Singles & Dating - 19 March 2007

it's been 4 months since I have broken up with my ex-gf ...we broke up smoothly, and try to stay friends but, it is still hard on me, ..I don't talk to her very often , but each time I heard of her ..well, I think I'm feeling bad ....!!! for example, this morning, I comed to work, and one of my colleague, tells me ..hey I saw your ex this weekend, she was with her bf ....!!! or another friend , telling me another day , I went to that festival last time, I saw your ex with her guy ..etc...etc... Each time, I tried to forget, people comes again with such issues ..really, I feel frustrated sometimes, ...what can I do ?

2007-03-19 03:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by bobby s 1

My exhusband and I seperated on October 9, 2006 and our divorce was final on March 2,2007. I was wondering what everyone thought was a good waiting period before dating again. Oh yeah I am 27 and I have 2 kids.

2007-03-19 03:42:45 · 15 answers · asked by suzyalexisandgabe 3

ive been dating the one for 18months now.ive dated the other one already,but we dated for like 6months.i love them both very much.but you see the other one and i have been friends since we could walk ,we even got married at 7.i am 2years older than my current boyfriend not that thats important.the other one is hotter but my boyfriend has a future im not so sure bout the other one.im only 18 but i know if i stay with my boyfriend now its gonna be forever and im not sure if im ready for that.the other thing is if i leave my boyfriend now im never gonna get him back or meet someone like him again,and he is that perfect husband type of guy.i no im really young but i have to think bout my future i just wish i met my boyfriend at a later stage in my life.

2007-03-19 03:42:39 · 8 answers · asked by sammy .fc 1

There's a guy I think is really cute, and we have "met" eyes before and i smiled at him...the only thing is- he's a senior and I'm a freshman... I just want to know if you have any ideas how I could meet him but not just say "hi" cuz thats weird noone here does that...help? :D thanks!!

2007-03-19 03:42:27 · 1 answers · asked by Lindz911 2

I was stalking this boy, I found his adress, phone number, I even spy on him sometimes at his house. But one time he caught me spying on him in his room so he shut the blinds!! I also have evrey picture of him imaginable. I probably own pictures of him that he doesn't even remember taking. I put them in my closet. He asked one of my so called "friends" why I was spying on him, and she told him all about the pictures of him in my closet, and how I once saved one of his used tissues.
But that was a long time ago, I don't save his used tissues anymore. He thinks I'm a freak now, though! And I'm not!!!!!!
WHAT SHOULD I DO!? I really like him and now my chances of even being his friend are over. Now whenever he sees me at his baseball games he looks at me like I'm a freak.
I'm not a freak! What should I do?

2007-03-19 03:41:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this boy, and his name is Will. I like him a lot, and I told him that like 2 days ago and then he sent me this email:

Hey,
R u going to the mall tomorrow?
I am going to the mall around 11:30am
tomorrow. Do u want to get together?
Whats your phone number? I'll try to call u.
C U Later...
Will

I am clueless as how to respond. I've never had a boyfriend and I don't want to say the wrong thing. Could you guys maybe help me?

2007-03-19 03:41:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really love this girl..we have been knowing each ither for three years..my heart pounds for her all the time..but she says its not possible because of family issues and nothing seems to be happening in life..Moreover she does not give me enough time because she is doing a MBA..Im 20 and she is 21..I love her from the bottom of my heart and I even proposed and she said no the reason being that she thinks its just not possible..Sometimes I fight so badly for time and sometimes I get very stressed for this..Sometimes I evn have a problem because even our physical relationship is on and off kinds..wat a mess im into..wat do u think can be done about my pathetic life..pls be honest..your opinions matter..really

2007-03-19 03:40:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

who is better to love on bed

2007-03-19 03:40:08 · 15 answers · asked by vikas 1

ok so theres this guy who has the hots for me and he really likes me but i dont feel the same about him anymore because i still love my ex bf and i know that he still he loves me too.Now i told this guy that because he wanted to know why i was acting so finiky lately so I told him the the truth and now it's like he's in denial,he wants to be friends with benefits and i said yes like an idiot but thank goodness for the fact that now he lives in florida but he's coming up here in two weeks for my friends sisters quincy and he wants to see me should i tell him that i dont want this relationship and try to tell him again but be extremly harsh because i've tried to be nice and it has no effect at all like i get flirtacious sometimes but im not serious and he knows that what should i do

2007-03-19 03:39:58 · 5 answers · asked by ashley_davis957 2

Would you not have a better relationship with that special someone when you take time to "make love" to the heart and mind.

Seems like rushing into a relationship we seem to forget that there is a heart, soul, and mind at work as well.

2007-03-19 03:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by weepingwillow 1

My Egyptian bf's brother died recently. My bf is currently widthrawn and uncommunicative but I believe he needs me... Only I need to know what I can do to comfort him. I wish he would just tell me but I don't think he knows himself or that he knows what to say. I am scared to offend him or seem insensitive. I tried to reach out to him; to find out what I can about his situation and what's happening in his life since he ignored me for 3 weeks. So far, he's not saying anything more about his life and He's accused me of being selfish when I asked him what he feels about me. I am feeling hopeless not knowing what to do.... I really love this guy and hope he would open up and trust himself entirely to me.

2007-03-19 03:38:37 · 4 answers · asked by kitten 2

I normally pay for everything..... but it was such a nice change that the girl i am seeing .....bought me lunch and a present....
so refreshing.... I was really pleased.....

This cant be normal...... ?

2007-03-19 03:38:35 · 24 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

is it really any true love?
what about first love? does it lasts?

2007-03-19 03:37:56 · 6 answers · asked by Eeda 1

2007-03-19 03:36:50 · 42 answers · asked by xtanyax 3

I've been with my bf for 2 months(im 20,hes24)I am his first gf in 2 yrs(his ex cheated on him & was badly hurt this)At first he was always wanting me to come out to where he lives,we live 30 min away and only i have a car.In the first couple weeks he took me to meet his parents and his friends and i was very happy with this new relationship.Lately hes been acting distant.Now we barely see each other and when we do,we are either at his parents house or out with his friends.I feel neglected & like he doesnt care about me i've brought his up with him b4 and he just tells me i shouldnt feel like that and to just "chill" and that hes not going anywhere.When we are together he is very attentive and tells me how much he enjoys hanging out with me,but then I dont see him for 4 or 5 days.i've also noticed he drinks alot.I want to bring this up again b/c it's REALLY bothering me.I dont want to break up and I dont want to play games..Why do u think hes acting like this?how should i handle this?

2007-03-19 03:35:25 · 18 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1

having sex, or lying in bed just cuddling each other, and him feeling u all over and you both just holding on to each other?

2007-03-19 03:34:58 · 16 answers · asked by oooops! 2

my bf just broke up with me he said he doesnt know what he wants.....that he doesnt know if he sees a future with me..ive been with him for 2 years...i thought he would figure that out already....he said that he doesnt want to talk to me and he doesnt want to see me until he is ready....i dont know what to do i love him so much and i hate waiting her for him...

2007-03-19 03:33:51 · 9 answers · asked by urallineed2have 1

ive told my bf (hes a virgin) that im not a virgin and have had a few sexual partners. but he keeps saying he cant wait to take my virginity like i will take him. why is he saying this when he knows im not a virgin

2007-03-19 03:33:51 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-19 03:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by pam_donaldson 1

I'm 26 and I have a 51 year old man in love with me. I'm very independent so it''s not the money he helps when I ask. He loves my son to death he does have a 17 yr old daughter and 21 yr old son. I would have good security with him all he wants me to do is be there to make the rest of his life happy. Is that a big age difference. My mom is 48 that's so close it's kinda werid. I've been dating someone that is 28 yrs old and that has been hopeless. You would think that we would work together to have a furture but we don't I pay most of the rent pay over $250 in light food shopping. I'm the one that takes charge to make things happen it's like I have 3 kids mine his and him. I'm going to a very rough time not very happy with where my life is at right now. I feel lost and overwhemled. I go into depression in a snap of fingers. I got out of a depression state just a few months ago and I don't want to go through that again.

2007-03-19 03:31:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 years, we see eachother 6 days a week, text all threw school, and talk on the phone when ever were not with eachother. i love her so much and im so scared that when college comes i will lose her because her love for me isint strong... how can i know she loves me as much as i love her? what are some things to look for/notice to help me know? i have asked her, and she says she loves me the same, but i can just feel she dosent (were gettign over a huge fight, happened 3 weeks ago, and shes gettign alot better) will this go away with more time? please help =/

2007-03-19 03:29:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-19 03:26:21 · 36 answers · asked by xtanyax 3

okay, so....
a boy asked me to a concert, i said yes, he came to the door, and picked me up. but when we got into his truck, it turned out his sister was going too. so we get going, and his cell rings. he pulls into a parking lot, and gets out, his dad hops in, and the boy, takes passanger side. the four of us (me, the boy, his sister, and his dad) go to the concert. it is indoors, and we sit together. he offers to buy me a c-d, and then on the way home, buys me ice cream. when we get to my house, he walks me to the door, and says good night, and that he will see me later.


would you concider this a date? even though it was not one-on-one. from his point of veiw, was it? (hes 18, and very laid back. it was going to just be him and i, but his parents plans failed, so his dad decided to go along, and his sister too.)

2007-03-19 03:24:11 · 6 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3

hi so my bf is coming back from work and its been 2 months since we saw each other and tomorrow he is coming back. now i thought that it would be nice to do something nice for him. how can i seduce him but not make him think that i want to sleep with him just want him to desire me.

2007-03-19 03:21:04 · 13 answers · asked by lisa 1

Are you interested in visiting africa ,the crandle of mankind?well am in kenya and ..,

2007-03-19 03:20:55 · 5 answers · asked by faa 1

This is from my last posting. I dont know how some people can say I was rascist when I clearly said I dated a dark skin guy. I said I am brown skin because I am not dark nor am I light ( I am in between). I have seen some attractive dark skin guys but never went out with them because they are players. I am not rascist it is just a prefernce. Just as some commented on people liking blondes or brunettes, and etc. I didnt say I wouldnt date a dark skin guy all I said was I am more attracted to light skin guys. I have been since I was in day care. S*** I was talking to a light skin well spanish guy once but didnt go any further because his personality was not good. So nothing influenced me it is just my preference. Even my mother noticed that I liked light skin guys when I was in the Public School, the 2nd grade. I like the singer USHER- He is fine as hell. AM I still rascist? So nothing influenced me. It is just my prefernce. PLease if you have nothing nice to say dont bother answer

2007-03-19 03:20:53 · 15 answers · asked by Ally R 1

2007-03-19 03:19:39 · 31 answers · asked by dave 1

2007-03-19 03:19:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this girl at chruch say i was cute to her firend one time and weeks after weeks we stare in are eyes for long and when its time to geel and shake everyone hands she comes near to me and then nextweek i was siting whit my firend and i look back and she was stareing at me i stare back then i hear a wisper like hes cute and my firend look at her way and then he stop and go sit near the girl and i look at the girl her touge was sicking out and smileing a little and wispering to my firend and keep on sstareing at me when i look at her and after chruch she walk slowi near me and stare at me a little does she like me me what does she want?

2007-03-19 03:18:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-19 03:18:03 · 22 answers · asked by alwan a 1