Singles & Dating - 7 June 2007

After visiting my gyno, I learned that my hymen is still intact, albeit slighlty stretched. I have been sexually active for some years but I guess mine is just really strong (and I'm sure that using lots of lube helps)! I'm considering allowing my bf to tear it by sleeping with him without using any "help." since, we love each other, i think it'd be like having him take my virginity. however, i kind of want to wait for it to be torn when im married, also. i havent asked him yet because i dont want him to feel bad if i decide to wait. guys, would you even think its special if your gf asked you to do something like this or would it not really matter cos shes not really a virgin? or would this kind of thing just be some turn on?
Please, no crude jokes. I can come up with my own =)

2007-06-07 20:42:21 · 15 answers · asked by Crista 2

They lie to get the best of you at times.I mean about stuff that never happened.When a guy finds out,he's the bad guy.It's like you not allowed to react as if I had it comming.I'm sick of boyfriend & girlfriend coz no matter how honest you are you're bound to live a lie...

2007-06-07 20:40:45 · 10 answers · asked by Tembi V 1

the story was, during our fourth year, i found out that shes been txting or calling a girl, and has really dumped me, and asked if it is ok with me if we stay BESTFRIENDS. i really freaked out! i swear i dont wanna be friends with her anymore after wat happend! am i doing the right thing?

2007-06-07 20:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by beachbum 1

You've found an emotional connection with someone. But, that person is 15 years younger than you, will you do everything in your power to be this person's mate? There is a mutual attraction. But it's not just lust. It's way more than that. Older ladies involved with younger men I sure would like to hear from you. Young men involved with older ladies, need your input, too.

2007-06-07 20:19:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive had a bunch of stupid flings over the last year and a half but nothing serious, but I'm done with that I just want a girlfriend. My myspace would give you a better idea of me www.myspace.com/blakewoodward . check that out and get back to me pleassseeee!

2007-06-07 20:12:56 · 10 answers · asked by blakie 1

My boyfriend and I live together and he recently started talking about the daughter of one of his co-workers. I have never met her nor has he ever talked about her until recently and it seems like every day he has something else to say about her.
Now he wants to go to a birthday party she is having and how ironic that it's when I have to work. He says he has known her since they were kids and assures me they are nothing more than friends but why do I have this sick feeling about it? Am I just paranoid?

2007-06-07 20:08:36 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

I've been seeing this guy for 5 months. We never declared anything specific like we are dating, because
1)I'm not sure if I want in a relationship right now.
2) He doesn't like rigid titles.
Throughout this relationship or whatever it is, I have had several encounters with other guys, making out, sex, flirting...but I don't tell this guy I am seeing about them. In fact, I go out of my way to not tell him. For all he knows we could be exclusive. He has already told me he is not having sex with anyone else.
My problem is when a guy wants to do something with me I have trouble saying no, I like the attention and don't want to hurt the guy's feelings and want him to still be my friend. Today he told me he was happy I didn't mind him looking at porn. If he is concerned about some a tiny thing as that I feel almost certain he will hate me for sleeping with other guys.
ANy advice on what I can do, should I tell him, and if so, how much should I tell?

2007-06-07 20:04:29 · 10 answers · asked by Cruisin'=^_^=Cat 5

i work in restraurant and was closing up im a bus boy im 19 and my boss whos a woman was in the office, i have to go to the office to clock out and exit the building, i went and clocked out and saw her and her husband sitting there, then had to go back cause i forgot to do something so i went back to put away some bread, and walked down to the office to leave and there is my boss half naked having sex with her husband, i quickly walked out, the next day, my boss whos like 35 corners me the next night like 2 or 3 wait staff still there but she corners me in the office and says did you like what you saw, i said what denying the nigh before and she unbutton her shirt and showed me her top off, and stuff her hand down below my waist with my pants on and cupped my dick, and said lets go for it, i left hurry and now when i see her she gives me odd gestures, what do i do

2007-06-07 20:01:26 · 9 answers · asked by palo716@sbcglobal.net 1

when a woman having relationship with a man 6 years younger , do u think she can have furture?

2007-06-07 20:00:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't completely broken up yet but I keep thinking of the good times and it kills me, he was so perfect for me personality wise AND physically Everything matched so well but now all of a sudden I’m no good anymore, and it hurts like hell!
Makes me hate myself and my life, don't understand what I’m doing wrong so can't change what I have no clue about... :(

I’m so heart broken PLEASE does ANYBODY understand?
I feel like the whole world is coming down on me, I have no motivation for anything and I can't even eat or sleep, even though it's not final yet (the break up)and no he's not my first love, I’ve already passed that stupid love and heart break story, I’ve known this guys for like 18 months and have been together for a year :(

I need help...how can I deal with this? Why doesn't he love me anymore? What happened? And he doesn't tell me anything when I talk to him either......

God what do i do now?

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2007-06-07 19:52:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know..dumb question but I am very intrigued of what the answer will be.
(please don't think I am shallow for asking..I just wanna know)

For example...Does everyone in the whole think they are attractive?...When other parties don't think the same...or do people think they are ugly because they compare themselves to beautiful models.

sorry If I am making no sense.

2007-06-07 19:52:34 · 9 answers · asked by lemonsandcake 3

today or should i say yesterday my and my girlfriend had this super huge argument because I was jealous of her and stuff and now she removed me from her myspace and so now I am freaking out and can't sleep, eat, or think because I am taking this pretty harsh

2007-06-07 19:48:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i have been hanging out with this younger guy whose not very experienced...and i got a bit intimate with him...and hes not really used to intimacy...now he is kinda distancing himself from me and not acting like he usually does with me...do you think its cuz hes scared about me going further...what should i do

2007-06-07 19:47:20 · 4 answers · asked by Heatha 2

well, im in a long distance relationship. we've been together for a month then he went abroad to study. we haven't seen each other for months now. we also have different nationality..i love him but how will i know that he's cheating?

2007-06-07 19:47:18 · 10 answers · asked by jini 1

Me and my fiance have been dating for 4 and a half years.not always perfect but madly in love. In january we got engaged and it seemed like everything went down hill. Once engaged it seemed like she was telling me that she was not happy and I found myself becoming comfortable like she would always be there. We started fighting alot around march and it seemed like we could not even go out and have fun without fighting. She went on a trip and came back and we split up after because she said she needed space and time to think. I was relucent but agreed. Come to find out during the break she had been talking with my room mate and ended up sleeping with him. I still love her and was willing to make the sacrifices to make everything work and so was she but now all she says is she cant come back because of everything that has happenned in the past bw us. Right now she wont talk to me and she is isolating herself from everyone including frineds and she acts like everything is ok and happy

2007-06-07 19:46:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-07 19:44:11 · 7 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2

2007-06-07 19:42:16 · 13 answers · asked by kalon_1 1

Serious people

2007-06-07 19:41:25 · 13 answers · asked by Rossana 2

About a month ago i broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years as i cought her cheating. Immediatley i threw her out. Three days later i started dating anouther girl. Found out she cheated with more then one person. She was never my girlfriend just a piece. Not a big loss. But my question would be this. Is it better to take time off after a bad break up or should a person just jump right into the dating game again? At this point in my life i feel like i will never find a faithful girl. I just seem to attract the utmost of losers when it comes to women. So from experience is it better just to jump the next person or is it better to wait a while before you start dating again?

2007-06-07 19:35:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

we been going out 4 two years ,and i see him everyday. he askd me out but i don"t know what to say. i still like him. but he cheated on me.

2007-06-07 19:34:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

last year i went out with him...and i still like him...ALOT!
today he called me but i was asleep....i tryed to call back but no answer....

2007-06-07 19:26:59 · 14 answers · asked by js15552003 1

I'm really confuse.. I have this relationship with a guy which its already been 7 months. We seems to lost contact for 1 month. I thought of breaking up with him and then came another guy who really like me. He's really into me and would do anything to be with me but i don't have any feelings for him. I already told him that but he seems ok with it and he has a very high hope to be with me in every way. Everytime he chat with me, i always have to act like i'm having fun chatting with him. He's a nice guy but i can he say he's the kind who like to flirt a lot. I don't want to hurt his feelings but what can i do to really convince him that i only like him as a friend?

2007-06-07 19:23:49 · 6 answers · asked by Cassie 3

2007-06-07 19:21:52 · 16 answers · asked by LG 2

see theres this guy at school and my friend is sooooo completly OBSESSED shes been crushing on him for like four years now
he has definetly made clear that he is sooo not iterested he was nice about it a first then he started getting aggravated and got meaner and meaner
how do i convince her that she should just move on, without distroying her self confidence?

2007-06-07 19:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i signed up for this theater thing and i have to kiss my boyfriends best friend!i asked my boy friend if he wanted to be in the play, but he said no.It's not his thing.he said he will support me through it though.now i have to kiss my his best friend.what am i supposed to do?????????help!

2007-06-07 19:16:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has all these girls on his contacts he tried to add me but i blocked him so please heed my warning

2007-06-07 19:13:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

when all he does is make me cry.

2007-06-07 19:11:17 · 10 answers · asked by em:] 1

seeing her and dating her first? Im frustrated, this is a good friend of mine but i don't trust him anymore...looks like he has been using me as a bait. Like he always ask me to bring her out and he wants to be there too.

2007-06-07 19:01:25 · 4 answers · asked by mangolove 1

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now. We've been best friends for a year and he told me before we even went out that he was in love with me. I had always had feelings for him but I never told him because I never imagined that we could be together. I know that I love him and he makes me so happy but my family and friends disagree completely. He's Mexican and I am a white American girl. He only speaks Spanish and I speak both Spanish and English. My parents say he will never become anything which hurts me to hear them say that. They said I should drop him and move on. Everyone is against our relationship and I don't care where he is from or what job he has. I love him for him. I am in University and they said that they can't understand how I could love him. I love my family and friends, but I love him and he's too amazing to just let go. My family told me they will never approve and it's caused a HUGE strain on my relationship with my bf and family.

2007-06-07 18:57:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-07 18:41:01 · 18 answers · asked by Umar B 1