Mental Health - August 2006

i am an engineering student (2nd year) ..

2006-08-04 23:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by peter 1

I am married, but find myself attracted to other pretty women all the time; I get turned on not just by nudity of other women, but even a flash of their body parts, whereas I dont get turned on even when my wife stands nude in front of me. I fantasize about other girls often and masturbate. I love my wife, and always feel guilty about what I do/ think. I have tried getting rid of this habit, but not successful. All that I am able to do is consciously avoid looking at other women and pornography, but still the thoughts creep into me. I am carrying this baggage of guilty consciousness all the time. To add insult to injury, my wife is a mind reader and knows what I am thinking about when I make love with her. She constantly chides me saying that my this habit is reason for all our miseries. Can anyone help? I am looking for serious answers. Dont tell me to leave my wife. I love her too much and we have kids as well.

2006-08-04 23:13:41 · 28 answers · asked by handsome 1

I was in an imbarising situation, and felt dumb. now I keep torturing my self replaying it over and over in my mind. it was one of those situations where you say something dumb, not rude just dumb, and as you are saying it you realise it is but you are to late to stop then its said... and then the uncomfortable silence.

2006-08-04 22:50:12 · 15 answers · asked by AHMED s 1

Did it work? Recommend a therapist or a book?

2006-08-04 22:50:09 · 9 answers · asked by BlahDeBlah 2

2006-08-04 22:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by faranak j 1

Like i was saying, I have a psychothist, and a therapist, and i take medication. I have even been to Psych wards and stayed for weeks at a time. I have even been to Long-Term-Care Wards (for 7str8 months). Nothing ever helps. Sometimes i think its getting better then boom; Right back where i started from. I dont know what to do anymore. Sometimes i think Suicide is the only way to end all the pain. But that will cause severe pain to all those who care about me. So that would be selfish. But what can i do to get raid of this pain. I think thats how its going to end up though. Suicide. No other soultion. Tried it all. Now i even have a drug dependence to go along with everything esle. PainKiLLers. I just want be free from everything. Not attention, or "happy pills", or whatever. Just to be Normal. but i dont think that will ever be so. Any suggestions?

2006-08-04 22:39:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-04 22:05:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-04 22:04:37 · 16 answers · asked by freemind ci 2

I feel that I undeniably, without question, have it. Does everyone else feel this way too?

2006-08-04 22:01:06 · 7 answers · asked by nunya 3

how can i control this? pls give the solutions positively

2006-08-04 21:55:14 · 11 answers · asked by keshiv r 2

I know I need to seek treatment, that's obvious. I'm looking for personal experiences and other ways of dealing.

2006-08-04 21:42:22 · 15 answers · asked by nunya 3

I have really strange dreams at least 4 times a week. violent dreams in which people are getting hurt and killed.

2006-08-04 21:29:07 · 10 answers · asked by star sailor 3

Whenever I am in school, and we are required to recite, I get too nervous even when I am confident with my answer and also, when I know my answer is 100% correct. When the teacher just says "NEXT!!", I get too nervous to the point that I think I would faint. Is there something wrong with me?

2006-08-04 21:23:48 · 14 answers · asked by Martinohs5106 2

Either for medical or recreational usage.

2006-08-04 21:04:38 · 6 answers · asked by Just Ask 2

2006-08-04 20:56:12 · 11 answers · asked by Rico 3

I've never been addicted to drugs, but i have funny stories from acid trips in high school and smoking weed etc.

2006-08-04 19:27:50 · 8 answers · asked by Jeffrey M K 2

2006-08-04 19:04:42 · 6 answers · asked by tjanet23 2

i think ihad dysthimia(sp?) since i was a toddler, then the depression kicked in hard when i was in 8th grade. i JUST turned 32 (8/4/06) and i wonder if this ever gets better.

2006-08-04 18:48:59 · 13 answers · asked by 296.33 1

2006-08-04 18:45:04 · 9 answers · asked by tjanet23 2

I feel shy and very nervouse when i am at the bank counter or in a bus- my hands and legs start shanking, heart pounding rapidly, shaky voice. People always say they cant hear me well. When i am nervouse, my eyes go red, difficulty making eye contact and i feel that the person, i am talking to, has doubted on me that i am a stupid and dishonest person. I really dont know what what should i do for this problem. Please someone advise me...

2006-08-04 18:31:28 · 12 answers · asked by johan 1

Some men at work get great joy out of scaring me repeatedly everyday. I will admit that I do startel easy, but now I feel I can't turn by back w/out a "BOO" or such coming next. I have tried for a long time to ;years, to make the best of it . Now I'm TIRED OF IT!!!

2006-08-04 18:28:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-04 18:07:37 · 8 answers · asked by ermaarthur@sbcglobal.net 3

my girlfriend wrote this on yahoo answers...is she nuts ? i do not know what to do...

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i have visions and anxiety and i see cross going in my virgina?
i have big levelof anxiety and i see crosses in my virgina going inside and i feel pain
am i crazy and what i do to be better

i see them every day for 5 years

i feel depressed and scared

pleasehelp me ore i wil;l dye
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2006-08-04 17:59:23 · 11 answers · asked by ca871boy 1

I have Borderline Personality Disorder. No matter what happens, good things, bad things, I cannot be happy about anything. I am always sad. No motivation. I am fat. I cannot seem to lose weight. I hate myself. I hate that I am mentally ill. I am on Zoloft, Elavil, Klonopin and now Ritalin. Has anyone had success with Ritalin?
Please only reply if you can really help me. No jokes please...

2006-08-04 17:57:04 · 33 answers · asked by rach_cast 3

2006-08-04 17:55:46 · 5 answers · asked by MOMOFIAN 2

I know i have all the necessary skills and i am a graduate but i feel very unomfortable or shy making good eye contact at anyone. I am now 29 years aged and very unhappy and struggling about this problem. I feel my sorrounding people, friends, familly members are not happy or feelling discomfort spending time with me. It would be appreciable if someone could advise me about this problem.

2006-08-04 17:43:08 · 38 answers · asked by johan 1

2006-08-04 17:39:32 · 20 answers · asked by Ashwarya 1

2006-08-04 17:23:11 · 4 answers · asked by chezatoc 1

I want to die by self euthanasia. How will I know when the time to go is at hand? I am 63. been physically diabled for 30 years and mentally ill with bi polar for 50 yrs. I have no spouse or child. Real age tells me my physical age is 84. My doctor agrees and says I am a perfect candidate for a stroke, heart attack, kidney failure, amputations and blindness, My diabetes is very poorly controlled. I weigh 300 lbs. I have congestive heart failure. I have post polio syndrome. I live on the income of social security disability. Family is out of state and unavailable to visit or help me in any way. I have no friends, I am very isolated and lonley. I can still tolerate life and enjoy my small service dog and can still manage independent living. The question is how to put myself down and arrange for someone to take care of my dog before these disasters set in and I have no choices left to make.

2006-08-04 17:10:42 · 10 answers · asked by nora7142@verizon.net 6

i've been trying to deal with alot lately, and i think emotionally i'm going downhill. i started thinking about therepy, but i have no clue where to begin.

does anyone have any tips on how i should go about finding a therepist, and how much that stuff costs?

2006-08-04 17:06:59 · 13 answers · asked by Katrina 5