last year the guy (andrew) i hav liked for most of my life went out with this EVIL girl (jessica) and a couple months ago he dumped her (even tho she SAYS she dumped him) and he started going out with the 3rd most popular girl in school (anne). she has dumped him twice but is back 2gether at the moment. i've been pretending not 2 like him, and jessica has been basically crying at lunch over him. its so complicated i dont noe wut 2 do!!! any advice on how 2 deal with all 3 ppl?
2007-03-11 05:19:37 · 10 answers · asked by astralprojector 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find someone else.
2007-03-11 05:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your X for a reason. And now he is Evil Girls X, and has been Annie's X on and off. Don't you see whats going on here. I don't think he is girlfriend material right now. He's just collecting X's and making them cry. Why would you want to go back to that? Its not complicated. If you are still interested in him after Anne is really done with him, then go for it. But be prepared to have your heart broken. I hope I am wrong about him, I do want you to find happiness. Good Luck
2007-03-11 12:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I have been through the same thing. I know exactly how you feel at the moment, so I will help to the best of my ability.
1)Andrew
You need to decide if you still like him or not. You can't pretend not to like somebody, because you could get hurt that way. Try doing other things to get your mind off of him, like, play a sport or hang out with friends. Keep yourself BUSY.
If you still keep thinking about him, maybe try talking to him. It doesn't matter how it turns out. You need to tell him that you still like him. You never know, maybe he might like you!
2) Jessica
Just ignore that stupid girl. She CLEARLY thinks she is much better than you. Don't listen to whatever she says. She is really upset right now, so just keep your distance. She is probably trying to make him jealous. I just say, IGNORE HER. She probably acted like she dumped him because she wanted to keep her status.
3) Anne
Well, there is basically nothing you can do about her. If she is flaunting Andrew around you, just keep your distance. You do NOT want to hang around her if she's being snobbish about him. If she's nice, though, maybe talk to her about it. She may understand, and maybe you can work things out with her.
Whatever you do, you MUST accept the fact that Andrew is going out with Anne, and unless they break up, you should not interfere with them. Maybe become friends with them. You never know what might happen!
Good luck!
Dallas8=]
2007-03-11 12:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by ineedu2luveme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, i'd become his friend. then you will get to know him better *and find dirty little secrets about anne and maybe even jessica* :) then when he and anne break up maybe you can ask him out. anne and jessica try becoming anne's friend too. i'd recommend starting my i.m.ing her first or add her to one of you websites *like myspace, facebook, xanga, friendster, stuff like dat* or something and you'll get to know her better and her boy friend which is andrew. :) and maybe she doesn't feel the same as he does with her. and maybe you can tell her advices to dump him so you can rush to him, if she lets you. jessica IGNORE HER it'll be easier if you do. because she is just those people that are attention hogs. so for get about her. hopefully i answered your question. Good Luck!
2007-03-11 12:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell jessica to get over it and anne didnt do antthin wrong so forget about her 4 the moment and tell andrew how u feal mabe be work with him in school than bring it up. mabe try to be friends with anne if ur not a looser in school.
2007-03-11 12:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help Jessica meet a new boy, and ignore the other two people. He'll notice you when the time is right.
2007-03-11 12:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Errr.....you, Miss Evil Jessica and Miss Wannabe Anne have one thing in common: Stupidity.
2007-03-11 12:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Latina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask him about it! i mean, if you really like this guy, you have to tell him. As for the evil ex, tell her to find someone new! if that doesn't work, ya'll can start a "hate andrew" club:)
2007-03-11 12:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmm go get a another guy or tell him you like him
2007-03-11 12:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by honey bunch #222333222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get someone elso!!!
2007-03-11 12:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by california1991qt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋