Been on two dates and she told me she is not seeing anyone else, only one person she likes and yes we have made out (she even told me she doesn't make out until in a relationship).
So I am thinking about telling her I like to take things slow but I don't have time to juggle.
I am trying to tell her I am not gonna rush u into a relationship but I am not gonna play u either. Does that communicate that effectively? Any suggestions are welcome.
2007-03-11 03:13:26 · 14 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is effective communication unless she is really looking 4 a relationship but not tellin you for fear of seeming too needy
2007-03-11 03:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it a little confusing the way you have put it, but think what your trying to say is that you want to be exclusive to each other and not see anyone else you both seem to like each other and would like to take things further but at a slow pace. Not sure what you mean by 'juggle' it sounds like you have a few on the go and don't want to get serious with her. So if that's not the case i wouldn't say juggle. Good luck
2007-03-11 10:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by phillippa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take out all of the extra words. I get what you are saying but it is a little much. Just tell her that you like her alot and that you think that if you take it slow your relationship can be something special. I don't know exactly what else you have going on in your life but explain that to her.
2007-03-11 10:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. i will admire you more if you say that. Let the feelings blossom into more deeper emotion. If she is not yet ready also to commit then just enjoy being friends, until such time she is ready. I can sense that she likes you too, the mere fact that you been out together. Your both cautious in entering into a relationship. Maybe you need both more time to know each other furthermore. Goodluck.
2007-03-11 10:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by pink_blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are right about one thing! It's a hard thing to say, since after all you want to make your point, but you don't want to drive her away, by pretending not to be interested at all when you obviously are. Perhaps the best thing to do, is first find out precisely how interested she is, perhaps chat to a friend of hers about how she feels in the situation.
Make me clear that you like her, find her interesting, but that you need some signals from her, and she needs to accept you the way you are.
Good luck
2007-03-11 10:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Alexandria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told me that is sounds like you want to be friends. so I would move on to someone else. You can be in a relationship and take it slow.
2007-03-11 10:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by C M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why after only two dates are you trying to get her to commit to YOU, but you are not willing to commit to HER? You're being a little selfish here, Jamal.
Just relax, and enjoy her company, and stop trying to rush things.
2007-03-11 10:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. But you have to telll her that it's only because you respect her. Women mostly like that kind of gentlemanly stuff. Mostly it's good, not to worry. You must remember, always communicate it to seem like it's for her that you're doing this, and you'll be fine. Good luck!
2007-03-11 10:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by Cara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to get to know her better before you get too serious, but you are serious about wanting to get to know her better.
2007-03-11 10:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right on . we understand!!! you want her & you want to try for a real relationship.
2007-03-11 10:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by harlot j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋