Mental Health - December 2006

2006-12-03 09:16:31 · 5 answers · asked by peter j 1

i forget locking door,doing works that other tell me 2 do and they make me very nervous

2006-12-03 08:43:03 · 15 answers · asked by pouya_molk 1

it was vary sad and i still miss him he was like my cousion I talk to him about every thing but just he got into a car crash and boom died i'm scared and helpless please! help

2006-12-03 08:40:45 · 21 answers · asked by Kk 1

My drug addict/alcohol husband and I were separated because of his abuse over the summer and then I gave him another chance. The signs of use were still there, and the emotional abuse and he abused me physically once. After kicking him out again and this time for good (after being out all night a number of times and showing lots of signs of paranoia), he has called at the wee hours of the morning the last two nights saying "Goodbye" and "I'm sorry for everything. I love you. Goodbye". he leaves messages as I'm not answering. Should I call him? I know if he came home or I was caring at all, it'd be the same thing in 2 or 3 days. I can't stand to go there again. I feel like a failure with marriage and wish I'd never met him. What if he dies?

2006-12-03 08:37:59 · 28 answers · asked by HelpOneAnother 2

2006-12-03 08:34:52 · 12 answers · asked by jhbdfdsf 1

i dont have a car. i dont feel like reading. If i eat anymore i will explode. i need to do something because i am sad and i need something to get my mind of it. and being lazy wont help. Please help.

2006-12-03 08:28:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I forgot My Name Do You Knwo What it It?

2006-12-03 08:20:28 · 9 answers · asked by jhbdfdsf 1

Have u ever felt like anywhere u go u dont belong and being around any person just brings out the worst in u?

2006-12-03 08:19:08 · 16 answers · asked by hail2mech 1

My boyfriend and I really love each other but I don't want to risk pregnancy so when we do have sex we use a condom.Well for some reason after sex or oral he smears some of his semen on his fingers and starts fingering me.I told him that I don't like him doing that because I could get pregnant and then he gets all insulted that I don't want to have HIS BABY.We're both in our early 20's and still in college so I believe it's not time for us to have a child especially since we're not married.He told me that I'm his woman and as his woman he can do with me any way that he wants.There have been other times after sex when he has peed on all over my body saying that he's "MARKING" me as his property and he wants other men to know that I'm his.Is he crazy or is this typical of all men?Even when he took my virginity he pushed inside me really slow even though he knew I was in pain. He told me that he wanted me to remember who was my first and only.This is also my first sexual relationship.

2006-12-03 08:09:35 · 26 answers · asked by Britney S 2

2006-12-03 07:59:59 · 9 answers · asked by fromatoms2adam 1

I am seriously fighting a deep depression because of this. If there was an investigation and he were found guilty, THEN I'd be eligible for assistance, but until it's exposed I am out in the cold.

If the police do not SEE a crime then they also do not SEE a victim. I am invisible. I have "waves" of uncontrolable crying spells and I can't seem to shake it. I broke down in church again today. It's getting to where I do not want to leave the house at all.

I have no job, no money, and no way to pay for a counselor. Counselors wouldn't understand anyway. What I've been through is not NORMAL.

Some of the laundered cash went through my checkbook- he would reimburse my credit card purchases with cash. I worked with him off & on for nearly 3 years and finally figured out where $800,000 had come and gone through the use of phony invoices in two shell companies. The IRS or FBI will surely assume I knew because we were married.

What do I do? Can anyone help?

2006-12-03 07:57:22 · 3 answers · asked by upside down 4

One a week are killers in the UK, which is a hell of a lot of people?
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/6203256.stm
What proportion have made threats to kill?

What proportion are men?

What proportion correspond to which ethnic identities?

What are the age groups of the killers?
Why do they kill?

2006-12-03 07:48:34 · 7 answers · asked by Perseus 3

i am 22 years old now been on my own since 18. since i was as young as i can remember all the way until i was 13 i was sexually abused by my uncle. My dad did it to me once when i was 12. All this was reported when i was 16 my uncle reported to doing more than i thought he did and my dad denied it with my mom on his side. So at 16 i was put in a persons home from my church. My parents made me stay in my room or go outside i was not allowed in the rest of the house except for meals. So this i did in the new house i was in and got in huge trouble saying now they see why my parents gave me away!!! So as soon as school was over i got a job and got my own place and been liveing alone ever since. My pastor went through a book with me but that is not councelling. It was the bondage breakers by niel anderson if anyone knows of it. I am now 22 with a dad that wont talk to me since i was 16 never really did anyway unless i was in trouble and still the memories. what should i do?

2006-12-03 07:43:03 · 7 answers · asked by heyyou133 1

My sister had a baby about three months ago and she is acting very depressed all the time and when she took some type of online test it told her she was severly depressed and she needs to go see someone. What can i do to help her and make her think that everything will be ok?

2006-12-03 07:33:12 · 5 answers · asked by josiesmom305 2

do you ever feel sad and if so, what's it about and what do you do then

thanx

2006-12-03 07:31:39 · 2 answers · asked by Eden 1

I want to come off seroxat, (otherwise known as paroxotine) its the one which was on the panorama twice for its addictive "qualities", I tried once to come off before and did so very slowly, from 20mg to none over 9 months, 18 months later in total, I wound up in a general psychiatric unit as I was panicky and depressed and wanted to kill myself,

I am scared to come off the drug but feel so little in the way of improvement from my initial diagnosis and being put onto it. I was offered to try something else which I am skeptical about and would rather not, but cant even consider it until this one is out of my system (will be a long long time away as I have been on seroxat this time (after my last efforts of withdrawal) for three and a half years.

Any one got any suggestions?

2006-12-03 07:25:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 06:55:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

dont you feel happy right know? just think of all the postive things in your life! be happy!

2006-12-03 06:35:17 · 16 answers · asked by Tess c 2

I've been dealing with depression for awhile and have just recently been put on Lexapro for it. I've also been going to talk therapy for that. I'm a college student who lives at home and my family is very pessimistic about everything. My boyfriend just broke up with me a few days ago, so that's not helping matters any. What can I do to feel better and more positive about my life? I don't mean quick fixes like alcohol or one night stands or anything....I mean some things I can do to feel more like a whole person, to help me have a more positive, optimistic outlook on things.

2006-12-03 06:34:16 · 12 answers · asked by Stephanie M 1

I believe that it is dangerous to take antidepressants to achieve happiness because it takes away control from the person to feel in charge of their own life.

I believe depression is an unpleasant feeling that should not just be ingnored but looked at and try to find out what is the root of the suffering and then find ways such as changing attitudes or accepting a painful reality. That way you can truly permently take control of your life and transform it into something positive.

I think using antidepressives is almost like using alcohol to numb pain and escape reality instead of taking charge of it.

What do you think?

2006-12-03 06:33:28 · 8 answers · asked by Alejandra 1

under what sitiuation shuld one declare that he or she is depressed.any web on depression is welcomed.thanks.

2006-12-03 06:19:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 06:10:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 06:09:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently got into a bad cutting habit and really want to stop. How should I go about doing this?

I don't want to go to a therapist or anything though.

2006-12-03 06:09:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm tired of constantly living for nothing, I'm tired of beeng alone, i'm tired of not knowing where and why I'm going, I'm broken - i don't want to help myself anymore, I cannot enjoy talking to people anymore, I've lost interested in everyhing I was ever interested in. My dreams are brocken and not real. Everything I ever lived for, all the inspirations all the dreams all the values are gone. I wanted to do it right, but everything I did, turned out on me, just another mistake. I've been creating problems for myself, because I wasn't ever sure of anything. I never new how to do it exatly. I rebeled from what i thought was wrong but I got myself nowhere. I am sitting here and doing what I'm doing but my soul is dying day, by day. I have noone to talk to, except academic counselor, who hopefully I'll talk to next week. I'm done........i cannot stop crying.........i feel like i'm dying....from inside...

2006-12-03 06:03:46 · 16 answers · asked by Greene 1

I want to give my dad a hug and tell him that I love him, but I'm afraid of how he will react or he won't react the way I want him to. He never says I love you and he hasn't given me a hug in years...my dad is 56 and I'm 29. I feel the need to know he loves me and I want to hear it and give him a big hug. I'm feeling low confidence right now and feel comfortable around everyone in my family with the exception of my dad. Its weird because this just started happening. I don't know if I notice how much of a complainer he is because my self-esteem is low right now, but it's putting me down. He can be very grouchy and serious. On the otherhand, it's not like he doesn't love me because last night he called me to let me know a t.v. show I liked was on and he asked me how I was doing this morning. Has my mind created a huge mess that parts of me thinks he's disappointed in me and I'm intimidated by him and our relationship will never be the same again? Should I hug him or what do I do?

2006-12-03 06:03:22 · 17 answers · asked by qrazigirl 1

2006-12-03 05:59:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

like ive heared that having music on can help you but then others say that it distracts u, and whats the best advice to stop getting distracted. any adice would be much apreciated. tnx

2006-12-03 05:52:00 · 3 answers · asked by lost_cyclist 1

I have been taking this medication for over 15 years and it has been some help to my OCD and anxiety but NOT a cure all! I am concerned of long term effects of this medication. Does anyone know first-hand what are the long term side effects, pharama companies are not telling us?

2006-12-03 05:29:29 · 3 answers · asked by Amir P 1

I have to make a big presentation in front of a small, but intimidating audience. I have not been able to sleep for worrying about it. Any advice?

2006-12-03 05:03:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous