Singles & Dating - 12 March 2007

I grew up without a father & now seem to be falling for older men all the time. Is it because I am looking for a father figure or is it because older men are naturally loyal and trustworthy?

2007-03-12 18:39:27 · 6 answers · asked by amy 1

last time we mate on valentine day, every thing was good till that and after that also we were talking over the phone but when their parents came to meet her before holi, from that day she is not talking with me, please help me.

2007-03-12 18:38:24 · 5 answers · asked by yashwant 1

2007-03-12 18:37:31 · 27 answers · asked by bperez2002 3

I like really like this guy, but he's like oceans away and I'm a physical person. I want someone to be there when I need and do the same for him. I want actual interaction. Do u guys think it works? I know it happened before but like for someone who needs physical attention, is it worth a shot?

2007-03-12 18:37:21 · 6 answers · asked by RC 3

Okay so this guy is my friend and he always tells me who he likes but this time he is being secretive and forcing me to guess. And he is being very quite about it , but at the same time, he is acting normal to me, sometimes insulting me! But he was sooo nice to the the other girls he liked! Does he like me this time???

2007-03-12 18:35:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey. How are you? Ever since we stopped talking, (me and her haven't talked for ten months) I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. You know, I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I remember the first thing you said was that I harassed you. It's kind of funny really, that was the last thing I ever wanted to do to you but I guess I did anyway. If you said that because I called you every weeknight, it as only because when we were at school we'd only talk for two minutes. I never really got to talk to you when it'd be just me and you. Even when I called, someone else would always call. I was always afraid that I was doing something wrong to make you not like me. I also remember that you told me I obsessed over you. I guess I did and I'm sorry, But what boy wouldn't obsess over an amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, beautiful girl like you? Especially if he didn't want to

2007-03-12 18:34:41 · 4 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

We were working on a project and he stopped by to se if I had figured out which website I wanted to use on this project. I said I hadn't figured it out yet. I stood there looking at him and I stepped forward...wanting to kiss him. He stared back like he knew I wanted something...maybe just wanted to say something...maybe just wanted to shut the door. But he didn't get his kiss. He just walked away.

Do you think he could tell I wanted to kiss him???

2007-03-12 18:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found a guy that I went to high school with on Myspace. I added him. The next day I get a e-mail saying "Do you want to have sex" So I responded maybe.. But then he responded back, we should hang out sometime. What do you think? I said yea sure. Should I go hang out with him?

2007-03-12 18:33:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talking to my online friend Tammy for nearly a year now, and we're really close, but she says online relationships don't work and she likes another guy, who so far hasn't returned her affection (I'm not sure how much she likes him, or how much he likes her, but it doesn't seem to be going anywhere). I don't think she knows (or believes) that if she wants it I will find a way to move across the planet to be with her next year.

Later this year I'm going to call her by surprise and ask if she wants me to move across the world to be with her (I won't propose marriage, because I don't think marriage is best for us, just being together), as soon as I can be sure I can get the money. I'll tell her if she doesn't want me, there's no reason for me to come, but that if any person loved her half as much as I do where she lives, it would be enough. I just want to make her happy and for her to make me happy, and she's like my baby, I could never stop feeling the way I do about her. :)

2007-03-12 18:31:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not a good looking girl however my boyfriend is quite handsome. we have been together for 6 mths now. I wonder why he would choose to be with me. We are happy together. however, he doesnt intro me to his family and his friends. I start to feel so insecured.

2007-03-12 18:30:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend whenever whe are cuddling he always rubs, kissess,rasberries, etc my stomach..

i've read/heard that when guys do this that they subconciously would want you to be the mother or there children.. is there any truth to this????

he's always talking about wanting kids and a family and he's told me that he is going to ask me to marry him so be prepared but we didnt really talk about it.

So why does he constaintly rub my stomach during cuddling?

2007-03-12 18:30:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

for the past 2 years almost i have had almost absolutely no sex drive and i'm only 23 years old!!! My girlfriend usually has had a very high sex drive, but i somehow i've not been able to deliver. recently she has stopped wanting to have sex all together, which worries me a LOT about our relationship. i still love her very much and find her very attractive, but for some reason i can't seem to ever be in the mood. also, i've never been able to go for more than a few minutes. i have never had good stamina, and have never been to confident in bed. early in our relationship we were having sex almost once a day, but it didn't last for very long. now were lucky to have sex one every 2 weeks, and even luckier if it's good. so, does anyone know how i could possibly try and fix myself or am i completely broken? and, no, i'm not going to buy your pleasure pills from your website. i want a natural remedy....

2007-03-12 18:29:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i'm currently a sophomore at college... and i hooked up with this guy last friday night and without getting into the gory details, it was absolutely mind blowing. he was a gentleman, he wasn't selfish, and was amazing in bed.

anyhow, he woke me up around 8am, told me he had to leave, kissed me and left. and when i woke up later on, i found a post-it note with his NAME (horrors, i wasn't THAT drunk) and his phone number written on it stuck to my desk.

i'm just so confused because honestly, this was the first time i have had a random hook up, and my understanding is that guys don't ever want to see the girl they hooked up with ever again...

so did he just leave the number there to be polite? or what does he mean by that? i'm so confused, please help!

oh and he also left his belt in my room which i still have... i don't know if that's relevant at all to the situation.

2007-03-12 18:29:00 · 10 answers · asked by caraibes_cate 1

i slept with this boy last year in NYC (i live on the west coast) (i met him through a friend and it we hooked up immediately) we kept in touch for a while (about a week) and then didnt bother. last week i randomly sent him a message on an online social network. he messaged back saying i should call. i told some friends this and they think im desperate for having contacted him. i think i have nothing to lose but they are making me reconsider. im not sure what i want from this. and i dont even know why im thinking about it so much. maybe im just thinking about it too much and thats where my problem lies. any suggestions? any words of wisdom? thank you all!

2007-03-12 18:28:15 · 17 answers · asked by is it too late? 1

Just wondering. For me its opening up and trusting.

2007-03-12 18:28:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my frien ask me to be his girlfriend. would i accept it not minding the fact that if would break-up our frienship will be gone and never be the same again................

2007-03-12 18:27:04 · 10 answers · asked by aya francheska 1

hi I am 21 year old girl and in love with a 23 year old parsi boy. since he doesnot belong to our religion, my parents will never allow our marriage and I am sure about that. but he loves me a lot and I dont want to let this boy go out of my life.
Please advice what should I do?? There is no use talking to my parents because we belong to a conservative family where intercast marriages are not allowed. please advice.

2007-03-12 18:26:05 · 18 answers · asked by natasha 1

I just saw this on I Love New York and thought it was funny.

2007-03-12 18:25:56 · 4 answers · asked by Your Mom 6

GUYS: do you like girls you are crushing to call you? Do you ever get shy to call her?

2007-03-12 18:25:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He tells me he still loves me, misses me, and one day we will live a beautiful life together. We used to have sex when I visited, then go weeks without talking...etc. Last time I saw him he took me out to dinner and said he had to be good, the sex in between was "weird" ...waht does this mean? does he really still love me? is he waiting for the sex until we get together again? does this show respect for me and maturity on his part? its obvious he has no one else b/c he texts me all the time saying he misses me etc. but im at college and he wants me to have fun and couldnt handle the long distance. why does he not want to get sexual anymore and say he has to be good?

2007-03-12 18:24:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever tried on you ladies undies? Did you lady find you weaing them? Or did she ask you to put them on? Maybe it wasent you ladies but your friends undies?

2007-03-12 18:23:55 · 4 answers · asked by markleo1977 1

I know there are no clear cut answers to this question so i guess i'm asking for personal experiences more than advice. How do you get over someone? Cause i think i'll have better luck in the future if i can let go of my past.

2007-03-12 18:23:54 · 8 answers · asked by blhenne 3

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 and a half months. And I think it's love. I know that it's kind of early to really know..but I just have this feeling that it's the real thing. How can I be sure?

2007-03-12 18:23:39 · 7 answers · asked by Lucie<3 3

He says he still loves me but doesn't want to get sexual with me..what does this mean?
My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 6 months after I left for college but have remained friends (he broke up with me b/c he couldn't handle the long distance and I am also seven years younger.) He use to want to get sexual with me when I came to visit but now, after he doesnt...tells me he loves me, misses me, but has to be good. What does this mean? he says doesn't love anyone else and texts me all the time saying he misses me etc. . do you think he wants me for the future and doesnt want

2007-03-12 18:22:37 · 4 answers · asked by Janie 1

I've been talking to my online friend Tammy for nearly a year now, and we're really close, but she says online relationships don't work and she likes another guy, who so far hasn't returned her affection (I'm not sure how much she likes him, or how much he likes her, but it doesn't seem to be going anywhere). I don't think she knows (or believes) that if she wants it I will find a way to move across the planet to be with her next year.

Later this year I'm going to call her by surprise and ask if she wants me to move across the world to be with her (I won't propose marriage, because I don't think marriage is best for us, just being together), as soon as I can be sure I can get the money. I'll tell her if she doesn't want me, there's no reason for me to come, but that if any person loved her half as much as I do where she lives, it would be enough. I just want to make her happy and for her to make me happy, and she's like my baby, I could never stop feeling the way I do about her. :)

2007-03-12 18:22:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

If i talk to myself, but not in public , like when I'm alone in my house, or doing my homework or whatever, does that make me crazy?

2007-03-12 18:22:13 · 7 answers · asked by Jason T. 3

2007-03-12 18:21:41 · 4 answers · asked by Samantha A 1

I have this friend who is a guy and said he was "raped" when he was in his early teens.
He said that she was drunk and she just went to where he was sleeping and had intercourse with him.
He told his mother and got tested and did everything a person should do in this situation.
But my main question is could a guy really get raped?
cause to me it would seem the man has to be "willing" to take part in sex.
if you know what I mean.
like how could it be rape if he was turned on to the point of getting an erection?
also, when this happened this was his first time to have intercourse.
do you think theres a possibility that he might have a child out there from this one encounter?
we are really close friends and I was just curious.

2007-03-12 18:21:18 · 6 answers · asked by lady_luv 2

ok.. heres the deal.. theres this guy.. we know each other have met became friends and all, but he decides to tell me really likes me, like he said damn i never realized i like u so much and all that... but all this came only after we went swimming and he saw me in a bathing suit.
i guess i am a tomboy, but now why does he have this sudden intrest in me.. is it cuz he ACTUALLY likes me or is it cuz he now knows what lies under those baggy clothes????

2007-03-12 18:20:58 · 10 answers · asked by shrimpy 3

I have this huge crush on my BFF's cousin. But I'm shy, and when he asked me out I said no. He later asked my friend why I said no, and she told him I was shy. He called me a prude little idiot(according to my friend). I dont think I'm prude, just 'cuz I get good grades, and am still a virgin. Dont say he's mean for calling me that, because I dont really care, but why would he say that. He doesn't even know me that well. How can I stop being so shy, and say yes. He's gonna ask me again, what do I do?!?!?!?!?

2007-03-12 18:19:11 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Peanut♥ 2