im really tiard of being single ive been since the begining of last summer..and i know its better and i dont want to sound desprete but im just really looking for a guy. ive sorta kinda been in the process of getting them and they likeing me but then they seem to just forget about me and i dont want to be forgotten i dont want to be all whorish to get one i just need something to make me more noticable or if i be more outgoing and talk more to them idk i just need some advice on how to get started?
2007-03-11 05:10:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girlfriend if u look like ur foto, do not worry. Just be your self. they will come to u.
2007-03-18 14:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will have to make some assumptions here because you did not mention your age or if you are in school. So. Good, you do not want to be a whore. You will only get the bad seed if you do that. Second, do things that you enjoy and meet people. Ok, great. You meet them, but they do not want to stick around. That is a bit harder. No one just sticks around. Sometimes you can fall into a click and only hang with the same crowd of say 5 or 10 people. In your whole life, if you have 5 or more really good friends, you are lucky. Now, if you want 5 or more guys to be friends, then be friendly, funny, smart. To get noticed, literally ask what the kids notice about girls. Perhaps change you hair do, or something that people notice. I would recommend a tattoo or anything, but a small change might get noticed. Learn some one liners or short jokes to engage in conversation and get people to laugh. If people like you and have fun, they will want to hang around. If most of the guys like a certain sport or activity, learn about and engage them in conversation about it. Asking questions and learning in itself can be a way to get guys around you. But, I am proud that you do not want to go to the extreme to get boys. Even though boys do like girls because they want them, save yourself for a special time and a special person. Do not make it petty or easy. Anywho, hope that helps.
2007-03-11 12:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by GA-Seagull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some confidence girl! Guys like girls that aren't too shy.
Pick something out that guys do where you live; skateboard, BMX, sports, Nascar, motocross, whatever! Learn a little bit about it so you can talk with them about it. Guys love to show off for you, so if you seem even remotely interested, they'll respond! Just go up and talk to them.
Guys aren't always sensitive either and may not get the hint you are interested unless you are pretty direct. Sometimes guys are shy too so keep trying.
2007-03-11 12:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Nod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many ...lets say choosable men , the one thats kind of mature , is more attracted to atitude, self respect , capacity , charm , you dont have to show your cleavages for that , but sincere smile and remember their names , all starts with true friendship , then with closseness and voila ... a good man ask you out to know you better because he thinks youre awesome , thats better than he wants to spend the night with you because you're hot any person is attracted to someone with self steem ,fun , and that takes care of the personal appearance in a nice way ... not too serious not too whorish ... you can do it
2007-03-11 12:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by robertman30s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something that you like to do and do it. I have no idea why women don't think of this. The only way to find a guy who has some similar interests is to do something you like. Be yourself. Guys will be attracted to a confident woman who is herself. You can be a little more outgoing by going up to guys you think are attractive and starting up the conversation. Good luck.
2007-03-11 12:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself! Don't try so hard to build yourself up b/c others can detect this and it becomes more of a neediness than an attraction. Find out and discover yourself. Go out with friends to different places and don't look for someone, let them find you...they will...Good luck and hope this helped!
2007-03-19 11:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy goes away after few days or weeks then, there is something u r not doing to retain him. Try to find out what it is. Try to meet up with a guy who matches ur expectations and u matching up his expectations. Then proceed to the next level. If not, don't even think abt him.
2007-03-11 12:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by Cant stop thinking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get u r self a pretty make over, so u can feel good about yourself. then go out and when u see a guy u like, give him a hello and a nice smile! and if he be gain to talk to u, just ask him questions! and if he ask for u r phone number give it to him, but first ask him if u can have his also. come on girl u can do it, we as women just have that in us!!!!!
2007-03-11 12:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've come to the right place..you'll fine many guys on here that are looking for a girl like you, good luck
2007-03-11 12:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up motorcycle rideing. There is lots of rides every weekend just look it up on the internet. You'll have all the men you want and more.
2007-03-19 11:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by LDJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it about having to be with a guy?? When you get a little older, you'll understand that being single is much more fun!!!! However, if you want to date; be yourself!!!!
2007-03-18 23:55:18 · answer #11 · answered by ilovepoison2820 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋