i'm so hurt! i'm 6mo pregnant and my fiance broke up with me becuase he said he was tired of the aggrevation and mood swings ( WHO SAYS THAT!!?? ) i know i'm an idiot for doing this but i always call him and tell him i want to have a family that to please give it a chance to work that his reason of leaving is rediculous an he keeps telling me no he likes it the way it is now. last night he asked me if we could still have sex i said no because one i know he just wants to use me and two i know he will be having sex with other people as well and i told him that. he said well if you wont give it to me i'm going to go to someone else. that killed me inside we were together for 3 years and for him to say that is is wrong. then he said ok give me some time and we can be together when the baby is born i want you to come back to the apartment and all this b.s then this morning he says i don't know what i want to do yet. y is he doing this to me.
2007-03-11 05:19:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he's immatute and not ready to be tied down to you because you have a child.
2007-03-11 06:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an immature, impatient jerk. Let him try being six months pregnant and see how he behaves, He is asking you for time so he cant go out and screw around on you then come back after the baby is born? What is that? I know you love him, but I would be devastated if my man did that to me. I wouldnt take his calls and frustrate myself any further in your condition. If he really wanted to be with you he would. He needs to grow up and be a man and take responsibility. He is acting like a damn fool. Let him go for now and let him miss you for a change. Dont be so available to him. If he comes back....then its YOUR decision, not his on whether or not you are together. Good luck and congrats on being a new mom shortly.
2007-03-11 12:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by mlock123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He knows you're getting stronger and so he's using your weakest point to make you surrender to him.It's pretty wise of you to realize that he's using you for his pleasures,most women don't realize it so fast.If he wants to be with you,the pregnancy should have calmed any wild and out guy but he tells you that he doesn't know what he wants to do.Your life isn't going to be the same after having a baby and he should be in it with you,yet he wants to jump about like the change is not for him but you only.Don't let him play with your emotions,focus on making your unborn baby have a healthy life (emotions can affect an unborn baby).It is likely that you can't calm his *** down.Be strong for your baby and be prepared for motherhood and let him do whatever he wants.You deserve better and don't accept anything you don't want.AIDS is real,he might living like a lost dog.you need your health for your baby.Good luck.
2007-03-11 12:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Phy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make sure that if this guy cuts and run that you get that child suport.... either that or go on Maury and have him say YOU ARE THE FATHER then get that money.
2007-03-11 12:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋