Why do i stay with him?

Question

when all he does is make me cry.

Answer 1

Is he the only partner you have ever had that always makes you cry? If the answer is yes, then you are staying with him because you're afraid to be alone. If every other partner you have had has made you cry, then the problem could be that you're not being realistic about how a relationship works. Here's the thing, though. Either way, you should not be in a relationship with anyone who makes you cry. We have jobs, children, and life in general that make us cry. Our significant other is supposed to be the one who helps us overcome the tears, not cause them. Get out of this relationship. What you do after that depends on how you answered my first question to you.

Answer 2

see friend if he want to make u cry dont cry try to understand his view think from his point of view ofcourse evevry one has the diffrent understanding the thing but ayleast try once then iam sure never u araise this question that
Why do i stay with him?
when all he does is make me cry.
ok dear have a nice day

Answer 3

Because you are not doing a better job of trying to find a replacement bf who doesnt make you cry. Better yet, take some time for yourself girlie! Guys are jerks.

Answer 4

because it's your choice as a person we all been there whether we'd like to admit it or not, it's something that you have to do on your own terms it's hard i no been there done that and what made me leave was telling myself "I must like being treated like crap i must like being abused i must like the pain he brings upon me for me to stay with such a jerk" and after many many many times of just repeating myself i soon realized that I don't like being treated like I'm no good for nothing when i am and pulled up my streanght and left. Now I have a great man that treats me good and that pathetic loser wants me back:) but I'm so glad i pulled up the will power to leave. you should try saying the same thing maybe it'll help you like it helped me.

Answer 5

If he is your husband you are supposed to stay with him. Go get counseling. You can't change him, but you can change yourself.

Answer 6

don't abuse yourself move out of the relationship or if you love him book for a couple counseling so that he may realize how much you love him that will help.

Answer 7

because deep inside he knows that the love he has for u is so enormous that it makes him make u cry it also depends how he makes u cry ....................

Answer 8

because u r a girl and we all try to hold on to the fact that they can change...although we should realize after a while of being hurt that they wont change..but we dont..

Answer 9

you have to answer that yourself

Answer 10

YOU ARE IN LOVE