I know that a lot of the times, before a person deploys, that they become distant from the people that care about them most. As I have several friends with husbands in the military, I was told to expect this a long time ago. While I don't have a husband in the military, I DO have a best friend in the military. We've always been close for years, and he is like a big brother to me. He is leaving VERY soon. My problem is, lately, he has been acting in the most hurtful way. I know that he is busy, so I can understand the lack of communication; however, he has also been saying the most hurtful things ever. It's like he is deliberately being mean and obnoxious. He has always been a very sweet person, and has NEVER acted this way before. How can I be there for him and try to help him through what has to be a very hurtful time, without at the same time sacrificing my feelings? I want to stand by him, but it's tearing me up when he says the things he does.
2006-10-01
06:55:37
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