I just been jilted by my boyfriend.I'm now still loving him. Recently i get to know a new friend. He is my sister house mate. She told me that he have feeling for me. She also said that he really is a great guy.He is 19, and i'm 20 years old. But, i really didn't have feeling for him now. I'm still thinking of my ex. I knew that i should not. So, how do makes me love him?Time?
2007-03-11 05:03:20 · 6 answers · asked by the milky way 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not sure who you are trying to love. Obviously you are still in love with your old boyfriend. Time while heal your feelings, however some people always leave an impression in our hearts and you will always love them. As for a new person to love . . . you can not, nor should you make yourself love them.
You can be yourself and spend time with someone and the flow of the relationship will evolve into love, if love is the feeling that you get when with them you will have achieved love.
One last thing, I am sure that your sister loves you and she wants you to be happy. Happiness comes from within and penetrates out. When you are happy with yourself, you will find love because people will want to share the radiance you exhibit and you will find someone like yourself. Ask yourself the question, "Am I someone that I would love", if so great if not,try spending time with yourself to know who you are and you will find what you desire in a relationship. God always gives us the desires of our hearts.
2007-03-11 05:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone love you if they don't and just for simple reason they have to want to love you in the way you would want them to. If he is interested in you then you will know, but he has not even recognized you yet and it is probably best not to push the issue.
2007-03-11 12:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read about love. :Love is not sex. The thing is from a very high quality friendship love can blossom. However, if there is zero sexual attraction, it will be platonic. Any sexual attraction can be e=heightened with a great trusting friendship.
It could take 2 weeks or one year.
2007-03-11 12:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, once you start to make sense then we could be of better help but just to point out, you cannot make anyone love you
2007-03-11 12:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are trying to say, how do I make myself love the new guy, the answer is you can't. Nothing you can do...Just relax and stop looking for love, let it come to you
2007-03-11 12:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by andytime80 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u cannot u already know that broken hearts take awile to even start to mend and theyn will always be scared from the hurt
2007-03-11 12:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by tasks mom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋