My ex ended things 6 mths ago. It was very serious, things changed over a fairly short period when she said her feelings had changed.
I tried to sort things with her for app 1 mth, she didn;t want to get back together.
We lost touch for 2 mths, we both dated other people briefly, neither worked.
We then got back in touch. Although we put the "as friends" label on it, it clearly wasn't. We lapsed back into doing exactly the sort of stuff we did when together,cooking for each other etc. There was clearly still attraction there.
After 2 mths of this, I decided to let things develop and give her space, I raised us trying again. We had been sat around talking about all the good stuff we did together etc My ex said she didn;t want to try again but, bizarrely, agreed we were very good together.
I said being friends wouldn't work, we would be putting a label on something that wasn't true.
I said we shouldn't be in touch unless she realised she had made a mistake.
Thoughts?
2007-08-25
06:13:53
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