me & my boy love eachother so much, we're both hot; we spent sometime togethrt and we decided that we'll make it on my birthday so its a very special event in this special day. Problem is: its our first time. Any hints? I love him, like many things about him & its the same for him but we are just worried about exploring a completely new field.
2007-03-11 03:41:57 · 20 answers · asked by Angel_Eyes _^_ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whatever you do, don't forget the condoms.
2007-03-11 03:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Every couple goes through this. It is very scarey, and there is a reason it should be. Sex is not something to be taken lightly...I am not saying you and your bf are, but if sex were easy and not nerve wracking, most likely we would be having sex with everyone that looked at us...lol...
Make it special and meaningful...make sure you both want this and aren't doing it just because of what day it is...It should be spontaneous and please use protection. Don't expect feeling a lot of sparks the first time...It does get much better the more you love one another, and feel more comfortable with each other...I pray you are both 18 or whatever the legal age is where you live...
2007-03-11 03:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The words "don't" and "wait" are the first things I think of when reading your comments. Making love is so much more than just the physical part. It is a very emotional step and once you go there, you can never go back to just holding hands. I also think you should not "plan" for the event to happen. It should happen naturally and you'll know when that time comes. Everything will just feel right.
2007-03-11 05:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by LifeIsChanging 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not mention your age, but I urge you to reconsider. You write like a very young girl with the expression"make it on my birthday," and you don't indicate that this is an established relationship, just that"we spent sometime together." This whole business of making love sound really rushed! I get that you're "both hot." That's a part of being young and having wonderful hormones and urges zipping through your bodies. Only natural, very beautiful desires, but not something you have to act on every time it happens. I think you should celebrate your birthday with friends, the old fashioned way, with cake and ice cream, or go bowling or something fun. Please wait to make the sacred event more special.
2007-03-11 03:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The first advice that i can give is if you are not completely comfortable going to the next "STEP" then the time is not right.
I also believe that you can not plan some thing as special as this. It should come natural and from your heart and body, not a calender.
2007-03-11 04:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by george 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use condoms and be gentle on urself since it is ur first time, at first u may not feel the pressure but after a few minutes u will experience.
Dont go for Infiltration right away. Kiss them, squeeze him etc. After his get really excited then go for Infiltration.
2007-03-11 03:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by Don of dhaka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie wait i]sex is not all it is cracked up to be. It is just a way to be used and dumped and hurt. If he really loves you he will want to marry you first. I know it is hard but if i could do it all over again i would get married first. I thought i had the right guys but i have been used constantly and now reached the point of no return.
2007-03-11 03:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hmmm.., better not unless u two plan to be married in the future. Both might regret should things don`t work out later on. I would suggest 4play and treasure the pleasure you get out of it BUT stop when you are on dangerous ground.
2007-03-11 04:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by Goodluck 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it on your B-day. Most likely you will eventually break up with each other and you won't enjoy your B-days for a long time. So don't do it on your B-day. Good luck
2007-03-11 03:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know tht u r wurrid but your bf will b shitin briks. i think tht u shud be generouse to him cos if it is his first time then the event probibl wnt last tht long. i suggest plenty of 4 play.
just remember boxers dnt fight without gloves on
2007-03-11 03:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you both guys thats what i get from the question, if so i have no clue if your a girl and guy, dont do it because he will not be there with you forever, hes just there for now wait till you find mr. right.
2007-03-11 03:46:35 · answer #11 · answered by karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋