I am an international guy who came here to the U.S as a dependant to accompany my wife while she is studying for her PhD. My immigration status was F-2 or dependant and I recently changed to student status i.e. F-1 so I could study as well as my wife, I was interested in studying English language as a way to keep me busy (because dependants in the US are not allowed to work legally or attend school full time and I had nothing to do during my wife's first semester at school and it was a very hard situation) also to improve my English skills and I wanted to start from the beginning level even though my English was good( I believed that i should start from the beginning and i was quite wrong), as you will see this was a big mistake that I made and now I'm regretting it very much: In my search for a good English program I found an intensive English program in a nearby college and enrolled in the program, the program gave me a placement test but I intentionally messed it up so they would allow me start from the beginning level(they give this test to all the students to determine their English level and students must start from that level not they level they want) but now that I am attending the classes I found them quite boring and unbearable, the books and topics discussed are really easy and the level of my classmates sucks! I even looked at the books for higher levels 2, 3, etc and found them quite easy as well, there isn't really much for me to learn from this program so it would be absolutely a waste of time and money for me to continue with this program. I regret very much that I enrolled in this program and I regret much more that I made the second mistake of messing up the placement test and starting from the beginning level. Yesterday I went to the program director and told him that I would like to withdraw from the program but I couldn't tell him what I did in the placement test, first he said that the instructors have decided to move me to a higher level i.e. to level 2 but honestly that does not solve my problem, he also said that if I still decide to withdraw, there wouldn't be any refund for me because the program is a non-degree program and part of the college continuing education and their refund policies are different from the other branch of the college for degree seeking students(But I heard from somewhere that in exceptional cases and with the permission of the dean of continuing education they can do that). Also he said if I choose to withdraw I would be out of my immigration status and must leave the US within a short period of time that could be 15-20 days, however he was not quite sure of this time frame and said he would find out more about the actual time frame, if this time frame is correct or if it's at least in range I will not be able to leave the country within this short time because I need some more time at least 3-4 months to work on my wife slowly slowly and convince her to accept and let me leave her and go back to my country, I had a good job there and I can go back and resume the job that I had there, I can not tell her at once that I want to leave her and the US, that would be very very shocking and totally unexpected to her and would definitely have an adverse impact on her studies in the new semester. The director of the program and the instructors are nice people and I appreciate their decision to move me to a higher level but the problem is that my true level of English is even higher than this 2nd level and I could not tell the truth to the director that I intentionally did badly in the placement test. I would be embarrassed and it would be inappropriate for me to say this to them and most importantly the fact of the matter is that I really want to withdraw from their program and get the refund and I do not really want to continue with this program. So my friends just to summarize my problem is that I want to withdraw from the program officially and I need to get as mush of the refund as possible because I paid all the tuition which was too much and I only attended the classes for two weeks and after I managed to do that then I need to stay in the US at least for another 3-4 months to work on my wife and get her ready and accept to let me go back to my country. That would be beneficial to both of us though it's difficult but it's only a few years and then she can come back home after she finishes her studies and in the meantime I will come several times to see her. I would appreciate it very much if you could help me find a solution or if you could share with me any similar experiences that you or any one that you know has had or if you could give me any good advice or information that could help me get out of this difficult situation. I know it was my mistake and I have only myself to blame but still I do not want to do any thing illegal and what I want from this program or the US government is not too much to ask. If I do not find any solution to this problem I would have to somehow get the program to let me sit the placement test again and start from my true level but they say they normally would not give the students a second chance to retake the placement test.
Thank you very much for your time and assistance, Rojin
2007-01-27
17:43:16
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