ok.. heres the deal.. theres this guy.. we know each other have met became friends and all, but he decides to tell me really likes me, like he said damn i never realized i like u so much and all that... but all this came only after we went swimming and he saw me in a bathing suit.
i guess i am a tomboy, but now why does he have this sudden intrest in me.. is it cuz he ACTUALLY likes me or is it cuz he now knows what lies under those baggy clothes????
2007-03-12 18:20:58 · 10 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats a toughy...maybe it was a coincidence, and give him a try, if things dont work out, then you will never wonder "what if?" You could ask him what he likes about you. Or you could accept the fact that he likes your body along with your company. Keep wearing your baggy clothes and see if his feelings for you have changed, then you will know. Just be yourself dont change, and if he's still around, you'll know if hes there for you or just your body.
2007-03-12 18:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you the kind of person that likes to analyze thing's your probably right on. A bathing suit and a hot body Is a great motivator. He should have been honest and said what he meant... damn i never realized how hot your body was, lol
2007-03-13 01:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe before he only saw you a a friend. i mean you said you were a tomboy. so maybe seeing you in something that was feminine. made him see you as something other than one of the guys. i may not be right, but i am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt
2007-03-13 01:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by brittany d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Afraid so. Think about it. You basically answered your own question. It's very obvious about his interest in you. It shifted after seeing you in something more appealing. He's a guy, and he's also not really thinking about a long-term commitment. The choice now, is up to you as to whether you make his day, and ruin yours.
2007-03-13 01:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by David T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be both ... you should first assess him as your friend and see if he is he kind of person that would just be materialistic that way. Also, he's a guy so, he likes to see skin every now and then, you know. I'd say just get to know him more...
2007-03-13 01:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont judge too quickly.
I mean, maybe he liked u a lot and now he likes u especially cause of ur bathing suit,
i mean. its probably the best time that he thought it was to tell you!
2007-03-13 01:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by dudedudedude94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you seen eurotrip? this is like that. maybe he realizes that he has been friends with this amazing girl, but never saw her as one until he saw her half naked. it's your call, do you want a shallow guy? it shouldn't matter what clothes you wear, this sudden interest is kinda suspicious.
2007-03-13 01:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by that boi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be what lies under your baggy clothers.and it could be he see you as a young lady.and he realized it now and like you .but don't let him get nothing that lies under these baggy clothers....
2007-03-13 01:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he liked you b4, but after he saw for himself that you really are a girl, he was positive that he likes u. maybe wear tighter clothes around him (not tight, but not baggy)..some jewelry.
2007-03-13 01:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YA SOUNDS LIKE HE'S ATTRACTED TO YOUR BODY MORE THAN ANYTHING. MAYBE HE LIKES U BUT SHOULDN'T HE HAVE REALISED THAT WITHOUT SEEING YOUR SKIN EXPOSED?
DO U LIKE HIM? JUST MAKE SURE U KNOW HE PROPER LIKES U BEFORE U GET INVOLVED, OR HE MIGHT HURT YOUR FEELINGS
2007-03-13 01:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by tupac4evaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋