i am 16 and my boyfriend is 18.we both go to the same high school and were very much in love.weve been together over a year and a half now.but recently its gotten to the point where whenever were like alone in like his basement or mine watching tv all he wants to do it put his hands on me and make out.i dont mind but i dont wanna make out for like an hour and a half straight like him.ive told him and he says okay but then does it again and when i bring it up he says he cant help it.he does that in class too he likes to touch my stomach and grab my hand..i hate it.what can i do besides tell him since i already have?
2007-03-11 03:26:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we rarely spend time without people aroudn and i think thats why when we are alone thats all he wants to do.id much rather cuddle than makeout but he doesnt understand that
2007-03-11 03:40:46 · update #1
This never changes. My husband is the same way after 18 years of marriage. Get used to it.
2007-03-11 03:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother you? Well, apparently it DOES since you're asking for advice on the subject.
If you've already told him that you're not interested in being physical 24/7, then the only other thing you can do is give him an ultimatum. If it bothers you, you owe it to yourself to put a restriction or limitation on it, or eliminate it completely. It's YOUR body and YOUR life; you decide who has access to it, when, and where.
If he can't keep his hands off you, you need to make your body an off-limits zone until he develops some sort of discipline. It's obvious that he's a little TOO touchy-feely in your opinion, and when you don't like something, then he should respect your decision.
Worst case scenario -- break up with him. A guy who can't respect your wants is not worth your time.
2007-03-11 10:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be a good idea to, not spending so much time alone in the basement or any other places. Learn to do some funn things together, only by enjoying various activities together, will you know if you are truly well matched.
It's never a good idea to only share the physical aspect. If he does not accept some new ideas, move on, even if it hurts for a while. Partnership, means sharing, otherwise the love goes out the window. BELIEVE IT!
2007-03-11 10:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him politley, that you do not want to make out right this second. That will deterr him for a bit, and if he does it again, say more sternly STOP. And if it continues, just leave.
2007-03-11 10:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are just horny and that's what we think about all day and all night. If you don't like it, just become a lesbian. Good luck
2007-03-11 10:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just quit and go remember you have to respect oneself so other could respect you. and its not worth it saying or reminding him about what you feel. action is your weapon ...
2007-03-11 10:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by jeffrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋