ok so theres this guy at my skool who i REALLY like but then sometimes i just want him DEAD!!!!! its REALLY confusing!!! btw im in 7thgrade if that helps!!!!!! skool started tuesday and hes the new kid and the 1st time i saw im in my english class i was head over heels 4 him then not so much when i found out he had a girlfriend on the 2nd day of skool and then ive noticed that hes real obnoxisous and cocky and all this bullshit so like when ever im around him i HATE him!!! hes a jock so i go kinda by him in the football field at lunch when hes playing football and scream" I HATE JOCKS THEY ARE GAY" and when ever im around him w/ friends i talk about how jocks and football is/are gay and how hes a cockeye!!!!!! yea...!!!! HELP!!!
ok to make this more clear im a boy crazy girl so i just cant ignore the fact! and im not always mean to the ppl i like im pretty flirty actually!! & in class hes always looking at me then the otherday he came up 2 my locker then like hit it then smiled @ me!
2007-08-25 07:06:44 · 28 answers · asked by marrisa cooper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey dont give me bullshit im 2 young 2 date cuz i DONT WANNA HEAR it!!!!
i dont call him gay 2 his face i just say jocks r gay! im not mean 2 him just around him! i actually like him more than i hate him!!!!
oooo yea he has a girlfriend but flirts w/ me in english anyways!!!!!!!
2007-08-25 07:20:02 · update #1
hes NOT bad boy!!!
just annoying!
i like him hes hott!!!!
but then sometimes its like i hate u!
2007-08-25 07:23:53 · update #2
i dont hate him cuz of his gf! that wont stop me!
lol
i dont hate him cuz of football! i lvoe football!!!
i dont hate everyguy i crush on!
im not mean im VERY friendly flirty!!!
2007-08-25 07:26:24 · update #3
Either you love him or hate him. You have to decide
2007-08-25 07:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by azrim h 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG! I had the same problem last year in 6th grade (i'm a sevey 2...) I liked this guy, he was really cocky, & rude, & wasn't really very cute anyway. & when i was around him i couldn't stand him, i wanted him 2 go kill himself! I couldn't stop thinking about him! Over time i just started liking him more & more, still having the same drop dead feeling. All of my friends hated him, so i couldn't get them 2 help me. It drove me insane, then over the summer i met more guys, & i 4got about him.
So, i think u should get 2 know him better, maybe try talking to him more, getting to know him, see how he acts around other ppl more, if e is more sweet then jerky, then u will like him ven more. Bte, it sounds like he likes u 2, so if he asks u out, DON'T SAY NO! U wanna get 2 no him better, a date is good. He may break up w/his gf, so watch out.
2007-08-25 07:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im giving you bull bout how your too young!
I dnt care if you have a bf or anything but you shouldnt b goin crazy over it!
It s not like itll become anything huge if you ever go out with him!
I guess just play along thats all you can do but your justa kid dont worry you ll get plenty of drama in high school dnt start it up early!
And screaming at him during lunch makes u look inmature
2007-09-02 07:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would like to classifie this. FOOTBALL IS NOT GAY. Yes there are a lot of dumbass bigheaded idiots on football teams, BUT WERE NOT ALL MEAN. Now in your case id say you have the classic "We love to hate them" syndrome. This basiclly means the you love to hate him and everything about him. Its a bit childish but everyone feels that way in somepoint of their lifespan. Anyway there are two ways i see this. 1: If hes bigheaded and stuff ONLY around you he probably feels the same way about you. Now if hes like this around everone hes some dumbass jock. In this case I suggest you try and forget about him and find someone esle, because remember There is Beauty Beyond the Skin.
2007-08-25 07:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Max Siedlak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm unclear on the question... if you really want "help" then maybe you should try doing something differently than you usually do. FWIW, I think you're right to be wary of a person who has a girlfriend after only being in a new place 2 days (unless it's one from where he came from before... don't worry, THAT won't last!).
Otherwise you sound like a normal seventh grader to me. If I weren't a mom of someone recently similar, I probably wouldn't have read through your question.
Have fun. :-)
2007-08-25 07:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see if I understand the question you are posing... You like this guy and he dumped you for your best friend then dumping her in turn, practically using the both of you as playthings and you are concerned about why he won't give you the time of day? My question is: why should he be of ANY concern to you? It is evident from your question that he views you and other women as slabs of meat, not as human beings with feelings, cares, wants, and desires. He even has a reputation as being such. What should you do? Chalk this up as a painful, but important learning experience -- there are worse things than being dateless. Be choosy about who you let yourself go out with.
2016-04-01 23:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well stop saying to everyone that you dont like him or wotever you call him behind his back.. if he heard about that if you got together it wouldnt be good would it? secondly just tell him how you feel.. the worset that could happen is that he says no and you start hating him again..
Ask him when hes on his own, he is less likely to be cocky then. I know he has a girlfriend but you can still tell him how you feel its up to him what he does.
2007-09-02 07:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by Rufu99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you are acting like a young girl who is having dificulties expressing her emotions... even to herself. You like the boy and your reaction to that is incorrect. You just have not figured out what you should do. Even though at this point in our life it doesn't matter that much... try not burning the bridge you are walking on... meaning stop turning your emotions toward this boy into hate. Try saying Hi... lol.
2007-08-25 07:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by ELink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he done wrong towards you?? This is just another crush you're having. Don't tell me you're going to hate every guy who you've a crushed on, who already has a girlfriend, who likes football, who... and the story goes on and on..
You're still young, dear. Study first. That will take off your mind on being paranoid. We love you... ;)
2007-08-25 07:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by narnia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't want to be with his girkfriend anymore and he has feelings for and want to go out with u instead. stop hating the guy and start talking to him. have ever heard the saying "don't judge a book by its cover". don't judge him by how he acts. alot of boys think if they act like bab boys that they will get something from the girl they like.
2007-08-25 07:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you want him to notice you you can try not being a jerk. I'm pretty sure guys don't like it when they are called gay. I f you keep this up he's probably going to hate you too.
2007-08-25 07:12:04 · answer #11 · answered by megarrific 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋