Singles & Dating - 7 April 2007

me n my finace are in long distance relation since 5 yrs now..he says he loves me but never stopped talking to girls whom i really hate.......every time i have caugth him red handed our relaiton has been on the verge of break of coz he cant stop talking to girls...although he talks he dosent like me tlaking to any guys even for work...

whenever i caught him red handed talking to girls he lied to me every single time tht he wasnt talking or they r all his sisters.they r old friends..every time eh promises me tht he wont talk yet he again lies n contacts them soem or the other way...last time i had warned him that if i catch him again i wont marry him..he said sorry to me tht time.but few days ago i discovered tht he was again chatting with girls.

i asked him who is more imp to him his finace or other girls n yet he argued tht i never gave such condition on him tht i wont marry him if he talks to girls...he igonres me comeplety.n.yet shows off infront fo every1 how much he loves me

2007-04-07 13:44:24 · 17 answers · asked by not_scared 1

my daddy is crazy that he got mad abruptly after i was having a date with a western man .why?and how could i stop him from being prejudice to western man.it is mybf who make me found that not every man in western country is not loyal.plz help me

2007-04-07 13:43:58 · 5 answers · asked by happy 3

Theres been a lot of guys that have liked me,but they all get turned off because they say that I'm "frigid". They all say that I'm to innocent but I dont want to be like that. I dont know how not to be like that. I get freaked out to hug them or kiss any boy, or when they touch me. I am in highschool now and I shouldnt be like that. I have lost a lot of guys because they havent thought I was interested in them. Please help me with this.

2007-04-07 13:41:59 · 12 answers · asked by Carson M 1

Well we've been friends for almost 3 years now, and this year we've been closer than ever. We give each other hugs all the time, and hangout all the time. We went on this school trip a few days ago and he kept flirting with me, saying he wanted to give me ahug so bad, and we werent apart the whole day. Everytime his girlfriend tried to hangout with him, hed hangout with me. (she asked him out) We Ran together across the Golden Gate bridge and his girlfriend started getting ticked. She's getting jealous of me, because her bf and i are really really close friends. She even came up and said i couldnt hang out with anymore at all. And now her bf is getting ticked. He acts like him and i are going out, and him and his real girlfriend are just friends(not even that). They never hangout, and don't even sit next to each other at lunch. Why is he doing this?? If anything his girlfriend should be getting mad at him, but instead at me. So why is he acting like this?

2007-04-07 13:23:40 · 10 answers · asked by sausalito 3

I met this boy a while back and he liked me then, but my brother and my mother didn't want us together....So I made them happy and didn't see him. Now, 5 years later me and that same boy have started back talking.. I love him.......and I know what he's feeling and he knows what I'm feeling. But my mama andf brother still don't feel the same way after all these years. I made a mistake of not going after him 5 years ago but should I do it again now and make my mama and brother happy? What should I do?

2007-04-07 13:19:23 · 20 answers · asked by butterfly62992 1

2007-04-07 13:15:14 · 18 answers · asked by Autt 2

ive always wondered why...

2007-04-07 13:14:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

1) blond hair, blue eyes
2) brown hair, tan, blue eyes
3) black hair, green eyes
4) reddish ( but not too red) hair, brown eyes, nice smile

2007-04-07 13:05:35 · 35 answers · asked by Sara Paxton 1

Im a female early to mid 20s and I go and buy myself a brand new luxury sports car. Whenever I tell someone online or someone I dont know they say 'Who bought ya that'? or Where'd ya get that from? And make it look like I couldnt of possibly bought it myself because im a female and it seems they are amazed that I could afford a 44,000 dollar vehicle by myself. Why is that? Why do men say wherd ya get that from? What guy bought ya that? then when they find out I bought it myself they get silent.

2007-04-07 13:01:53 · 9 answers · asked by henry 1

im a blonde FYI, but ive always wondered..

2007-04-07 12:53:32 · 8 answers · asked by chyeahbasketball<3 2

We're only 25yo & have been best-friends & lovers for 7yrs. I can't stand to think about my life without him in it, but things have been less than good for a while. Communication, understanding & sex have gone out the window & we're not coping. I'm desperatley seeking new experiences & I'm keen to meet new people but he doesn't seem to know how important this is to me. Anyway I'm a horrible person & I cheated on him for the first time last week. Before I realised what I'd done it was too late. It made me feel alive & I think I'd do it again, but I doubt I could live with the guilt. Do I still love my boyfriend?

2007-04-07 12:53:20 · 3 answers · asked by Tiffany T 1

2007-04-07 12:36:16 · 15 answers · asked by Brian E 1

anyone care to share?

2007-04-07 12:28:48 · 21 answers · asked by chyeahbasketball<3 2

Theres this boy in ma school, in my year, and we have a very attractive head of year, french, very hot. And this boy is really confident, and once at a trip he grabbed a big cylinder like cusion and pretended that it was his penis, putting down that area and holding it, she said "oi, give me that, you wish it was that big" he said "you'll find out someday" she said "i know i will, but you'll be long gone" (we're leaving sxchool in a few weeks), he says "i'll come looking for you", she says "fine". Does this mean anything?

2007-04-07 12:23:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

any make out tips;)

2007-04-07 12:22:09 · 3 answers · asked by Marcy N 1

GUYS PLEASE HELP ME OUT- How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend (Who Im Going Back Out With Soon) To Be Totally Clingy (WHEN I SAY CLINGY I MEAN CALL ME ALOT AND WANT TO HOLD ME ALL THE TIME AND WANT TO SPEND ALOT OF TIME WITH ME) - I'm 10 Pounds Overweight (Which Im Going On A Strict Diet To Lose) And I'm Trying Different Styles On My Hair- PLEASE POST BACK GUYS- THANK YOU- AND HAVE A NICE DAY GUYS:)
IM 27 AND HES 23

2007-04-07 12:18:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-07 12:16:40 · 14 answers · asked by alivia s 1

he wants to have sex but i don't he says common i thought you love me. so basically he think just be cuz were going out mean i have to give it to him. he basically puts his hands unders my shirt. im not fond of his mom leaving us alone she dose it all the time then he want to get freaky with me. Now should'nt parent stay with there son / daughter everytime he she has a boy girl friend over? he want s to kiss in front of his mom i don't like that.he tickle my inner thigh. Im not trying to be rude but i do want to set up some ground rules. everytime he want to do something he never has money today i had to pay for his *** i wonder why he never has money? Can someone plse tell me what wrong?

2007-04-07 12:06:00 · 1 answers · asked by k m 1

2007-04-07 11:48:14 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

iv bin wiv this boy 4 2 years & iv just had his baby, since having her i feel like im goin crazy. i kno he cheatd in the past but we werent actually going out then but i still think about the way he treatd me & nd cud he hav really changed. iv always felt outsider 2 becoz him & his frends speak anotha language & neva include me in conversations so they cud b tlkin about grls & i wudnt kno. to the point neway i got so stressd about it the otha day i lookd onhis fone & found loads of messages frm anotha grl, i askd him he sed it was his frend using his fone, but there were sum frm wen he was at wrk & his frend wasnt on that shift. im so not sure wat 2 do or feel, im gettin 2 the point now where im walkin down the street 'thinkin is that her'. i hav postnatal depression neway which doesnt make it betta but im so hurt by the fact that iv jus had his baby nd he cud b cheating. please help!!

2007-04-07 11:16:27 · 33 answers · asked by honeyxx 1

i switched schools recently (11th gr) and this guy had seen me around school (also 11th) and finally came up and talked to me; i immediately took to him, he was way cool. then he hung out with me at lunch the next day and when he could've gone home for 6th period, i had to stay cuz i TA, so he stayed and kept me company and we hung outside the class. the same thing happened the next day, but when we were hxc flirting, he unexpectedly kissed me; thenn i knew i fell for him hardd and fastt. he seemed like he was interested and then spring break happened and he was impossible to get ahold of, i was calling him trying to hang out (i know, dumb idea) andd i thought it was all over, but then he left a note outside my front door on the eve of his birthday that just said "today's my birthday (etc etc) and ended with night kairi! xoxo ---" and i was like okay maybe he does like me. but i feel like he is just responding to me, like he isn't pursuing me. & i need help on how to turn this around!!

2007-04-07 10:52:27 · 16 answers · asked by kairi 1

I'm bisexual and i believe in GOD, but on the subject at hand i'm very confused on, i don't think it's a SIN to LOVE!!! But many ppl say it is a SIN. I don't know what to think anymore, i want to think GOD LOVEs me for who i am as a person and not for what i do in life, no matter how wrong others see it!!!
Give me your insight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-07 10:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by Joe B 1

Let's say you're on a crowded subway or bus, and you notice that a female is groping you. How would you react to this? What would you think about this type of behavior? I asked a similar question to girls only, now I'm curious how guys would react.
Let's say the girl was a knockout.

2007-04-07 09:58:31 · 24 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3

Immature love says, I love you because I need you. Mature love says, I need you because I love you.

2007-04-07 09:44:45 · 21 answers · asked by Pinky 6

my boyfriend rele shy and everything we do eg hold hands hug i have to make the first moveand i always put my tounge in first sort of thing how can i stop this i would like him to come up 2 me n give me a kiss x ?

also i am bored with just kissing and want to go a little bit further not all the way like sex but just some inocent foreplay but being the boy he is he wont make the first move and i dont want to make first move and he dont want to do anything yet so how do i kno when he wants t2 ? and how do i let him kno i want to ?

2007-04-07 09:41:41 · 7 answers · asked by twinkle 2

one of my friends who used to like me a lot still flirts with me sometimes. during the time in which he still liked me, he always thought I liked someone else who I repeatedly denied liking. then yesterday, my friend asked me if I liked HIM? why would he ask me if I liked him even though we're just friends. when I asked him why, he said, 'just wondering' - he asked me on IM.

2007-04-07 09:40:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys: What do you REALLY like when a girl is making out with you

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girls: What have you done that REALLY turned a guy on when making out?

2007-04-07 09:39:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean i like the popularity but i could do with out the boys.. what do you suggest?

2007-04-07 09:36:14 · 18 answers · asked by shamrock shake 2

2007-04-07 09:28:37 · 30 answers · asked by BROOKLYN 1

when i go through a breakup or need to turn someone down, i would tell them that. But why do guys do this "ignoring you" thing as a way of breaking up? is it another girl ? i know i didnt do anything wrong

2007-04-07 09:27:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous