I know there are no clear cut answers to this question so i guess i'm asking for personal experiences more than advice. How do you get over someone? Cause i think i'll have better luck in the future if i can let go of my past.
2007-03-12 18:23:54 · 8 answers · asked by blhenne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Meeting new people is the best way. Not necessarily dating, where you might find yourself in comparison mode - but socializing with your friends, taking up a new hobby, doing volunteer work.
It will broaden your outlook and give you less focus on what "was" because it will have begun "after" and have no reference in the past.
I wish there was a pill!
2007-03-12 18:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by pepper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you get over someone? well in my opinion you really never get OVER someone. you just move on. Moving on and getting over are two completely diff. things. when you love someone you can't get over them, because they become a part of you, but you CAN move on with your life. I found that if i did things that didn't constantly remind me of that person it helped, and i eventually met someone new and better. so my advice would be to stop trying to get over that person because chances are your probably staring at everything that person got you or photos, or getting a knot in your stomach because you recognise something they'd wear or do. Because when you move on you either become too busy to recognise or stare at things (that while you were with them you probably didn't even notice), or you realize "hey im still me, im still a good person and someone out there realizes that and wants to make me happy and love me" and then you pick up the pieces and move on.
2007-03-12 18:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write the person's name on a piece of paper. Wad the paper up. Set it on fire (in an ashtray or something that won't burn...obviously). Collect the remaining ashes and flush them down the toilet. As the water swirls away, say "Ashes to ashes, dust to dust, you gotta go, you must, you must."
2007-03-12 18:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by miri-miri-off-the-wall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on how to better yourself. Find hobbies , go out with friends, meet other people, get to know yourself better.
2007-03-12 18:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard, just give it time.. but in the mean time just do somthing to keep yourself busy.. good luck
2007-03-12 18:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somebody new!
2007-03-12 18:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date someone else.
2007-03-12 18:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should pray
2007-03-12 18:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋