My fiance's brother is in the air force and his wife lives here in my town and she works at the mcdonalds up the street she is 7 months pregnant and has cheated on her husband with 3 or 4 different guys they have a 1 year old together too...... his wife just turned 18 we use to be friends but she used me and I could just stand back and watch her cheat on her husband.... Well her husband is coming home in a few weeks do you think that I should tell him??? Him and my fiance don't get along that well so I don't think that he would believe him if he told him.... so do you think I should say something??
2006-08-23 14:04:11 · 15 answers · asked by Groover_84 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
he deserves to be told the truth. chances are, he could be supporting children that are not his, or worse, he could contact an STD from this woman.
if you do not tell him as soon as possible, then he will find out much later and will have wasted that much time in an unhealthy relationship.
i know it will not be easy to tell him this. maybe he won't want to believe it at first. think about what you are going to say to him before you approach him. give him just the facts that you have seen with your own two eyes. he can not dispute you b/c you have no ulterior motives- you are concerned about him. apologize for having to tell him this horrible news, say that you did not want to believe it either. stress the fact that you would not have approached him about this matter unless you were 100% sure of what you were saying.
2006-08-23 14:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by miss advice 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
While the situation is sort of your business, it's not your place to tell him that his wife is cheating...nor is it your fiance's place...his wife needs to tell him...meaning, you and your fiance (though you may not get along) need to go to her and tell her she needs to come clean to her husband. If she refuses, discuss the issue with your fiance...even though he doesn't get along with his brother, I'm sure he doesn't want him to get hurt. Also, I wouldn't say anything without substantial proof. I hope everything turns out alright..cheating is a pretty horrible thing to do to a person...and don't let her blame it on the Air Force...my husband is in the Navy and I wouldn't do anything like that to him....especially if I were already pregnant.
2006-08-23 22:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by squigit1985 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should know that his wife is cheating. As she is already pregnant, chances are she's not practicing safe sex. She could be carrying an STD without having symptoms of it. This can not only jeopardize the baby's health, but also her husband's and everyone else that she's having sexual contact with.
If he doesn't believe you, that's his choice. It would be better if you knew the other guys' names, so he could ask them. If you have a common friend or know of anyone else that can back up your story, then they should accompany you.
2006-08-23 21:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should say something.. You should at least try to make him believe, I mean what would you make something like that up. What his wife is doing is wrong, and her husband should know...
2006-08-23 21:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by fleurgerbera 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I beleive it is better if he'll be the one to catch what his wife is doing. Do not get yourself in trouble. Your fiance and his brother might have a bigger gap if you are going to say or do something.Let things flow. I know you can't stand how things are going but you are not in the right position.
2006-08-23 21:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by â?¥t|nYâ?¥ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hi,,,, wow.... thats a tought call on that..... sounds like she was a tramp to being with... and with 2 children.... its awful.....
You can tell him,, but will he believe you...?? She is going to keep on doing what she is doing ,, spite what you tell him...
Just dont get involved where you are the butt end..... of the blame...
good luck
2006-08-23 21:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is the child she is carrying his? Frankly you should say something and if you have other people that are not that well connected with you that know her and know she's cheating you should expose it.
2006-08-23 21:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by marajade_04 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anonymous note should do it. Be VERY factual. Dates/times/names/places.
2006-08-23 21:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by badbilly 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO. Stay out of it. If u say any thing u will be stirring up trouble. They will call u a trouble maker
2006-08-23 21:14:22 · answer #9 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOO, Don't say anything, he will realize it by himself, if you say something all you are doing is getting in trouble and believe me it is not worth it at all, I know he is your brother and you love him but it's not your position to say something.
2006-08-23 21:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by starfedra 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋