There is this guy who is in most of my classes. The thing is that he makes me so nervous because I like him a little. I don't want to start anything with him, ever! He is not my type. Everytime I see him or hear his voice, I kind of "check out", I lose my focus, and the only thing I hear is my heart beating. I'm failing in those classes because of him!!! It's driving me nuts! He distracts me. How can I block him out?
2007-03-11 05:01:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can someone give some real good advice? I can't tell him change seats or classes!!!
2007-03-11 05:06:13 · update #1
If I tell him then he's going to feel that he has power over me. I hate that!!
2007-03-11 05:12:03 · update #2
i have the same problem, its not as bad now though. wgats been working for me is i've tried practicing being in situations where i have to talk to strangers. Try joining a community group of some sort and practice talking to the ppl there. I noticed an improvement in my nervousness around ppl when i joined a Tech course and was made to present reports and assignments to the class. i had to be clear and cocise and maintain eye contact, or, if ur not ready to actually meet new ppl. and i know this sounds dorky, practice in front of a mirror, that is, if u WANT to talk to him and it sounds like u do! (o;
2007-03-11 05:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by carina n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to start anything with him and he is not your type, then why does he distract you so much? I don't get that.
Anyways, you are failing these classes and that is not good. I would definately face your fears and go up to him and speak to him. Tell him how he makes you feel. I think once you actually get to know him, you will have a better idea if you really even like him a little. He may not be so distracting then.
2007-03-11 12:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a lot of will power to get a guy, especially a cute one, out of your system. Just pretend he's not there. Or that he's the muffin man, or something. That way, you won't like him (my man!!! lol jk). Also, talk to your friends about it. They really help you get over ppl that aren't worth your trouble like this guy.
2007-03-11 12:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by MR.WISE202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a tough situation, sometimes i have problems with stuff like that too. maybe you should switch classes, talk to him, maybe if you talk to him you feel better and it won't be so stressful. he is your type if you like him, you wouldn't like him if he wasn't. when it comes down to it, you really need to talk to him, whether about your issue or something totally different, you might feel better.
2007-03-11 12:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by ladyslippers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime you here his voice think of something you hate about him
2007-03-11 12:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Zara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask to change classes or seats
2007-03-11 12:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u keep a rubber band with u when u talk 2 him no proplem.
2007-03-11 12:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Lise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pratice breathing and try not to look at him
2007-03-11 12:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by lalalua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant get him out of your head...maybe he is supposed to be thereâ¥â¥â¥GOOD LUKK!!
2007-03-11 12:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by kaylabobayla♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋