I'm really confuse.. I have this relationship with a guy which its already been 7 months. We seems to lost contact for 1 month. I thought of breaking up with him and then came another guy who really like me. He's really into me and would do anything to be with me but i don't have any feelings for him. I already told him that but he seems ok with it and he has a very high hope to be with me in every way. Everytime he chat with me, i always have to act like i'm having fun chatting with him. He's a nice guy but i can he say he's the kind who like to flirt a lot. I don't want to hurt his feelings but what can i do to really convince him that i only like him as a friend?
2007-06-07 19:23:49 · 6 answers · asked by Cassie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
put your self in his place. would you rather have 1 chance with someone that might end up liking you or would you rather let them live with that chance and never know what would've happened. you see what i'm saying? give him a chance. just once, and if you like it, or him, give him another chance. and if you dont like him still, then tell him "i'm sorry mr. so- and- so, i told you already i dont have feelings for you, and i gave you a chance, and i still dont have feelings. so please dont try to date me, it wouldnt feel right for me, we can be friends though" (friends if you want to.) that's my oppion. i would do this, becuase that's what i would want to happen with me.
2007-06-07 19:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"He's really into me ... but i don't have any feelings for him."
That's like a fancy sports car with no wheels. It won't go, no matter how much turtle wax you use to try to make it shine.
Just tell him you're already in a relationship (which is the truth). Stop talking to him and he'll move on.
2007-06-08 02:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to hurt him, then don't act like you're having fun chatting with him. You will only hurt him more later.
2007-06-08 02:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy how much you enjoy being his friend and that you would never consider going out with him because you are afraid of losing this wonderful friendship.
2007-06-08 02:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him and try 2 make him understand as best u can w/o sounding brutal
2007-06-08 02:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you can do is tell him!!!!!
2007-06-08 02:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sistah Flow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋