I am not a good looking girl however my boyfriend is quite handsome. we have been together for 6 mths now. I wonder why he would choose to be with me. We are happy together. however, he doesnt intro me to his family and his friends. I start to feel so insecured.
2007-03-12 18:30:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He loves you but is ashamed to bring you around his friends and family...
2007-03-12 18:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no.
if his friends and family have not been intro-ed to you, I hate to say it but thats not good.
Espcially his friends. If a guy doesnt want you to be seen by his friends, you have a real problem on your hands. I'd talk to him about that.
There might be a reason behind it. For instance I'm a very personal person so usually I'm not so quick to advertise my friends and fam to my girl. Plus I can be a little territorial. I'm sure its much of the same considering how long youve been dating but I'd definitly look into it. Dont make a fuss about it though, just be understanding.
2007-03-13 01:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Quite Frankly with TheFokalist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK to be honest I would have to see a picture of you both but...I bet you are insecure and just think he's hot and your not...
I am the most insecure person on this planet but guess what...you can't tell only because I know what insecurity can and will do to you.
I could go on and on about this but...I don't have all night and HE'S MOST LIKELY NOT HOTTER THAT YOU...SO "JUST ENJOY HAVING A HOT GUY IF NOTHING ELSE...
2007-03-13 01:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by SCRAWFORD2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... he must have seen something in you...
Beauty isn't just skin deep.... they usually lie deeper within...
Since you guys have been together for only 6 month you shouldn't be that insecure he must be planning to do it sooner or later or....
He has a secret....
if he denies you when you accidentally bump into his friends then you got to think twice though...
2007-03-13 01:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind. If you really care about someone- looks should not be a factor at all. As for not introducing you. I hate to say this but it sounds like he's embarrassed. Its the way guys are. They will hide love til the death. It makes 'us' sound like softies, or less manly. But if he really cares about you. that feeling'll pass. I cant really explain it. Its one of those things that guys are just weird about.
2007-03-13 01:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by <*Psyco*> 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him what going on, if you are in a realtionship
then that is a good question, why have he introduced you
his famiy and friends. but what ever his reason dont let him
or any one make you feel insecured.. if donesot appreicate
you then time to find someone that will.
2007-03-13 01:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was with my latest g/f i rarely introduced her to friends or family - i wasn't embarrassed to be with her or anything like that i simply didn't think of it at the time. i had to get reminded often to introduce her.
2007-03-13 01:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by rmxer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey..you are obviously beautiful to him or else he wouldnt be with you to start with, and maybe he feels its too early to introduce you to his family, just give it time
2007-03-13 01:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by bebekaychic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him why he hasn't introduced you to his family and friends? Maybe he just isn't ready. n
2007-03-13 01:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecurity is dangerous. guys hate it when girls doubt their own beauty. when they think a girl is beautiful, he will stick to it. if people disagree with him, they will get lynched. guys see things different from girls.
2007-03-13 01:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by that boi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋