Singles & Dating - 23 July 2007

Well theres this girl that really likes me but i have no interest in having a relationship with her. But I would have sex with her. I don't know if I should lie and try to get her in bed or just tell her I don't want a relationship with her. Any suggestions?

2007-07-23 10:52:49 · 11 answers · asked by SMX™ -- Lover Of Hero @};- 5

I started dating someone weeks ago. We had sex for the first time the other night. I have to say....I was disappointed. :( Sex is very important to me and I like him so I was expecting it to be great. (I'm 36 and he's 40).

I was blunt honest with him after and asked if that was an "average" session for him. I critiqued him (in a kind way) and told him honestly what I like and what works for me - and that what he did DIDNT. He said he knew he wasnt going to last long since he was so excited and that is not common for him. (also since you'll ask, his last sexual experience was 2 months ago. 6 months ago for me). I know telling him my disappointment might only exasurbate the situation but I dont think it's fair to not be honest.

I supposed i'd like to think it could get better. It's a dealbreaker for me. I am a very passionate person. Has anyone experienced this and were you able to overcome it - beyond your expectations?

2007-07-23 10:50:27 · 16 answers · asked by Kitten 2

I have always heard that if money would solve all of your problems then you dont have real problems. Do you agree?

2007-07-23 10:44:16 · 15 answers · asked by panda 6

My boyfriend likes to go down on me
however i like to go down on him too i think its a bigger turn on for me than it is him is that weird?
and he says that no girls like to go down on there man??

2007-07-23 10:41:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy at the mall today and he said he would like me to go to his place and play hide the bone with two of his friends. He said they have not been able to hide 3 bones at one time. I told him I would stop by to play, but I wanted to find how to play first because he wouldn't tell me. I can't see how hard it is to hide 3 bones. Is this a new game I have never heard of? Tell me how to play I'm going over there tonight.

2007-07-23 10:38:50 · 14 answers · asked by sxclilwhtgrl 1

Im only 16 but i am nearly 6ft, i was wondering do guys like goin out with girls that are taller than them, as this is looking quite likely as all the guys round were i live seem to be quite short!!

2007-07-23 10:36:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so My boyfriend is older than me we just had a baby...I recently saw that he was texting another girl asking her if she wanted to hook up that night...I confronted him and of course he tried coming up with excuses I don't know what to do I wanted to end the relationship but its way harder with a little baby involved...

2007-07-23 10:35:27 · 27 answers · asked by XxKMA5xX 1

I fell in love or somewhat felt what love is and its been on and off for about 4 years and everytime she messes up or did something wrong and i gave her another chance and them more problems happen then i gave her another chance how can i stop this and move on?

2007-07-23 10:34:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

when men hear love songs do they get all sentimental?

2007-07-23 10:32:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I were friends before we ever dated. The only reason that we broke up was he had some personal issues he needed to sort out. He has brought up us meeting somewhere but I am not really sure because I am worried that those feelings might come back. At the same time I want to see him and just maybe nothing will be there anymore. He does not understand why I will not see him. Should I be upfront and tell him? What should I do?

2007-07-23 10:30:13 · 4 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

for someone to live with the rest of ur life.

someone who is "cute"?
or someone who is "sexy"?

2007-07-23 10:29:46 · 10 answers · asked by Helloo 2

My Girlfriend told me "I need some Space"

What should I do.

2007-07-23 10:29:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I heard once you go black you don't go back? they say cause they are bigger....is it true?

2007-07-23 10:23:52 · 13 answers · asked by sxclilwhtgrl 1

The guy in question (Rob) apparently fancies me according to my workmate. He comes to our office about once every couple of weeks. He always makes a point of speaking to me and asking me questions about my life. One time I was chatting to a male colleague, (Dan) and he came up and sat fairly close facing me. He looked down at first then he started glancing at me with a smirk on his face. He chatted to the other male for a bit then when Dan started asking me about my boyfriend this other guy stood up and walked over to Dan but facing me and cut into the conversation saying he wanted to talk to me (obviously alone) He winked and smiled and couldn't wait to get me out the room. Once out though he seemed more distant and didn't really say what he wanted me for. It seemed quite urgent but then nothing was said. Another time he was raving to my boss about me and how good my work was, how brainy I was and that I should be studying for a degree or something. Does he like me?

2007-07-23 10:18:45 · 8 answers · asked by Kelly M 1

i took her virginity..and stuck with her and grew on to her...waited a month because her parents would let us see each othere..and i waited..i was her first love...told her everyday i loved her..told her that she is so beautiful just out of no where..got her flowers for no reason..put her first...was there to wipe away her tears every time she shed one..didnt act any diffrent when i was around my friends..i would hold her in front of them..they would call me ***** wooped..lol..and i would just laugh and say no thats love....but she keeps breaking it off...if gurls are with a gurl for a while do they feel like they want something else?? gurls when yal was like from the age of 16 to 18 did yal jump from guy to guy..or felt tied down>>or guys have u had a gurl u loved do that..yal get back then after a while she jsut wants to exsplore...?? and all her friends say thay cant belive she keeps doing this to me when i treat her so good..from wat u hear..so i sound like a ideal boy friend?2 ya?

2007-07-23 10:15:52 · 7 answers · asked by josh w 1

2007-07-23 10:12:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ..you know...is 11 inches long and it hurts my girlfriend everytime we do it...what can I do?

2007-07-23 10:06:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and this guy like each other but im 13 and he is 17

2007-07-23 10:06:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been keeping contact, about every two weeks, with my ex. It is strictly platonic, I have no feelings for him, we usually just catch up on each others new relationships and work. Lately I've been feeling like I should end this contact for good. Is it wrong to communicate with your ex when you have a boyfriend that you love dearly and would not want to hurt for any reason?

2007-07-23 10:00:47 · 19 answers · asked by Sleepdeprivd 2

I am a 32 year old college educated mother of two. THis may sound bizzare but I had to ask. I think I'm pretty damn with it and I just wondered how many people can honestly say they HAVE cheated on a spouse or bf or loved one? I am reading all these questions and everyone seems so damn self righteous and swears they would never cheat when I bet half of them are lying their asses off.... So is anyone going to tell the truth? And God Bless all of you who really are telling the truth.

2007-07-23 09:59:50 · 17 answers · asked by SicilianMomma 2

I moved in with my bf about 4 months ago after being in a long distance relationship for over a year. In the past we'd spend an entire day in bed and he was so attentive to my needs. Now things have drastically changed. There's very little foreplay and just as much after play (cuddling, carressing, laughing, talking). I realize we both have felt stressed at times since moving in together yet I still want to have sex. The romance is down the tubes as well. Our anniversary was like any other day. This problem is really getting to me. I'm not a crybaby yet I've cried a few times over this. I feel hurt, rejected and undesirable. I want things to change. Any good advice out there?

Serious, mature answers please. Thanks.

2007-07-23 09:55:42 · 25 answers · asked by Soleil 1

my mates girlfriend has been cheating on him what could i do to cheer him up

2007-07-23 09:52:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

As one who is VERY fond of girls, I have to say that I prefer a bit to the imagination when it comes to swimsuits and lingerie.

For instance, I prefer to wear tight low cut boyshort bottoms to the beach (with a slight camel toe) as opposed to a string bikini or thong. It's not because I'm embarrassed...I'm not, I go nude where I can.

I just prefer the look of the sexy shape without so much skin. It makes my imagination go WILD! I try to emulate what I like to see in other girls...

You?

2007-07-23 09:50:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i tell him to back off without being rude about it?

2007-07-23 09:50:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you look your longtime girlfriend in the eyes and tell her your not cheating when in fact you are?

2007-07-23 09:49:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-23 09:48:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-23 09:47:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just a curious question for those of you in relationships right now. (Or if you said it in a previous relationship.)

2007-07-23 09:46:11 · 22 answers · asked by Mel 6

we went out twice. he's into things like sports and cars, very outgoing. i'm more laid-back but i'm up for anything fun and new. im also shy, i don't know why he asked me out for a 2nd date, which went fine but now i don't know if he's as interested as he was before! please help. and please do not answer my question with "sex will keep him interested" LOL

2007-07-23 09:43:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

you are scared when we talk about "comitment" or "marriage" words???does anyone believe in Happy ever after anymore???(yes, i know some women the same...)

(Please not stupid answers)thank you!

2007-07-23 09:41:50 · 7 answers · asked by Rute A 3