Ok I have a bf and we've been going out for 6 months. Judt recently he's been telling me that all these guys like me. Needless to say I'm an idiot when it comes to that kind of stuff. Anyway he told me about last year that the 2 guys that I used to hang out with liked me. I knew they did but I didn' find out until last summer. They both told me. My bf's best friend told me about my friend David over christmas break. David admitted it around christmas. My bf and his friend told me about my best friend, Eric, that he likes me. Eric told me after the day they told me. Now my bf is telling me about my friend Mike and that he likes me. So what do i do and why me?
2007-03-11 03:19:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like your giving off mixed signals. There has to be some reason why all of these guys like you because there are to many of your "friends" that are falling for you.
First, try and identify the problem or what your doing to making them like you. And are we talking just your a nice person "liking you" or they are falling for you "liking you"? LOL!
So if your refering to them "falling for you" liking you, stick to some guide lines. DON'T kiss them a lot. Once maybe when you see them and once when you leave. (AND NO KISSING NEAR THE LIPS! Don't be a flirt or tease them!!) Us guys are stupid...remember that!
DON'T talk to your guy friends about your current boy friend troubles. This will only encourage them to treat you better than your boyfriend. Remember, we are men and we men naturally compete against one another. IT'S NATURAL! We think we can always do it better than the next guy...LOL!
DON'T call any of your male friends by a "cutesy name"! Examples: Honey, sweetie, sugar, babe, hun, etc.
DON'T get dressed in front of them! And DON'T leave the door open for them!
Limit the touching of your friends. DON'T hold his hand when walking through a crowded place, or to get his attention. Call his name out or yell at your friends, but don't touch! LOL!
DON'T ask your male friends if you look good in this outfit or that outfit! LOL! Your just encouraging us to check you out. We are already doing it anyways...LOL!
Other than that, just watch them. When you feel that they are starting to get the wrong signals, set them straight buy talking about how much you like (or love) your boyfriend. That is a big turn off...LOL! That will set them straight!
And last but not least, tell them what your feeling. Sometimes if you just say, "Well, lately I have been feeling that you are taking what I am doing the wrong way. I ONLY see you as a friend..." speech, that will do it. Just be open and honest with your male friends and let them know how you feel. You will also find that some of your male friends are just your "friends" because they are hoping that "one day" you will sleep with them. After they find out that you only see them as a friend, they move on. That will set them apart from your "real" friends who are being genuine!
I hope this helps! Good luck!
2007-03-11 03:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by iofstorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably a really cool girl that, as soon as people get to know you on a friends level, find you really cool and good girlfriend material.Keep that boyfriend unless you want that other guy.
If you want to keep that boyfriend, tell the guy(or wait til he confesses) that you don't like him, or better yet, send subtle messages, that you treat him as a friend, and love your boyfriend. Do the opposite if you like this other guy. Good luck!
2007-03-11 10:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously pretty, inside and out, if that many guys like you. Enjoy the attention, most girls would kill to have so many admirers.
Just tell the guys that you don't like that you have a boyfriend. Hopefully, they'll understand.
2007-03-11 10:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they thought you were a lesbian and now they know you aren't. anyone will tell ya that when you are single, you don't get many people hitting on you, you have to make the effort, but when you are taken, you become more desirable and get hit on all the time. see what you have been missing.
2007-03-11 18:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sad to say, but as a man, we do rather think with one part of our body at times. Sorry, but it is rather true. I say there is not much you can do about it, since you cannot force someone to not like you. I say just deal with it, and if they get bothersome, tell them to eff off.
2007-03-11 10:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by paul86192006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the movie 'it's all about mary' (if i remember the name correctly...) ;
perhaps u're reli hot that every guys like u~~~ which is definitely a good thing lol
2007-03-11 10:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are guys and you are a girl. They like you because you must be cute.
2007-03-11 10:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too much of confusion.
2007-03-11 10:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing you rally can do
2007-03-11 10:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋