so whenever me and my girlfriend are hanging out watching tv or a movie, whenever we start to kiss and it starts to lead to something good, she just gives me a little peck on the lips and turns to watch the movie. and a little bit later, she will turn and want to kiss me again, but the same thing happens. i don't get it because we have made out before once before, and we have been going out for a month. the weird thing is too, is that most of her other boyfriends were 1 or 2 years older than her, so it's not like she prude or anything. i just don't get why she does this with me. i know she really likes me and all, but if you can, help me out.....
2007-03-11 05:13:26 · 10 answers · asked by rubickmaster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you need to talk to her, maybe something happened in a previous relationship or maybe she just wants to take things slow. The best thing is just to talk to her and lewt her know how you feel and be willing to take things slow if thats what she wants
2007-03-11 05:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by biggsclimes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably isn't sure how far you want to go when you're making out with her, or if you just want to kiss, cuddle and be in her company. Why don't you just tell her you want to make love to her. If you know any areas of her body that when touched, kissed or carressed it drives her wild and makes her horney then get busy putting some attention into those areas and she will instantly know what you are asking for
2007-03-11 12:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, having a girlfriend isnt about making out.the peck on the lips is to let you know that she hasnt forgotten that your there.she may not want to make out anyway,she may want something differant from you then she did from her other boyfriends. whatever it is, just wait and you'll reach that level.
2007-03-11 12:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by dark_poet_08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not "get" anyone to do anything that they do not want to. Forcing your will upon another is abusive and entirely selfish. Ask, discuss, and communicate intentions and wishes with one another. If the other is accepting of what you ask, then proceed. If they are not in agreement, then respect their wishes and continue on as well. Forcing your will upon another is inappropriate.
2007-03-11 12:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to not go there unless she wants to finish cause you cant handle it. Let her know you want to be with her and have the affection but let her know to tell you what she wants from you. She will step up then cause she dont want to lose you but she want you to wait. She doing the wait to respect me thing but you need to do the tell me what to expect thing and she will come to the table.
2007-03-11 12:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by splash27401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does not want to kiss you..
She is not really your g/f..
You are just filling time until she finds someone
she really likes...
2007-03-11 12:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt know you want to...just lean in and whisper in her ear something seductive and act REALLY romantic and maybe shell get the idea
2007-03-11 12:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by kaylabobayla♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might just not b ready. maybe she doesn't feel close enuf 2 u to really make out w/ u....idk...maybe u should talk to her about it...GOOD LUCK!!!
~Jessica~
2007-03-11 12:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by mzsprouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her first.
2007-03-11 12:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called foreplay
2007-03-11 12:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋