.. I looked and this part was like.. broken in half and I paniced.. I didn't want to tell my mom of course.. So can someone help me? (Im only almost 13 so I haven't had sex and no i don't masturbate.)

2006-08-23 13:42:39 · 21 answers · asked by xgloomy_heartbreakerx 1 in Grade-Schooler

What would be your reasoning either way?

2006-08-23 13:42:17 · 19 answers · asked by rabble rouser 6 in Parenting

I know hormones are off the roof after pregnancy, but, 3 MONTHS LATER, is it normal to have mood swings and get extremely angry about simple things?

I want to find out if this is something hormonal or psycological. Ima single mother and had a hard pregnancy due to the baby's father leaving us when I was just 4 months preganant...

Is it due to the hormones or do I need psycological help to get over what happened?

ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE...

2006-08-23 13:41:31 · 11 answers · asked by lilly_mom_pr 4 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

2006-08-23 13:38:28 · 20 answers · asked by A B 1 in Pregnancy

I work with this girl. she is sooooooo hard to work with she's only 5 months pregnant and her baby's not due til the end of december. It's so hard for me to work with her cause i want to slap the PI SS out of her all the time. She's been taking Hydrocondine. Yeah i know it's ookay to take it if the doctor says so but she takes them when she's in a bad mood. So she will feel better. Even tho everyone at our job has told her its not a good thing for the baby she does it anyways. One day last week she came to work saying "I think my babies dead!! I havent felt it moved" like she told everyone with a complete smile on her face! As if it was no big deal. She's always rubbing her belly and saying "god i wish i'd had an abortion" then we were talking one day about red headed babies i think there so adorable! i want a red headed baby! Well she's like if my baby has red hair its going to be so ugly!

2006-08-23 13:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5 in Trying to Conceive

I heard you shouldnt, I heard it could cause a miscarriage. Is this true ?

2006-08-23 13:31:10 · 19 answers · asked by fleurgerbera 1 in Pregnancy

2006-08-23 13:28:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Trying to Conceive

2006-08-23 13:28:18 · 17 answers · asked by Mike K 3 in Parenting

you know punk, preppy, goth, jock

2006-08-23 13:24:31 · 11 answers · asked by greenluxi 4 in Adolescent