Singles & Dating - 11 March 2007

me & my boy love eachother so much, we're both hot; we spent sometime togethrt and we decided that we'll make it on my birthday so its a very special event in this special day. Problem is: its our first time. Any hints? I love him, like many things about him & its the same for him but we are just worried about exploring a completely new field.

2007-03-11 03:41:57 · 20 answers · asked by Angel_Eyes _^_ 1

2007-03-11 03:41:51 · 8 answers · asked by ganster steyl 1

It's hard because he still continues to take me to the movies, to dinner, bowling, we go on double dates with his brother and his other friends. He is a great person. Since he is a wonderful guy, do I wait untill he is ready or should I move on?

2007-03-11 03:41:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How to win by not cheating?

2007-03-11 03:35:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

does the boyfriend control, or does the girlfriend control more?

dont say "we both are in control" ..which side controls more than the other?

(theres always a side which controls more)

2007-03-11 03:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by answer! this 3

I have been w/my b/f for 3yrs.I want to be alone now.but i don't want him to hate me and i still want to be friends.What should I do?and how should i handle this?

2007-03-11 03:33:19 · 19 answers · asked by jacks20_20 1

I just broke up with my boyfriend after 2 years. He was my first love, but for some reason as hard I as tried, we just didn't work out. We might have worked out right now, but in the long run, we both knew it probably wouldnt work. It has only been 2 days, and I can't stop thinking about him! I want to call him, or go see him..and say "I am sorry, lets get back together. I was wrong, and I love you." Is this normal? I want him back in my arms but deep down know its not right. I know I have to get over this...but it's so hard. How long does it take to get over someone? Will I ever be that comfortable with someone else again?

2007-03-11 03:30:50 · 13 answers · asked by Vogue143 1

He likes me since November and still didn't do anything serious besides saying 'Hey' though we don't know each other. He keeps looking at me but his friends say he is shy.

2007-03-11 03:30:38 · 15 answers · asked by Beautiful 1

2007-03-11 03:28:27 · 10 answers · asked by sasi 1

i am not sure whether it is because of my last boyfriend (my only boyfriend) or what. but when ever i like someone i freeze. im 16 yr old girl. and i see my two best friends in the perfect relationships and even when im with a guy who obviously likes me and i fancy the pants off. i still cannot seem to say anything in an awkward silence.

my last boyfriend was such a bleurgh. the words i usually use to describe him i cannot use on here.

i still see him but not in that way but he still is mean to me... i dont know... how do i over come my shyness. i always fanatasize on how my friends would go about situations but i cannot bring my self to do it!

2007-03-11 03:27:58 · 25 answers · asked by WowWow! 1

I worked with this guy 5yrs ago,we got on really well we had intimate times but didnt sleep together,we lost contact but i still think of him alot and what we did together,I know he still works there and im in the town 2moro should i go talk to him and if so how do i find out if he has a gf without asking him straight up?

2007-03-11 03:27:47 · 6 answers · asked by DREAMER 2

i am 16 and my boyfriend is 18.we both go to the same high school and were very much in love.weve been together over a year and a half now.but recently its gotten to the point where whenever were like alone in like his basement or mine watching tv all he wants to do it put his hands on me and make out.i dont mind but i dont wanna make out for like an hour and a half straight like him.ive told him and he says okay but then does it again and when i bring it up he says he cant help it.he does that in class too he likes to touch my stomach and grab my hand..i hate it.what can i do besides tell him since i already have?

2007-03-11 03:26:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've answered this question on quite a few occasions now -- the question girls ask: "Why don't guys just tell me how they feel?" And I always give them the same answer -- "Because when we tell you, you reject us." This doesn't ALWAYS hold true; I'm aware of that. I understand that EVERYONE reacts in a slightly different way, but in a general sense of things, girls are more inclined to reject when dealing with directly-expressed feelings or proposals. MY question now is, WHY?

More and more girls are developing that "if you like me, then just tell me" lifestyle, which I'm totally fine with. What I'm NOT fine with, is the fact that every time feelings ARE expressed, I can almost guarantee rejection. Is it just me, and the girls that I ask? What is so hard about saying "yes" every once in a while?

2007-03-11 03:25:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I'm generalizing, but most of the girls iv'e ever been in relationships with tend to take everything u say so seriously. And I know I'm probably a jerk, but everybody can tell its a joke.

2007-03-11 03:24:36 · 14 answers · asked by Rock_With_Da_Mole 1

I'm not sure of the signs a guy likes you but i think he does. So here's the deal:
we've known each other for a year and are pretty good friends already. We go to the same school except guys are schooled in a separate building. But we do see each other--mainly on weekends and we talk on IM. he usually IMs me first. When we happen to pass each other w/o the ability to actually talk right then, he usually gives me a smile. He saw me in a random place he got really excited and told me about 4 times. When we do talk he occasionally moves a little bit closer, and when we're sitting he moves his leg close sometimes. At a party he seems to always find me first.
Now my other good friend, he doesn't really do this too.
Also he keeps eye contact when talking but he does that with most everyone.

2007-03-11 03:22:14 · 16 answers · asked by buy my llama costs $1 1

He said, he will come and take me as his wife, and is 3 weeks to know him enough? Even his dad call me his gf

2007-03-11 03:20:08 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

My instructor was instructing me at the gym.He was a male instructor..While i was sleeping on the bench and was holding the weights he just happened to hold my hands to get the right form and held the area above my elbow for 10 seconds.I dunno why but rest of the clients started staring and checking what exactly was he upto .I alo noticed that they started giving scornful looks at my instructor As far as i know he didnot touch where he sudnt be.Then why would few stare at us...?

2007-03-11 03:19:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I have a bf and we've been going out for 6 months. Judt recently he's been telling me that all these guys like me. Needless to say I'm an idiot when it comes to that kind of stuff. Anyway he told me about last year that the 2 guys that I used to hang out with liked me. I knew they did but I didn' find out until last summer. They both told me. My bf's best friend told me about my friend David over christmas break. David admitted it around christmas. My bf and his friend told me about my best friend, Eric, that he likes me. Eric told me after the day they told me. Now my bf is telling me about my friend Mike and that he likes me. So what do i do and why me?

2007-03-11 03:19:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating this girl for a couple of weeks but we haven't kissed yet.

Ladies, at the end of the night what's the best way for a guy to go about it? Just dive in and go for the lips or ask for a kiss goodnight?

2007-03-11 03:19:33 · 10 answers · asked by elsewhere_for_eight_minutes 3

Okay...so there is this guy that I like a lot. He is in most of my classes at school and I see him staring at me a lot. I am not the only one who has noticed this, some of my friends have too. Also, lately he has been talking to me a lot more and he will like pop up out of no where to be where I am. For example, I was in the hallway talking to two of my other friends (one a guy & one a girl) and all of a sudden out of no where, he came up right next to me and was like whats going on. In one class, we were allowed to study with someone else before a test and instead of going to his two closest guy friends who are in our class, he asked me to help him study. Also, we were outside once and I was really cold, so he gave me his sweatshirt. He wouldn't have given his sweatshirt to just anyone cause if certain other people were cold he would have just been like i'm sorry or wheres your sweatshirt or something like that.
Do you think these are signs that he likes me?

2007-03-11 03:17:25 · 10 answers · asked by cutie09 1

im 20 and my boyfriend is 24 we're very much in love but i wanna do something special for him any ideas

2007-03-11 03:17:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-11 03:16:46 · 10 answers · asked by Rock ah About 3

2007-03-11 03:16:39 · 6 answers · asked by coop 1

My tendency is to be impulsive in a relationship. My friend is more compulsive. I want to sit back and let him have time to do whatever it is he needs to do (he hasn't asked for space by the way - only mentioned that he takes relationships slow) So far, I've been able to sit back for the most part and just let it happen - but it's driving me crazy. Any tips on how to do this without losing your mind in the process? He's really special to me and I don't want to blow it.

2007-03-11 03:16:01 · 2 answers · asked by Rabbit 5

Been on two dates and she told me she is not seeing anyone else, only one person she likes and yes we have made out (she even told me she doesn't make out until in a relationship).

So I am thinking about telling her I like to take things slow but I don't have time to juggle.

I am trying to tell her I am not gonna rush u into a relationship but I am not gonna play u either. Does that communicate that effectively? Any suggestions are welcome.

2007-03-11 03:13:26 · 14 answers · asked by Jamal J 1

It's so weird. She calls me, wants to hang out and all that. We hang out sometimes, but whenever I make a move on her, she just comes right back by reminding me why I was such a horrible boyfriend and all the horrible things I did to her. During the breakup I made a complete *** out of myself. I do look a lot better now, and she looks the same, and she has been dating losers. In the breakup she broke up with me and I tried to get her back in a very very embarassing way, so I don't see why she'd even want to talk to me. I took her V but I don't know. Plus, I am a completely doifferent person now. I just don't get it. We have nothing to do with eachother any longer but she forces herself back into my life 3 years later.

2007-03-11 03:12:09 · 2 answers · asked by chase7355 1

I like in the kitchen, no stupid answer please!

2007-03-11 03:11:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay a couple og Q's :
1. Do you say "no..." but you really do want him to do it, but you dont want to ask... Like your sad, and you bf says do you want me to come over? you say "no, its okay" but you want him to come anyway. Is this wrong?

2. is it wrong to want to know how he feels and for him to say it? Not because he is dating you so he doe...
3. want him to do things without asking them, because when you have to tell him it feels like he did it because you told him to...

Do you get what i mean?
i am not very good at relationshio.. please help!!

2007-03-11 03:10:06 · 14 answers · asked by Simone 2

2007-03-11 03:06:14 · 13 answers · asked by slumberdoll 2

As you can see from the title, I finally got it together with someone I fancied (having posted a question a month ago about whether he did!) However I am not big on committment not because I do not want something special, but because I have low self esteem, and I wonder if I subconsciously chose this guy because I suspect he is not really committed?

I love his company- we have large amounts in common, share the same sense of humour, and I wondered if anyone could suggest some activities or things to do which would allow us to spend time together, and allow an element of mutual trust into the relationship. Any tips for how he really feels about me as well would be most welcome- things to watch out for!

Thanks

2007-03-11 03:06:10 · 6 answers · asked by Alexandria 3