Singles & Dating - 14 June 2007

After one person has cheated in the relationship, can it ever go back to being the same way it was?

2007-06-14 13:08:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i asked a girl out on myspace and she said yes.....but the problem is she wants to bring her room mate and her roomie's bf along .....but im not comfortable facing all of them on a first date.....how do i tell her to not bring her roomie

2007-06-14 13:01:39 · 26 answers · asked by J D 1

is it only the boy who puts tounge? if not then where does the girl put her tounge?
no making fun=]

2007-06-14 12:54:28 · 31 answers · asked by bella s 1

2007-06-14 12:53:05 · 6 answers · asked by ralph 123 2

Was it a blind date or a regular date. Why was it horrible?

2007-06-14 12:52:01 · 14 answers · asked by cats 7

now we all have heard those sayings.

1. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. You don't really realize what you have until you completely lose it. No matter where or what that person is doing , (bf, gf, ex bf/gf, husband wife/ex husband/wife, lover , etc)...or where they are. They are always in your thoughts and not having them makes you realize how much more you love them and its only them you love/want!

OR

2. Out of sight , out of mind. no one has a soul mate. We all can connect to tons of people..they are out there, maybe some are even better than the one you got. You are used to them, their company, their understanding of YOU and your understanding of them. So if they left, if they are gone for a while...and never came back. sure you'd be hurt but after a while you get used to it...out of sight, and eventually out of mind. You'll have someone again.
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Which do you believe? And please back up your answer with real stories and experiences! let the battle begin!

2007-06-14 12:48:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-14 12:46:38 · 17 answers · asked by Mercury 2010 7

I have been with for a little over year. We have been living together for about 4 months. About a month and a half ago he basically lost his mind. He got fired from his job which really stressed out our relationship. We got into a huge fight one night and we "broke up" (we all know how that goes). He took off until 4 am. When he came back I discovered that he slept with one of his ex clients (who happens to be 47 and hes only 22). This absolutely crushed me because he was such a great guy! He did everything a wonderful boyfriend would do. I moved my things out within 2 hours of this discovery, he left as soon as I discovered his dirty little secret in fear that my older brother was going to kick his a**. Well I went back to our place later that evening to get a few of my things I accidentily left behind and he was there which I was not expecting (I thought he would have been with "her"). Well he cried and cried and begged me for another chance but I didnt give in.

2007-06-14 12:44:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello all. I am curious for these two situations. Please answer if they apply to you. and greatly appreciated, as this will be helpful for me.

1. Have you had a situation where your waiting for the person you love to come back to you (ex bf) and you or the ex bf/gf left you for a month or so to travel, study, vacation etc far away from you? Did it change things when she/he came back? Did it help to get away?

2. Do you think being away from each other helps the relationship knowing that when you come back things will be the same if not better or worse? Which is true. Absence makes the heart grow fonder? Or out of sight out of mind.

Thanks guys.

2007-06-14 12:44:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always see guys with girls that have things I don't, and
Most of my friends don't have anything, and only 1 has a boyfriend.

2007-06-14 12:42:21 · 43 answers · asked by Marie 2

I rewrote this question since it was too vague las time. I'm 19 and I met someone who is 30 just a few days ago. She has a class with me in college. I noticed that yesterday, she sort of stopped walking suddenly as she passed me and said "hi" to me and wave. When I saw in the cafeteria, she looked up from her meal and smiled at me. There was eye contact definitely. I know she doesn't like me since we just met, but is she attracted/ interested in me? Is ten years too far older? Thanks everyone.

2007-06-14 12:39:56 · 2 answers · asked by Giant Donut 2

I've never been one of those girls who is obsessed with their virginity, nor do I believe premarital sex is morally reprehensible. Up until yesterday, I was a virgin more by circumstance (ie not finding a suitable partner) than choice. My boyfriend and I extensively discussed our feelings on having sex and whether it is the right path for us (he is from a very Catholic family). He made it clear that he wanted me, and that as long as we were in love there was nothing wrong with sex. Throughout our relationship it had been extemely hard for me to abstain... so hearing him say that was honey to my ears, right? But then after we actually "did the deed" he started expressing regret about it.... I asked him why he chose to do it with me then, and he said that he felt I would be hurt if he told me his fears... So I guess my main problem with this is that he didn't trust me enough to tell me how he really felt (that he wasn't ready). What can we do to get back on the same page?

2007-06-14 12:37:11 · 3 answers · asked by girl 2

ok ok,Im 27,and i admit I have been too picky with men all my life.
and when they wanted me I was playing mind games,
so now theres this guy who I THINK IS GOOD LOOKING,BUT HE HASNT TOLD ME ABOUT HIS GIRLFRIEND,i know hes PLAYING ME to think hes single,but I WANT TO LOOSE MY VIRGINITY TO HIM,because Im tired of waiting for mr. right who doesnt exist.
is it ok i just ask him(my co-worker) for casual sex?

2007-06-14 12:35:30 · 16 answers · asked by lonelygirl15 1

My cousin is from Chicago and everytime she comes to visit me in California she always tells me stories of some parties shes gone to and what she's done and most of it is going down on guys and other stuff and I've asked her & she says that its just the way they moan but I personally think its disgusting but she seems to love it.but probably other girls have other reasons.what r they?

2007-06-14 12:35:12 · 22 answers · asked by babycakes 2

Hi guys. I am in a dilemna. I want to go study abroad , I want to go because I wanted to go for a while and also , I feel like its a good time because I just got out of a relationship (depressed), and I've never traveled. However, i just got promoted at my job so I'm making more money and I definently can use that money for bills and buying the stuff I finally want to buy. The trip is going to cost me 3-4 G's and if I stay (and don't go) I can make 3-4 G's. So I know, you can always travel later....and make money NOW! Or you can make money now, and travel later. Just from experience or hearsay, do you guys think I should GO? Or should I make money and travel LATER? Bottom line is this: If i go i gain growth, independence, and going outside of the sitation (ex bf) but i lose job, and 3G's. If i stay, i can suck it up and work my way up to being better again (not depressed)., and save money, travel later.

Honestly, what should I do?

2007-06-14 12:33:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

background info; we are both in out mid 20s and have known each other for about 4 years, but we live far apart but she knows Im moving back there in like 6 months. I also think she is pretty scared to say much about her emotions because she was hurt badly by a guy in the past.

My question is does it seem like she wants to be with me if she sends me naked pics and I know Im the only person she does that to.

2007-06-14 12:29:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hmmm. Does that make any sense? Does to me.

2007-06-14 12:28:17 · 39 answers · asked by Hello Dave 6

My best friend said that she met this guy online I didn't really worry cause this wasn't the first guy she met and I just kinda roled my eyes.about a few weeks later he was really bothering her and she tried about eveything to get rid of him and then my other friend got into it also and tried to stop him also.and started to bother her too. so I went secretly behind there backs and met the guy talked with him and he was a real perv he would send pics of himself (bodyparts) on my cell...and I wasn't sure how he got my cell # cause I don't give that out. well I kept this a secret and he was scaring me he is legal and I am inlegal in age wise so I was creeped finally I told my friends and they freaked he left us alone till today...and I am stressed out cause he just caused me out for me asking him to please leave my friends alone. and I just had surgery yesterdy and lost a good 5-6hrs worth of blood so I am weak. so my question is should I call the police on him ?I am only 14 he is 18

2007-06-14 12:25:21 · 6 answers · asked by Bri 2

I'm a little new at my school. My friends in my science class are like all not virgins. They tell my the minute that I walked into the door my first day of school, they knew that I was a virgin. All most all the students at my school are not virgins. Some of my other friends are virgins and tell me that most of the people that say they're not virgins, really are.I'm a Christian, but have I been waiting too long?

2007-06-14 12:21:56 · 24 answers · asked by Banana 1

Well, it had disturbed me for a while. It was not to long ago when I had called Zak's (home number) to see how he was doing and want to get to know him better. BUT when I was calling I think someone had left the phone off the hook and I had heard him said “It’s Jamila! What should I do what should I do! I don't know what to do mom!" and his mom had said" HOW SHE GOT OUR HOME NUMBER, how she got our home number"? And Zak had said nervously “SHE’S SHE’S stupid mom, she will believe in anything!" and his mom had also said “then just don't answer it."
Then two and a half weeks later I tried to call his home number, since I know he lives here! His mom had answered it and I had asked if Zak was here and she had said "sorry this is the wrong number", and I had said “but who are you? And why you had called me not long ago". And then she had pause and said “this is the teacher!" I said “O...K thanks...bye!"

Why is he doing this?
Why did he say that to HIS MOM!!!?
Why to me!!!?
Please help!!!
Please say (nice things) thanks!

2007-06-14 12:20:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

WAT EYE AND HAIR COLOR DO U LIKE IN A GIRL? JW..AND THANX =]

2007-06-14 12:20:18 · 27 answers · asked by Italyfan 4

So, i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and it seems that his parents do not really treat me/view me as a part of their family. I do not get invited to family functions/family vacations and my parents ALWAYS invite my boyfriend to those things. My parents always buy him really nice and personal gifts when it comes to his birthday and christmas. My boyfriends parents just end up buying me something very impersonal such as gift cards. It is very frustratring because i plan on marrying my boyfriend, and it is hard because i want to be apart of his family, but i feel as though i'm not. This weekend they are going to a family member's graduation party, and not only was i not invited, but they asked me to dog-sit for them. Please give me some advice, or let me know if this has happened to you, and if it has, do things change when you're married? thank you!!

2007-06-14 12:18:21 · 8 answers · asked by girlygirl83 1

Who would you be in a relationship with or date and why?
...(Ladies only)

2007-06-14 12:13:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I are kind of on a break now because he said he's having a really hard time coping with all of this Iraq stuff ( a few of his close friends were recently killed). He told me he just needed time to think and that he'd call me when he was ready to talk. I promised id be here for him and I still send him emails and care packages to let him know im thinking about him. I'm having such a hard time understanding why he wants time away from me, though. I just want to be there for him and I feel like he's pushing me away. Should I keep waiting for him or do you think its something beyond him just having a hard time coping? I love him to death and just want him to be happy. Any advice would be great thanks!

2007-06-14 12:10:19 · 5 answers · asked by stacyc 1

Some place that is good and not expensive but relaxing and comforting

help please

2007-06-14 12:02:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now of course this is a touchy and still taboo subject, i know and understand most every an all reasons,feelings,an the morals of why it is wrong"interracial dating" etc etc.everything from dating, marriage,"fooling around" having kids basically race mixing,stepping over the line..so i wont get into that..right now.

But i would like to know are there any man in Oklahoma who actually really love them some black women,that's who they like, that who they know,that's who they date, an that's just it.NOT talking about the men out there that want to exsplore a "sexaulfantasy" or in terms of trying a new "exsperiment" because they've never been with a black woman before. i'm talking about the men who love us an can't get enough of us..also if there are any black women out here who have dated white men before or love them some white men..go ahead an speak up to.. in general this conversation is pretty much open for anybody an everybody.

of course people from other states can answer also.

2007-06-14 12:02:04 · 3 answers · asked by cutecatdirty 2

ive only kissed a guy once but i dont know if im a good kisser. how does any 1 know if they r or not ?

2007-06-14 12:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by @PRiL c 2

she said she wanted to "go further" in our relationship. i agreed to it. next "date" we were on everything was going fine and we were kissing (like normal, this is not "going further"). next morning she says we should slow down... i agree to it, thats fine. (i have done absolutely nothing wrong) - now out of nowhere i ask a simple question and get a snippy answer. dosent respond to most text messages, picks up the phone sometimes. (used to be always). and when I do talk to her it dosent seem like she cares like she used to. she says shell call me in an hour, then dosent. is she trying to get me to chase her? does she really not care anymore? is this just a game shes playing with me? She wont tell me... maby someone else can?

2007-06-14 12:01:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do men like thick girls? Im not skinny and Im not fat, im between. I really present myself well. Always dressed nice, hair and nails done, fresh make up, etc. Do guys pay attention to that or do they still see a "thick" girl?

2007-06-14 11:59:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me bf and i just did the dirty deed(My first time and his third)But he told his best friend that it was the best sex any guy could ever get and now his best friend wants to try and do it with me. Then he(my bfs friend) told like everybody today in school and all the boys are like coming to my locker and grabbing me and some really rude kid stuck his hand down my shirt. Now I don't know what to do about it! I have told them to stop and my boyfrind has stuck up for me he stays with me everywhere I go and evrytime one of the boys does smething like this he says "lay off shes mine" then they just say something rude like "not for long". HELP!!!!!

2007-06-14 11:56:31 · 27 answers · asked by hotnrich14 1