Singles & Dating - 11 March 2007

allrighty, a friend of the guy i like confirmed that he had a mutual interest in me. however-- we're both shy. i think his friend will probably tell him that i'm interested now, so once the cat is out of the bag, where do i go from here?

i definitely want to pursue him without scaring him away.
plus, he works for my dad. He seems to think that pursuing me will cost him his job-- and he relaly respects my dad, but my dad doesnt really care about who i date. He's not like "that".




Do i suggest we hang out, or let him take the initiative?

2007-03-11 05:29:25 · 5 answers · asked by jay 2

2007-03-11 05:27:14 · 40 answers · asked by big_footballlutontown 1

okay there's this boy and let's say his name is Austin and at first we were friends and it seemed like he really like me but now sents we are dating it seems like we are just friends to him but his friend likes me to so does he really like me or does he just want me for my body .PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

2007-03-11 05:26:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

scenario, me and this girl, haven't been talking since last tuesday when we had a argument. I never got to tell her my true feelings that I Love her, and shes just been avoiding me since last tuesday...So should I tell her? Should I go to her job and tell her since she wont see me personally? Should I email it to her? Should I talk to one of her friends to see if she talks about me? I know I love this girl, Its just that feeling I get when I think about her, where the worst thing could be goin on and thinkin about her just eases my mind. but yeah Should I tell her I love her and how if she keeps avoiding me?

2007-03-11 05:26:38 · 10 answers · asked by Mystery Man 2

well there is this guy he is my friend and i really like him and i really want to go out with him how can i get him to ask me out any advice would help thanks!!!

2007-03-11 05:25:57 · 5 answers · asked by valerie d 1

usually becuz you're interested in her as more than a friend?

2007-03-11 05:24:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't think i've ever actually seen people making out at movies anymore.. so do they Still do it??

2007-03-11 05:23:56 · 12 answers · asked by coolio 4

If the guy who works with you .... how to stop yourself from loving him .........its really hard cos our relationship is really deep plus he is not single ... i realli dunno wat to do ... he doesnt want to dump his lady ........... im really confusing n heart broken .....

2007-03-11 05:23:18 · 6 answers · asked by Saga 1

i've liked this guy since october of last year and he likes me, but he says he "likes to mess with my head" and so he wont ask me out....... should i ask him out or should i wait??? ♥♥

2007-03-11 05:22:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m American and my dad is American but my mother is from the Philippines and she immigrated to the US 20 years ago when she married my dad. I went to the Philippines this year to go to school.

I was at a boarding school in the Philippines last semester. I was staying in a village house inside the campus and a boy lived next door to me.

He talked to me for a bit and whenever he sees me he says "hi". Once when we were sitting on the bench outside of the houses he was constructing something with leaves from a nearby bush when he was with his 5 year old brother. Then he said to me, "You'd look really beautiful if you put flowers in your hair." There were flowers in the bush. Does that mean he was attracted to me? I hope so.

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I was born and raised in the US


The boy is younger than me.

2007-03-11 05:21:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm so hurt! i'm 6mo pregnant and my fiance broke up with me becuase he said he was tired of the aggrevation and mood swings ( WHO SAYS THAT!!?? ) i know i'm an idiot for doing this but i always call him and tell him i want to have a family that to please give it a chance to work that his reason of leaving is rediculous an he keeps telling me no he likes it the way it is now. last night he asked me if we could still have sex i said no because one i know he just wants to use me and two i know he will be having sex with other people as well and i told him that. he said well if you wont give it to me i'm going to go to someone else. that killed me inside we were together for 3 years and for him to say that is is wrong. then he said ok give me some time and we can be together when the baby is born i want you to come back to the apartment and all this b.s then this morning he says i don't know what i want to do yet. y is he doing this to me.

2007-03-11 05:19:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

last year the guy (andrew) i hav liked for most of my life went out with this EVIL girl (jessica) and a couple months ago he dumped her (even tho she SAYS she dumped him) and he started going out with the 3rd most popular girl in school (anne). she has dumped him twice but is back 2gether at the moment. i've been pretending not 2 like him, and jessica has been basically crying at lunch over him. its so complicated i dont noe wut 2 do!!! any advice on how 2 deal with all 3 ppl?

2007-03-11 05:19:37 · 10 answers · asked by astralprojector 4

2007-03-11 05:13:55 · 12 answers · asked by Desperado 1

Alright if your penis has touched a vagina.. other thing but never actually was inserted into it are you still a virgin or no?

2007-03-11 05:13:47 · 14 answers · asked by bertaaron123 1

so whenever me and my girlfriend are hanging out watching tv or a movie, whenever we start to kiss and it starts to lead to something good, she just gives me a little peck on the lips and turns to watch the movie. and a little bit later, she will turn and want to kiss me again, but the same thing happens. i don't get it because we have made out before once before, and we have been going out for a month. the weird thing is too, is that most of her other boyfriends were 1 or 2 years older than her, so it's not like she prude or anything. i just don't get why she does this with me. i know she really likes me and all, but if you can, help me out.....

2007-03-11 05:13:26 · 10 answers · asked by rubickmaster 1

I'm depressed..angry..hopeless..why?coz my toe op. is hurting me like crazy n ppl are asking me,'u nvr text ur bf??',i dont even know if we're still together..sometimes i wish that ppl wud just sod off!!!!..i know they care that's why they ask but oh god..and oh its so frustrating wen things go out of hand...

i feel like exploding..im just describing how i feel..*sigh*..

2007-03-11 05:13:23 · 12 answers · asked by rose etoiles 3

i am so confused. this guy told me he liked me and then rejected me and now he is dating my friend who is a year and a half younger than me. i may not be the gratest person but why would he do that? tell me he liked me that turn arpund and date my friend? help please.

2007-03-11 05:12:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know him that well, but I thought that he sort of liked me. I don't like him that much (some one wanted to know who i liked & he was an easy person to name), so how do I act & what do I do to keep this from being too awkward?

2007-03-11 05:12:10 · 5 answers · asked by Kayte 3

do guys want girls to make the first move or do they care? whats your perspective on it?

2007-03-11 05:11:08 · 12 answers · asked by kaylabobayla♥ 2

im really tiard of being single ive been since the begining of last summer..and i know its better and i dont want to sound desprete but im just really looking for a guy. ive sorta kinda been in the process of getting them and they likeing me but then they seem to just forget about me and i dont want to be forgotten i dont want to be all whorish to get one i just need something to make me more noticable or if i be more outgoing and talk more to them idk i just need some advice on how to get started?

2007-03-11 05:10:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a five questions for you to answer please!

1.) I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend. Is this weird? I feel left out because all of my friends had boyfriends in elementary school. I have never been kissed too.

2.) I really don't want to have a boyfriend. I want to wait til I am at least 16. Is that okay?

3.) I don't really talk to my parents about boys. Only to my friends.

4.) I am scared that when I get into college I will still have never had a boyfriend or a kiss because I live in a small town and there is probably not going to be a lot to choose from in High School.

5.) I don't want people to think that I am a lesbian because I have never had a boyfriend before. I am NOT a lesbian. I have crushes on a few guys in my school.

2007-03-11 05:06:05 · 13 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2

I just been jilted by my boyfriend.I'm now still loving him. Recently i get to know a new friend. He is my sister house mate. She told me that he have feeling for me. She also said that he really is a great guy.He is 19, and i'm 20 years old. But, i really didn't have feeling for him now. I'm still thinking of my ex. I knew that i should not. So, how do makes me love him?Time?

2007-03-11 05:03:20 · 6 answers · asked by the milky way 1

Ok so, I gave up sex for lent, but checked with my bf first.
So here I am, honoring a promise I made to God, When last night he starts rubbing and fondeling me. I told him I dont think we should, do anything, and he said fine but kept rubbing on me. (when guys do this I freeze, because I was molested from 8-11 y/o) and it kinda scares me, and he knows this. Anyways, we ended up doing it, and now i feel bad, and am mad at him. Is this right?

2007-03-11 05:03:16 · 13 answers · asked by metalstefl 3

There's a guy who works at a store across the street from my house.He is drop dead gorgeous & everybody who sees him talks about how handsome he is.I met him last summer at a different store he worked in and we would just say hi & bye.In the past few weeks we have become good friends. He lets me borrow his car whenever I want to!He even gave me $20 to put in the gas tank to go where I needed to go.He stares at me a lot & smiles when we talk.His body language says YES.If I come in the store he'll wait on me before everybody else.I asked him if he has someone and he said no, but he is from Punjab & he said they arrange marriages & that he probably will be getting married in 2yrs.He said its his culture but he didnt really agree with some of it.His co-workers got jealous of our friendship & makes smart remarks about us being so cool.(They were trying to hit on me themselves.)We have each others number, but he works 6 days a week so he doesnt call me.How can I tell if he "like" me or not?

2007-03-11 05:02:00 · 1 answers · asked by Wisdom 3

There is this guy who is in most of my classes. The thing is that he makes me so nervous because I like him a little. I don't want to start anything with him, ever! He is not my type. Everytime I see him or hear his voice, I kind of "check out", I lose my focus, and the only thing I hear is my heart beating. I'm failing in those classes because of him!!! It's driving me nuts! He distracts me. How can I block him out?

2007-03-11 05:01:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wanna hold my boyfriends hand today at the movies. but i dont wanna just like grab his hand...do i just tap his thigh and put my hand waiting there open for him to put his hand in mine?? do i just grab his hand? what do i do without looking like im anxious or bugging him.?? ♥

2007-03-11 05:01:12 · 12 answers · asked by kaylabobayla♥ 2

I have what many people call the "pretty women syndome". Men don't seen to approach me because they feel that I am already taken. My friends always say that they can not believe that I am not married, not dating, etc. A cousin of my suggested that I make t-shirts that say "single". What are your suggestions?

2007-03-11 05:00:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example..sarah has 1 star next to her name and sally has 3 and jessica has 2..would that get you thinking

2007-03-11 05:00:28 · 12 answers · asked by IC4NDY_ 3

2007-03-11 04:58:04 · 3 answers · asked by kezz247 2

Alright, first off, I am a freshman in highschool. There is a girl in one of my classes and my lunch. She will always say my name when she sees me, and we will talk. She will laugh at my jokes. When we talk we keep good eye contact. When she sees me in the hall she will stop and wait for me to catch up to her and we will talk. We did some thing in class where some people had to pick people for groups, she picked me first.
Anyway do you think this girl likes me? What are some signs I can look for?What are some hints I can drop for her that I like her?

2007-03-11 04:56:29 · 17 answers · asked by Wolfpack 3