scenario, me and this girl, haven't been talking since last tuesday when we had a argument. I never got to tell her my true feelings that I Love her, and shes just been avoiding me since last tuesday...So should I tell her? Should I go to her job and tell her since she wont see me personally? Should I email it to her? Should I talk to one of her friends to see if she talks about me? I know I love this girl, Its just that feeling I get when I think about her, where the worst thing could be goin on and thinkin about her just eases my mind. but yeah Should I tell her I love her and how if she keeps avoiding me?
2007-03-11 05:26:38 · 10 answers · asked by Mystery Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know but it seems you are infatuated. Ok if you want to talk to her find her some place except her workplace because she might cause you some embarrassment. Talk to her only if you really love her.
2007-03-11 05:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you argue about that made her avoid you? you don't have to say but did you think about what she said then and how strongly she felt about whatever it was to cut you off? If you think about that moment, and think about what ever it was that effected her that way and see all of her points in it and see her part of the argument and can except that as her not going to put up with it and you know she won't, then tell her, not at work but tell her in person after work or on a day off, you don't want to put any stress there, you want her to be clear on thinking about it.
But if your doing it for any other reason, then please don't, it is obvious that she has set standards of what she will deal with and that is good for every person to have, sometimes when you love a person, the best thing you can do is let them go if you can't make them happy...I hope that makes sense.
2007-03-19 02:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, if she is not talking to you and avoiding you; its not a good idea to tell that now...as you are making her feel better. Listen, women/girls...whatever you want to refer to them, they love to have all the attention in the world, but strange enough when they do they play hard to get and when you let them be and show a slight of disinterest it sparks their attention...why???? I do no know. Send her flowers and tell her something as to you are sorry, invite her to dinner...stuff ,do not talk to her friends about anything, do not have drama....if it was me....I will leave her alone for few days....she will come back if she cares...
Do not show that you disperate, even if you are ...its not attractive to them... Good luck
2007-03-19 10:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clear the air. Solve whatever went wrong, if i means apologizing then do so. Get on talking terms again before you let her know how you feel about her.
2007-03-19 04:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Highbury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak up!! How could she know if you did not tell her your true feelings? Maybe she feels the same??? Communication is the essence of good relationships!!!!
2007-03-19 08:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Karien 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, but don't tell her you love her. If you have to go to her job then talk to her when she's off otherwise she'll be offended.
2007-03-11 13:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her and see what she does
2007-03-11 12:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by lisaanndubay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel maybe she feels the same way
2007-03-11 12:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by erikitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss her then tell her, and remember the flowers
2007-03-19 09:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by lowrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HER!!!
2007-03-19 04:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by Giggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋