Mental Health - September 2007

does anyone else here, have the biggest fear of death?
i know it is goin to happen to all of us, and we just dont know when, but i think its the not knowing that gets me. i really scare myself thinkin about this so much, and i know i shouldnt.

i keep thinking what will happen when my parents, or brothers die.. its my family dying, and eventually there will be nothin left of my family.

i know what i mean, i just cant explain it. please dont think im a freak, and im just so scared, and i dont want to spend my hole life worrying about it as i know death waits for nobody.

i sometimes ly in my bed at night and wonder what will happen, i keep thinking when my family dies there is a feeling inside me, in my chest and its not sore but it is the strangest feeling, and i get it when i think of this. new people coming in to my street taking over the houses of my family and our neighbours that have been there all their lives. makin new memories, when it was ours to begin with!

help

2007-09-05 06:41:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 06:17:30 · 17 answers · asked by Kermit 3

2007-09-05 06:03:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 17 year old girl, I have been physically and verbally abused my whole life.
Both of my parents are mentally ill, my father has a personality disorder and my mother has severe dysthymic disorder.
I have daily thoughts of suicide.
I used to see a therapist, but my father would always yell at me about how expensive it was, and that just made me feel even worse, so I stopped making appointments.
The only thing that keeps me alive is my love for my boyfriend and thoughts of the future I might someday have with him.
I don't feel like this is enough to keep me holding on.
How can I deal with these thoughts?
Are there any support groups that you can reccomend?

2007-09-05 05:41:17 · 36 answers · asked by Nanci Raygun 6

My mother appears to have Alzheimers as her short term memory is almost nil and she is extremely irritable and shows all the symptoms of the disease. When she gets upset about nothing, how should I deal with the conflict as she has lost her ability to reason. Also, I cannot have her committed because I don't want to go into state/foster care. I am 17 and my sister is 15. At what point is it not worth it anymore?

2007-09-05 05:31:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

first he said that he only had one relationship with a girl and she left him for someone better, then he said that she was not the only one that he had several relationships with a lot of girl mostly for just having sex with them and today he says that they were all lies and the truth was that he was a virgin when he met me and i was his first real relationship. i dont know if i should trust him anymore..

he is 24 and its been 10 months since we first met.

2007-09-05 05:04:57 · 13 answers · asked by lonlie 2

I'm broke with no insurance..i'm extremely depessed to point of wanting to end my life...how do i get help?because i really need it.

2007-09-05 04:34:10 · 14 answers · asked by d_unit2k7 1

That's like when you call the crisis hotline & tell someone your problems, & they say you should shot yourself & die, rather than trying to help.

2007-09-05 04:18:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Based on a brief question, 1 lady called herself, trying to diagnose me with Cluster B personality traits & narcissistic. No one has ever called me that before!

& I know I have low self-esteem & I'm depressed all the time, so how can she say that? She told me that just because I mentioned about how I don't like my mental health case manager being so intrusive in my life. I have a case manager because at our mental health clinic, everyone has to have a social worker (case manager) in order to see a psychiatrist.

2007-09-05 03:43:59 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

i havent been myself lately. i notice im losing intrest in the things i loved to do. i have a therapist that i talk to, she makes thing better. i told myself that i would never ever let me get that way. i dont know whats going on im a hughely optimitisc person. hanging out with freind seems to make it go away...maybe it because school is tommorrow? i dont know, im crying as i type this..please tell me how i can my happiness back before i get depressed

2007-09-05 02:17:13 · 9 answers · asked by ^MomentaryInsanity^ 3

Honestly I think they are just made up ailments that do not exisit and are just used as labels to excuse braty obnocious kids and lazy parents.

What do you guys think?

2007-09-05 02:16:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel uncomfortable with my friends. but thats not i'm worried about. the situation is that i blogged about these few people and it was suppose to be just my own and a couple of my freinds, i was feeling so angry that i actually blogged about them continuosly because they always treat me like ****. these few girls are pend on making my life a living hell now. what makes it worse is that my boyfriend suppositely joked about me & him having sex which is not true. and they took it seriously, now to make matters worse they're gonna go to my mother and complain, I know what they say is not true, but i'm not sure if my mom is going to believe me or them.

my bf said that i didnt need to worry because she's my mother and she's gonna believe me, not some girls who hate me. but what if she doesnt? what if what they say makes my mom loose trust in me, and what if i loose more than my friends but love from my parents?

2007-09-05 01:23:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

tougher to go outside, how would you deal with it?
have you ever been in this situation?

plus your not in the situation to leave right now.

2007-09-05 01:01:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know a girl having age of 21 behaving very bad, having a lot of love relationship at same time. i talked to her doctor, and he says she have temperament. she looses interest with a boy after sexual relationship. and she satisfies by cheating him. I talked to most of the boys who loved her. everyone says that she initially proves that she is so good, and everyone thinks that she is the girl that i am looking for as a partner. but periodically she changes her character and looses interest and gets satisfied when they are got cheated, Every Boys who related to her says the same words and she repets the same words to all, She also used to use them and ask money for her use, but no one is aware that she is telling lies. She always quarrel with her mother from her earlier age, creates so many problem at home. throws the tea cups while drinking tea if anything hurts her etc... but before some people she behaves good and lateron goes bad

2007-09-05 00:56:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

By making a person sensible? or will it tend to disgrace a person and make him a target because he is disgraced?

2007-09-05 00:12:12 · 4 answers · asked by godbar 2

My family has a huge debt and my parents are constantly fighting about it, I'm left to take care of my twin bro & sis that are 4 all the time, and our lawyer that my parents hate is one of my best friends dad and now he knows I know! Lately whenever I hear my parents fight I get headaches, stomaches, and now I can't sleep because I stay awake thinking about it. I don't know what to do and how to de-stress. I'm normally a really relaxed person but this is making me insane and I'm scared I'm gonna give myself a stomach ulser and go CRAZY!! On the outside and around other people I'm so calm and everyone things I'm perfect and that my life is too, I never let people see my cry or stressed, it's too hard for me because I'm the one that keeps my family together and is always there for people with THEIR problems.

UGGHGHGH HELP PLEASE!!!!

2007-09-04 22:29:53 · 26 answers · asked by doodle 2

2007-09-04 21:40:39 · 6 answers · asked by only kewal 4

and even better! after a harsh period of depression and now 5 weeks gone through treatment (paxil)
i feel like im backto my normal routine and even calmer now
i can make better decisions, i got the charm back and i am ready to go out once again with friends and have good time

hows everyone doin!

2007-09-04 21:18:39 · 10 answers · asked by Jiggyman 1

I know you've probably heard all this before but i really need/want help. I feel dead inside. I have no energy. No matter how well my day goes, deep down i'm always sad-it's like i'm always going to be sinking in sorrow. I just feel like i can't go on. Hiding my feelings from everyone is so exhausting, but i can't tell anyone. My friends just don't understand and my parents don't take me seriously. The counsellors in my reach don't take me seriously either, because i'm so young and i don't really have a reason for being so upset. It's like i have no energy. I can hardly think. What's happening?

2007-09-04 20:50:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need something that can come to my mailbox daily.

2007-09-04 20:19:06 · 2 answers · asked by nileshsawant1 1

Does anyone feel like they are more sensitive to the cold when they are extremely anxious? NOt like chills running up the body but like just being cold when you normally wouldnt be cold....

2007-09-04 20:19:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have severe anxiety and have had it for years. I've always taken Xanax, only as needed which amounted to about only a total of 2mg needed per month. I want to ask my doctor if I can try Valium instead of Xanax for occasional use.

I have three questions.

1. If you have safely used Xanax, can it be expected that you will not have an adverse reaction to valium then?

2. What is the major difference in the two drugs. I know valium lasts longer, but what other noticable affects will there be?

3. Is valium less addictive and better for longer term, use then Xanax?

Thanks

2007-09-04 19:54:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-04 19:17:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I very much feared about cancer. How shall I come our from the fear. Please help me about the negative thoughts. I love very much my husband. I don't lwant to leave him along in the world.

2007-09-04 19:16:11 · 8 answers · asked by VIJAYASUBHA R 1

i am so nervous i have a minimum day but i have to go to bed in like 7 minutes and i am hekkka nervous. sorry bad spelling but i need to calm down. im scared im entering highschool this year. and i dont want to be picked on my seniors or anything. I am nervous like i said a million times. any advice PLEASE? thanks alot

2007-09-04 18:50:32 · 16 answers · asked by Vince F 2

2007-09-04 18:42:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm dealing with depression that is definitely affecting my daily life, it gets me in mood swings, that can make me very sensitive about things. i've started a new job, and i'm trying to stay positive, cuz i need the job. i hate it but i intend to keep it. i just need something to bring me out of my negativity when i feel it coming on.

2007-09-04 18:37:32 · 7 answers · asked by Y 5

please somebody tell me the names of pills/medicines for anxiety and panic attack, that can be purchased over the counter. Thanks

2007-09-04 18:37:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mum comited suicide last year when i was 13 is it normal to think about doing it yourself? just have that thought run Through your mind now and then?

2007-09-04 18:31:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has tapered down to 100mg today. He is in so much pain and he is out of pills. Any suggestions on how to detox at home. I'd really appreciate real advice. Every clinic or helpline I call says to take him to the ER but he is refusing. Thanks for any helpful advice.

2007-09-04 18:26:13 · 10 answers · asked by Reneena 1