i really like him but he doesnt want me to it because i work with guys. he also thinks that i dont have enough time for him.but i am at his house every other weekend because my parnets never got maried that is a whole nothing thing. i really love cheerleading and my team needs me ??
2007-03-15 15:07:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he's insecure because you hang out with other guys. It also sounds like he doesn't trust you. That's not a relationship. Tell him he can either get used to it or get someone else. You deserve to be with someone who loves you, and supports your activities, and appreciates that you're committed to something you enjoy.
2007-03-15 15:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and ONLY you can come down to a final decision for that...but if you quit ...quit because YOU want too not because a boy or anyone else wants you too... if you like cheerleading then i would keeping cheering...trust me...when its gone you would know what you miss...our coach quit on us in the middle of the year this year and we had a dang good squad and when i say good i mean fantastic!...but since she quit we werent able to put any of it to good and it hurt alot of us...and since then i really miss it more than ever cause cheerleading was my life! and now i feel as if i have nothing!...although thank god we are getting a better dedicated coach this year...i think the boy should support decisions you make and the hobbies and things you do and not bring you down about them...do you really think he is one that u will stay with for life and marry? 99 percent chance probly now (no offense) so do what YOU like to do! thats the best advice....good luck!
2007-03-18 13:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you his property? I didn't think so. You're both too young and have more than enough to do right now preparing for the rest of your lives. You need this outlet and your team needs you, exactly as you stated. If it bugs your boyfriend, you need a new boyfriend - better still, avoid such entanglements until you're out of college.
2007-03-15 15:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself if your boyfriend has done anything to please you ever and that would he give up something that he really liked just because you dont like it.....From there on you can decide what u would like to do....just take the lead and follow or then have a life of your own too!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 15:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by unahrhem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love cheer leading then stay on it. don't give it up for anyone but you. your boyfriend is just going to have to deal with it. you have to have trust in a relationship , if you don't well it won't last.
2007-03-15 15:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should love you for who you are and cheerleading is part of that. Do not let a guy who doesn't love all of you take away your dreams.
2007-03-15 15:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont quit ur dream for a dum boy, if he reallly liked u he would let u do what u wanted to!!!
2007-03-15 15:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its his problem not yours. he does not own you. you only have to answer to your parents, teachers, pastor etc & bf is not one of them. inform him either he support you in this or he can absolutely take a hike. P E R I O D !
2007-03-15 15:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by audrey_halley2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't quit, if worst come to worst, you should date some from your cheer leading squad...
2007-03-15 16:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by janier234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋