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ok ok,Im 27,and i admit I have been too picky with men all my life.
and when they wanted me I was playing mind games,
so now theres this guy who I THINK IS GOOD LOOKING,BUT HE HASNT TOLD ME ABOUT HIS GIRLFRIEND,i know hes PLAYING ME to think hes single,but I WANT TO LOOSE MY VIRGINITY TO HIM,because Im tired of waiting for mr. right who doesnt exist.
is it ok i just ask him(my co-worker) for casual sex?

2007-06-14 12:35:30 · 16 answers · asked by lonelygirl15 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

I know it's hard to think that Mr. Right isn't out there, but he truly is. You've gone this long with your virginity, I think you should hold out and wait for the right guy to come along. And, he has a girlfriend - if he's wanting to get with you even though he's taken, he's not worth it, girl!

Plus, relationships with people that you work with are hard to deal with. Things could potentially go bad and then you've got to see him everytime you work.

Bad idea, hon. Just my two cents. Good luck!

2007-06-14 12:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 2 · 1 0

Are you nuts! Are you looking to just abuse yourself while waiting? You don't even sound as if you know who is Mr. Right all about. How many relationships have you been in that make you an authority on men that are right for you and are not right for you? Play with fast games from Ridge Hi and you get dumped faster than dogs dump doo. Why would y ou think of harming yourself like that? You say you played games and you are tired of waiting well the ones you played with were losers in the first place it let you know who the losers where, now go find a winner and see what it takes to get a winner.

2016-05-20 22:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by corrina 3 · 0 0

This is your virginty you are talking about here. HOw would you feel when it's done and this player guy walks out of your life and pretends that he doesn't know you, but only comes to your door when he wants some? That'll make you feel worthless, trust me on that. Think a million times before doing this to yourself. How do you know that Mr. Right won't meet you like 2 days after you had caual sex........?

2007-06-14 12:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

NO! that will cause awkwardness at the workplace. No matter how casual it may be, feelings will always be involved. I would still wait because you never know when Mr. right will come. just be more open minded. plus if he has a girlfriend, you may have some problems

2007-06-14 12:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by orangepeel304 5 · 1 0

Ehh.I wouldn't it's too risky..
you may feel awkward after && seeing
him at work eekkk.is that how you want
your first time to go?! I would save it!
Mister right is out there somewhere it's just the
matter of finding him...you may have found him already
he just slipped by open your eyes!! save it !!
good luck1

2007-06-14 12:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by manda102285 4 · 2 0

If he weren't your co-worker I would say go for it. even if he did have a girl, it would be totaly hot sex. But at work, you'd be the slut and everyone would know.
I know, us guys who can't keep it in our pants, also can't keep the secret in our mind.

2007-06-14 12:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you just want sex, make it a good choice. Find an older guy who knows what he's doing. That's hard, but worth it.

2007-06-14 12:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1 1

You gotta do what you gotta do but I think you're going to regret this, if you do it. One day someone who actually cares about you is going to come along and you're going to feel bad that you 'gave it away' with this random guy. Just my opinion.

2007-06-14 12:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Normally, I 'm all for sex....but in this case I have to agree with the first post...NO!!!..dont do it!!!It will only cause a bunch of crap in your life and his...wait for the next one!

2007-06-14 12:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

in my opnioin, i really don't think you should sell yourself short, and if he's a player, then you must know he aint gonna be exactly clean in ways hun, wait for the right gui, yes i'm saying wait for Mr.Right, he's worth it, despite if u believe he exists or not

2007-06-14 12:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Dar-E-O 3 · 2 0

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