Singles & Dating - 26 March 2007

boy asked me out. i have an identical twin sister, but he doesn't know because we (me and him) are not in any classes with my twin. couldn't go out with the guy, called him up. sister heard me, made second call saying "i" could go, change of plans. SHE went out with him - turns out she likes him too. obviously, i was MAD!!!!!!

what do i do????????????? how should i tell her im NOT HAPPY?? tell him? get revenge?

2007-03-26 16:52:06 · 22 answers · asked by skigrrl66 3

FBSM ?/???

2007-03-26 16:51:41 · 3 answers · asked by 武士道GatoSolitario 5

ok...well this guy likes me and i like him...but we aren't going out...but it seems as if we are both trying to make each other jealous by flirting with our friends...and i don't know if it is wrong to do it...b/c i know that he just wants attention...and so do i...so...yeah...

2007-03-26 16:51:31 · 22 answers · asked by Ava D 2

I asked this guy out for drinks about two weeks ago and he agreed. I saw him again and decided to set it up for this weekend. I asked him if he had my number.

He said he lost it (actually, he never had it to begin with - I never gave it to him). Then looked at me straight in the eye and said "I'm kind of involved right now and it's unofficial"....I don't know what that means exactly, so I just wished him well.

So I have two questions:
1) Why do you think he lied about losing my number when he didn't even have it?

2) Why did he lie, then change his mind to being in a relationship?

2007-03-26 16:48:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

YOur answer here

2007-03-26 16:48:20 · 1 answers · asked by Jay 1

My gf is not virgin.At first,I think I can accept her without care. Because love is more important than whether your gf is a virgin.
I know she loves me deeply. But then I start to be suspicious of her.I know it is unfair for her.But I really can not forget her past. That is terrible.
If you(girl) give your first to a boy(anyone),you can not easily forget him. Right?
We have aleady engaged ,it seems we have to depart. I can not match with her.She is a good girl.But I am a very,very traditional and common boy.
If your gf is not a virgin,and you care a little(even a little).Do not want to pretend you are open-minded. Just leave her. She nevery forgets her ex-bf.
Right?
I decide to part with her. Once I have the virgin care, I can not give happiness to her for ever.Because I have barrier in mind.
I was a virgin before I met her. We have already made love with each other. So I feel unfair .

2007-03-26 16:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by Prince 1

If he looks me in the eyes while talking,smiles at me,sometimes for no reason, torments- pokes me with a tack,shines a flashlight in my eyes and the other day as he walked by me he tapped me on the head with his pop bottle. And then turned and smiled at me.
And this is also something random that happened,I decided to go visit some friends,we had some drinks and then decided to go get something to eat. So i walk in and i saw this guy that i've known from school,who is friends with my crush, he said hello, i then heard someone else say HI ,turned around and it was MY CRUSH. It was so random because we were going to go somewhere else. It was almost a week later before I saw him and i had decided i wanted to see if he would make a move to come and talk to me.Because i had always gone to him. He came over and smiled and said "So how was your chinese food?" I said that i didn't get it. Seemed he wanted an excuse to talk to me. Any thoughts? Should I ask him out?

2007-03-26 16:46:49 · 3 answers · asked by chickflick 1

My gf is moving to south africa to live soon and the only contact that I will be able to have with her is through phone which will be expensive (I live in the UK). I would go there to live with her but it's too soon in the relationship for that sort of commitment, so we've been planning me making a few visits before me maybe living there in the future. I do love her, and I'm willing for our relationship to have only phone contact for ahwile. As anyone gone through something similar? Can a long distance relationship through phone calls last? We've been through a lot together and are pretty strong, we ain't one of these couples who brake-up easily, but this is a new test for us, probably our biggest one...so just wanna know who here is going through this sort of relationship at the moment and how is it going?

2007-03-26 16:46:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I had a gf I would be willing to let her pick out 75% of my clothes since I have no style. Isnt the goal to look good for your woman?

2007-03-26 16:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by Bark at the Moon 6

My mom doesn't approve of me going out with anyone b/c she says i need to focus on myself and having fun in my teenage years, she said that when i'm 16 and have 3 good reasons then maybe she'll consider me dating. Well i'm going out with someone and i'm hiding it from my mom but my girl is tired of lying to my parents so will anyone please help me before she decides to break up for good? I'd really appreciate it.

2007-03-26 16:44:37 · 20 answers · asked by Sam the Man 1

Alright, so my neighbor is this ex-military guy, and he never takes his Jack-o-lanterns down after Halloween. It's the beginning of spring, and I finally decide to do something about it. I snuck over to his house and tried to throw away the mushed-up pumpkins when he comes out and shoots me in the leg. My girlfriend says I deserved it for trespassing. Should I break up with her?

2007-03-26 16:44:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK

As I said, i dont want to lose my virginity, but my boyfriend gave me a headache!!

He told me that we can have sex without losing it ( sex in the butt)

Is it really won't affect me?
I dont know but im kind of scared specially when my doctor told me that i might be pregnant because sprim swim and could penetrate...

So, is it ok to take some kind of medicine to avoid that? and again by taking these tablets will i be affected??

2007-03-26 16:43:47 · 38 answers · asked by Sara 1

I like this guy... but he's going to West Point in three months. Im not sure if he likes me yet. He can be flirty one day and a complete jackassy the next. I really cant tell, but my gut tells me he probably has feelings for me. I know it might seem completely pointless fact but he;s white, blonde blue eyed (all american), smart sarcastic and im a southasian indian (5'5, slim and toned (103 lbs), smart, big brown eyes, kinda crazy, long dark hair) and i think our personalities mesh well. Is it worth it? Considering he;s leaving in three months, and me not knowing if he likes me or not? Should i go with my gut?

2007-03-26 16:43:37 · 3 answers · asked by badchic55c 1

girls with big bootys or girls with big chests?

2007-03-26 16:43:23 · 2 answers · asked by L.Rae 3

Okay basically in my previous question I told you about a girl who was just calling me when she neeed something or dragged me into her drama, I also told you about a boy she hooked me up with two years ago and then after told me he was a low life. Well that boy and I don't date anymore after on again off again, so she thought the whole ruining of our friendship was because of a guy however, that's not true she disrespects me and my friends. She talks about my friends behind there backs so I know she talks about me. We've been friends since she was in second grade and I was in third and now we're high school freshman and things haven't changed I'm tired of putting up with her crap and dragging me into her drama and then when she doesn't know what to do when she asks for your advice she starts pooring into tears and that's exactly what she did two years ago when I told her we couldn't be friends anymore and I know if I break it to her again she'll just cry & I don't like it when they cry

2007-03-26 16:42:30 · 2 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2

I am in a relationship so this is just a hypothetical question. Many here have stated that one of the most desirable traits of a man is a good sense of humor. Has any of you gone out with/thought about going out with a man whose life has been so tough that he lost his sense of humor - even though he wishes he could get it back but can't seem to - or do you view such a man as a loser to be avoided at all costs?

2007-03-26 16:42:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

There was a girl I asked out and she told me exactly what it says above in the question box. That's not rejection, she is just being honest?. Appreciate the advice.

2007-03-26 16:42:08 · 8 answers · asked by Jeff K 1

This guy is a Sophomore in high school. I'm not really asking about what the son should do, it's more of how wrong the dad is.

2007-03-26 16:41:59 · 3 answers · asked by stars 2

i think it's pretty much impossible, if you think of the odds. plain old love is good enough for me. what do you think?

2007-03-26 16:41:16 · 19 answers · asked by rt1290 6

Yeah, all my friends have boyfriends and all that. I keep reminding myself it's not going to matter when I grow up because I wouldn't think in Jr. High you would truly and deeply fall in love...but it feels so weird when we go to dances and stuff and I'm the only one without a date...what should I do?

2007-03-26 16:39:35 · 17 answers · asked by city of love*♥; 4

I met a guy and I explained something to him very clearly and used an example. He had no idea what I was talking about. So I explained it. He still didnt' get it. Finally I said in really basic terms.. almost baby talk. I felt I was talking down to him.. but then he got it.... I think. Is this normal between men and women? We are both intellegent adults.. we just hear different things when we talk.

2007-03-26 16:39:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know what girls want in a guy anymore... I'm 6 foot 1 inch with dark brown hair and green eyes(which I get a lot of compliments about) tan skin, 20 years old and about to receive my bachelors degree in about 2 months with my masters as the next step, I've got an above average body(thanks to the gym), no tobacco or drugs, a job at a big company waiting for me, many goals in life, a race car and I'm just an all-around nice guy(at least thats what they tell me)... yet I can't find a girl who is interested in me... I used to think they liked a guy that was kind and fun to be with, a lil exciting and with a good future... apparantley I was wrong

2007-03-26 16:38:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anthony R 1

Okay theres this guy at my church and we have known each other for about a year an here recently he started flirting with me...i flirted back...i thought he liked me for awhile then about a week ago at church i was sittin with some friends...and he sat by me...i thought yeah this is good...my friend had just figured out i liked him that day..and we were sitting there during church an she wrote "whos sittin beside u?" on a piece of paper...and i said the name of the guy sittin beside me which is the guy i like an she said hmm...he was readin over my shoulder an i didnt kno...she said do u think hes cute an i said well yeah! an he saw what i said and blushed then she wrote on the paper that i liked him he blushed and scooted away from me an he wont talk to me an or look at me an he told her he didnt like me I dont understand.I am a teen gurl an im pretttty!
why would he blush if he doesnt like me??
Why did he scoot away from me?
if u got any advice i need it!!!!

2007-03-26 16:38:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my now ex-fiance ended our relationship less than 10 min ago, using an email, what should I do, should I call her now or just go over or eliminate the reason she is breaking up with me, or maybe even eliminate her? I am really confused

2007-03-26 16:37:44 · 20 answers · asked by Legion420 1

I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back. She got mad at me for a mistake I made which takes too much explanation and two months later she told me she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I HAD NOT been talking to her since she said she didn't want to talk to me anymore. So I gave her what she wanted. We used to say hi occasionally after that when we went back to school. I thought things would be cool between us so recently for the 1st time I tried to talk to her. When I asked her how she was, she kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I told her I only wanted us to be friends again but she wasn't hearing me. She talked to everyone who came in the hall but me. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else. I guess I'll just see you around." I left the hall.

2007-03-26 16:37:38 · 5 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

I get tired of making up profiles.

2007-03-26 16:37:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Really I'm just curious. Thats the same as telling someone who asks you for your suit measurements "guess".

2007-03-26 16:36:24 · 15 answers · asked by FZ220 2

My ex-ex girlfriend told me she knew she wanted to sleep with me the moment she saw me. She never gave me a "real" reason why. It was always, "I just knew, I just knew" whatever that means...Can any of you ladies relate to that? Have you ever saw a man and immediately want to sleep with him? Then actually try to?!?!?

2007-03-26 16:35:57 · 18 answers · asked by Fredro the Starr 2

so heres the situation: i took a girl out to a restaurant, had a great time - was there for like 2 hrs, took her home and talked for bout another hr. we both said we had a great time and i left. i called a couple days later and we talked for like an hr n a half. during the convo i asked her if she was free this comin weekend and she said maybe but no promises and that was cool wit me cuz she's just bein honest. BUT during our convo she was talkin bout how she had coffee with this other guy she had met for the first time, and they also spent like 3 hrs together....so yeah it seemed like she spent a good 30-45 mins of our convo talkin bout him. of course i dnt wana show im jealous but at the same time im not sure what to do. i realy wanna go out on a 2nd date and make my move but not sure if itll be successful cuz she seemed like she really likes this other guy too. good thing is he's much older than she is and he smokes a lot which she doesn't like. so guyz tel me wut i shuld do

2007-03-26 16:35:54 · 8 answers · asked by Paul Smith 1

2007-03-26 16:35:51 · 8 answers · asked by USCfan77 2