Singles & Dating - 15 March 2007

As a student of psychology, I can't help but wonder are people born with the ability to communicate and freely pursue the opposite sex or is there certain criterias that need to be met in order to start an emotional relationship. (i.e. firm family institution, self-esteem, etc.)

2007-03-15 15:19:21 · 6 answers · asked by Grace 1

2007-03-15 15:19:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my school, I'm "pretty fly" with the whole school and everything, and he has to have seen that too. Last week i asked him out and i told him that I'd give him time to answer... a week later he tells my friend that he has to "decline" my offer. so, now I'm embarrassed that a band geek turned me down.
He liked me last year too... :(

2007-03-15 15:18:14 · 33 answers · asked by Radar M 2

Do white guys usually prefer a nice rack over a nice, round butt? It seems like all of the hispanic and African American guys I know would rather the girl have a nice butt, and the white guys I know would all rather the girl have a nice rack. Are there any white guys who'd choose a nice butt?

2007-03-15 15:18:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i told him that i dont like it when he is so shy and he said that he will try to talk more but he doesnt know why he gets so tince around me. why do u think he gets so tince around me?
truthfully wat do u think.

2007-03-15 15:17:43 · 2 answers · asked by elaina 2

whenever i talk to a guy lately i get nervous and blushing... hey guys out there... do you think its cute or creepy when a girl blushes and gets nervous around you? also, how can i be more comfortable? thanks for your input!

2007-03-15 15:17:18 · 8 answers · asked by kristin p 2

Ok So im black, i just started going to this new school a month ago. And i like this girl in my class but im black and she's white. And that kind of adds to the reason of me being afraid to talk to her. Im a sophomore and she is a freshmen. And Im also kind of shy and im the only black person in this class. I want to talk to her sometimes but there is this mean kid that sits next to her. (i dont have any problems with him personally i just have a feeling he will make things worse if i try to talk to her). Well this kid loves to joke around alot and he loves to make fun of people. So what if i go to talk to her one day and he just looks at me and starts laughing and ruins it. And i dont want to come off too strong either. But all these things really make me nervous, and this class and lunch is the only time i see her. And that mean kid, he sits at her lunch table.

What do you guys think i should do? I cant go on like this.

2007-03-15 15:16:53 · 11 answers · asked by robinson_cj 2

I really like this girl at school and she used to like me too. The other day we were joking around all day and at then at the end of the day she writes me a letter. I though it was going to be a letter to ask me out but when I read it it says: "Craig, y are you so mean 2 me? U really hurt my feelings: All I do is try to get you 2 notice me. Gee kill a girl 4 trying! You dont even kno Im alive. Am I that ugly or what? U better not show anyone this either. Thanx. Jerk!" I really like this girl and had no idea she felt this way. I thought she knew that I liked her. Anyway, what do you make of this letter and what do you think I should do?

2007-03-15 15:15:14 · 11 answers · asked by kclvmw24 1

a boy in school hangs out with me all the time from a guys point of view... do u hang out with girls that you would like all the time?

2007-03-15 15:14:24 · 4 answers · asked by madi s 1

Okay...so I got a big problem. I am 14 and in 8th grade. And I am shy. I have a guy that I like so bad and we flirted with eachother for like 4 or 5 months then he was taken out of the one class I had with him. So we just kinda never talk any more. Well, I still like him alot and I see him at the libary every wednesday and neither one of us talk to eachother. But in this process I have had two other guys ask me out but I just sayed no cause I really like the first guy. I guess im just afrade that if we just stop talking then I will never be with him. He has my number and e-mail and myspace but we dont talk. Oh, and when I messaged him on myspace he didnt even reply...but seriously I dont care if you guys just tell me that I dont need to worry about him cause im still young but I cant sleep at night cause im up all night thinking about him! What should I really do about this cause I need some real help...and I dont wanna write him a note telling him I like him cause that isnt really me.

2007-03-15 15:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by Katie-bug 2

I am nervous, angry, worried, teriffied, upset, etc., etc....about the topic of ...SEX. It seems like the world is biologically unfair because girls experience pain at the first time they have sex while guys feel nothing but pleasure (unless they love you and care about your pain.) I am just so shaken up over what the people have told me on here. "oh it hurts soooo bad" or "it doesnt hurt at all" which is it??! Another thing that upsets me is the issue of virginity. In the 70s', girls were giving up their virginity left and right...but not for love...or money. They did it to feel LIBERATED. Girl on top...yeah. But on the other side...I feel as if if I have sex the "wrong way" I'm just going to feel awful afterwards and feel you know....DEGRADED. So that's how I feel....being a virgin is bad and not being a virgin is also bad. So I'm just asking, for further research, if I were to wait untill I was fully "grown" and old enough, would sex still hurt? What way could I do it so it wouldn't

2007-03-15 15:13:11 · 11 answers · asked by Jenn 1

2007-03-15 15:12:55 · 3 answers · asked by jessica 1

is it normal for a girl to always have a guy around her or to have all but like three or four guys numbers in her cell?

2007-03-15 15:12:33 · 3 answers · asked by vixen63_babygirl 2

you + me = peas in a pod

she likes me i take it ?
right ?

2007-03-15 15:12:27 · 13 answers · asked by Nick723 3

theres this girl in my third hour that sits in front of me. i try to filrt with her but i dont think she is getting the sign.

2007-03-15 15:12:13 · 11 answers · asked by badgerboy 2

OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. IOn the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt bad so a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Since then I have said hi to him 2 on msn. Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to.

2007-03-15 15:11:50 · 1 answers · asked by Hottie 1

Alright, I know everyone is going to say to move on, he is a jerk and a cheater/player, and "why would you want to be with him."

We dated 2 yrs almost engaged, broke up. He dated this other girl 5 months, still with her.

We didnt see eachother for 5 months and now, cause we had to settle money, we saw eachother a few times. He started kissing me etc, we made love.....He says he is confused and cares for me. Last night he called me to talk, and we hung out, had a great time. I asked him "what do you want?" and he says "Everything" - What the hell does that mean?

He says he misses me so much, sometimes he thinks he is happy with his current gf and at times, he isnt, he has doubts.

I know we belong together, even though it probably isnt worth all the pain he caused, but in the end, I do love him so much.

How do I get him back? I feel like he is already half way there. He says seeing me is hard cause it reminds him of how we were. What do I do?

2007-03-15 15:10:14 · 13 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2

A friend of my is dating this teacher .................. which kind confuses me............. caused i have a crush on my teacher... but i know it is nothing serious.............and it is just me been a kid.... and the problem is that i think about him and i know its wrong......

2007-03-15 15:09:16 · 7 answers · asked by Mili 1

I mean physicaly.

2007-03-15 15:08:41 · 23 answers · asked by Dancing Queen 1

I messed up big time. Been with a girl 3 years, Totally in love. Moved away... and had a year of me... new job, new country & getting over sum stress i had b4 her... NOT HER. Whilst away, i flirted.. on & off for months, she begged & begged for me to come home. We were perfect for each other. She found out halve way into the yr I was away & we kept working ever since to make it wrk. Now, after seeing her recently, she got tired of begging for me to come home, & told me she had learnt to not miss me, hide her feelings to get on. We were supposed to move back in together this month, I give up everything as I know it's time & I'm wrong. I'm AN ***. Fact is, she changed her mind last week, Said she can't, she needs her fun, attention, loves & cares but can't be with me. She wants to be left alone, won't see me & is having 'fun with other people' I'm thousands of miles away living hell. Please help me, If there is anything I could do, I would do it. I know I'm wrong in this.. but shes the 1

2007-03-15 15:08:08 · 3 answers · asked by the_randomone 2

okay i broke up with my bf and he went out with another girl rite away, then he told me he just went out with her to get me jealous so he broke up with her and tried to get me bak, now hes going out with the same girla again and idk if hes just doing it to get me jealous but idk im just not sure...i sorta wana tell her that he mite just be using her but i dont want her to get mad cuz me and her are sorta friends now?? any ideas??

2007-03-15 15:07:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i only see her once a week at church, and we don't go to the same school, but she seems to smile at me and stuff when i enter the room.

2007-03-15 15:07:26 · 11 answers · asked by eddiecobain 1

i really like him but he doesnt want me to it because i work with guys. he also thinks that i dont have enough time for him.but i am at his house every other weekend because my parnets never got maried that is a whole nothing thing. i really love cheerleading and my team needs me ??

2007-03-15 15:07:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going through a divorce and I am having a hard time dealing with starting a commiting relationship cause I fear it will just cause more pain. I really like a friend of mine, we sleep together,and we are the closests friends can get! I still sleep with other people on occasion but him the most! He cares alot about me but I just dont wanna find out its just another heartache! what should I do

2007-03-15 15:06:57 · 1 answers · asked by thebrighterside2008 1

2007-03-15 15:06:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am taking her on a sunset dinner picnic but there is no night life on Maui so i need an idea for something to do after dinner!! Something besides a movie....

2007-03-15 15:06:29 · 3 answers · asked by petesteck 2

i am 13turning 14 and im lookin fo ra good bf i had my fair share of dumb guys. i am latina,italian, jamaican. i get lots of As on my report card. i am apart of the popular crew but im not oen of teh snooby ones. i am true to ma guy and respect his wishes but mess up pteh relatinship and its over. guys tend to ask me out cuz my bust is a 32c and me and all my girls shop at stiches and orfus, yorkdale, i love gettin clothes from costa blanca. so guys who do u think my perfect or close to perfec guy would be o and regardless he has to be H-O-T remeber i am a popular but thats as snobby as i am.o and all of me and teh populars families are loaded wit money.

2007-03-15 15:05:56 · 7 answers · asked by angel_moi 1

When you like a girl and it is getting uncomfortable for you. What do you do. I have a friend. One week he is hot to trot, I see a lot of him, we talk about doing things together, hugs kisses on the cheek etc. then he disappears for two weeks and I barely hear from him. Is he just regrouping? Is that what you guys do?

2007-03-15 15:05:14 · 3 answers · asked by Gatekeeper 4

Do aggressive and flirtatious girls get men or do nice, sweet girls do?

2007-03-15 15:04:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have unusually dark brown eyes (they appear black most of the time) and I am complimented on them on almost a daily basis- more than any other feature. This confuses me, because my whole life, I have thought that pretty eyes were green, blue, or hazel! Can brown eyes actually be pretty? Or is everyone just being nice to me? Opinions please!

2007-03-15 15:04:37 · 8 answers · asked by Charlotte M 2