first he said that he only had one relationship with a girl and she left him for someone better, then he said that she was not the only one that he had several relationships with a lot of girl mostly for just having sex with them and today he says that they were all lies and the truth was that he was a virgin when he met me and i was his first real relationship. i dont know if i should trust him anymore..
he is 24 and its been 10 months since we first met.
2007-09-05 05:04:57 · 13 answers · asked by lonlie 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you should get a new boyfriend
2007-09-05 05:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by mom of 3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The current trend here seems to be that men say don't worry about truthfulness and women say to dump him. As a male, I would like to buck the pattern and suggest that if he lies about past relationships, there is no telling what else he is or will lie about. I would back away from him until he gets his story straight. You sure don't want to marry someone you cannot trust.
2007-09-05 05:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mark D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for a serious relationship, not only should you not trust him, you shouldn't even be dating him anymore. This is not the type of person to foster a long term relationship with. If you decide to stay with him, PLEASE do not rush into marrying this guy or having kids. A real man us honest to you and respectful of you. This guy is neither. You sound pretty young too. Do yourself a favor and don't waste anymore time on this guy.
2007-09-05 05:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he might be trying to say what he thinks that you want to hear. he might not be real secure in his relationship with you. if the first story he told you is true then i can see how he might be insucure. what you might want to try to do is let him know that you didn't start dating him because of his past but for what the future holds. and hopefully that will make him open up. however if you feel as though you can not believe what he is saying then you may want to consider ending the relationship because trust is the main ingrediant in a successfull relationship. hope that this helps
2007-09-05 05:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good way to start a relationship with lies. Confront him on this, maybe he will come clean about his past now that you have been together so long. He could of been embarrassed of his past, or was tellin you what he thought you wanted to hear. regardless you are entitled to the truth, demand it! and if you don't get it with a promise that honesty is a priority in your relationship, quit investing your time in this relationship
2007-09-05 05:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by charm1936 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assume he is lying and examine your feelings towards him. Even if he is a liar, do you love him? If yes, enjoy the love without bothering about the truth.
Trust is important and if that is lacking, the relationship may not last long. Best wishes.
2007-09-05 05:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What others things is he keeping from you? He is not an honest person. It's been ten months so I'm sure you love him, but do you really want to invest more time with a liar?? I say dump him and find someone else. You will waste your time wondering if what he is saying is true or not... Take care!
2007-09-05 05:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by ~Kim~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust him anymore; he's already lied to you at least two times!... you should move on to someone who isn't going to lie to you from the start. Could you imagine that you stay with him and in a year he's lying to you about panties you found in the backseat of the car?? Don't chance it.
2007-09-05 05:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by sugarcookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Lay it all out on the table for him... tell him that you can't trust him because you don't know what to believe any more... then move on...
You sound like a really nice person, and he's taking advantage of that. Find someone who will treat you with the respect that you DESERVE!
2007-09-05 05:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by Milosmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist give him the benefit of the doubt i feel every one tell a little lie so what give hime a chance and u will c
2007-09-05 05:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by rrobtex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, his past shouldn't be an issue. Honestly, it sucks he's lying, but this is more your problem than his.
2007-09-05 05:13:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋