Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex (or whatever it is... oral, using his hands, anything at all) it doesnt feel like anything really. It doesnt hurt, but it doesnt feel good either. We havent had sex in a while, because for me, its stupid; i can make him feel good other ways, sex doesnt feel good for me, and i dont want to risk pregnancy if im not getting anything out of it. Does anyone have any idea of whats wrong? Even if I am aroused, once he starts actually doing stuff it doesnt feel like anything! We've been dating for over a year now and we're completely comfortable with eachother/ourselves blah blah. One theroy I have is maybe because I'm afraid of being walked-in on by someone else in the house, but that gets canceled out because sometimes we do things without anyone else home... Its really frustrating. Does anyone know what the problem is?
2007-06-27
14:54:44
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