Singles & Dating - 5 March 2007

ok ok so i'm trying to get over a love interest...and i want to get back into the dating scene...i want to know how to meet a girl...i mean like do i just go up to her and introduce myself? or do i get creative and use a note?
sometimes i get self-conscience and wonder if they will think i'm a freak and what if i look stupid and what if i mess up...well any way...i need help
thanks
-Nick

2007-03-05 17:05:16 · 8 answers · asked by Nick V 1

i got my heart broken for the first time a little while ago and i am pretty much over it, though it still hurts, but sometimes something will remind me of her and i wanna talk to her... just to know how she is and stuff, but i can't. so what do i do at times like this?

2007-03-05 17:05:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guy is 30 yrs old from New Zealand. Back Office Manager of Shell company. 60% in Singapore and 40% overseas.

Gal is 19yrs old from Singapore. Polytechnic student. Have a few dates, but this guy is the first foreign guy.

Why would the guy want to date this girl?

p.s. I'm the gal in this scenario, but i'm so confused??? Help?

2007-03-05 17:00:40 · 3 answers · asked by Daffodil 3

And when he cannot avoid look at me, he looks right through me as if I'm transparent. Besides during sex, The other times he would look at me is when we're both in the car front seats talking but that's from the sides. And also when we're both watching tv and sitting beside me, he would turn to look at me to see how I react to the funny scenes. He would only look at me from the sides but never eye-to-eye contact. What gives?

2007-03-05 16:59:07 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 17,my gurl comes to see me at work almost everyday where do we go to make out so noone else sees especially where my boss doesnt see,by the way there r no empty rooms there ok thanx

2007-03-05 16:58:32 · 8 answers · asked by Trapstar81 1

give a brief explanation plz..

2007-03-05 16:58:23 · 14 answers · asked by Yahoo Msg Me 1

A month a ago I started dating a really nice guy.... he's really nice and really cute, but I'm not in to kissing and hugging stuff and I'm definetly keeping my virginity so waht do I do with him?

2007-03-05 16:58:01 · 30 answers · asked by Maya 2

2007-03-05 16:56:19 · 5 answers · asked by rahulasai 1

Although it is way too obvious.

2007-03-05 16:55:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have psoriasis and my question is, will I ever find a guy who won't be turned off by my skin. I've never had any say that is the reason they have been turned off but they'll be all over me until they see the plaques.

2007-03-05 16:54:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my late 20's, have been dating a girl for several years but have always had a wondering eye. I just met a women who I want to get know as a person and intimately. If I have the desire to meet someone else, does that mean I should break up with my current g/f? We still love eachother, but I just want to meet new people. Why do I feel like such an asshole for thinking about breaking up with her?

2007-03-05 16:52:34 · 1 answers · asked by bananas4breakfast14 2

I asked if I'd mke a good bf and now i wanna know if she's the one and if she likes me. We've been friends for around 8 years now and I've always considered her my best friend. We tell each other stuff we don't tell anyone else. she tells me she loves me when we chat on the cellphone tho i know she means it as a best friend. I used to always be depressed and she turned my life around. Also, i always make sure my cel is there if ever she needs me. i'm really gentle with her and I've never argued or fought with her. I'm confused though since she isn't as affectionate when we're at school. She understands me more than anyone and can read me like a book. She finds the right things to say when she comforts me. For a while i had feelings for her but i dismissed them as brotherly but I guess it isn't anymore. I really love her so I want to know if I'm right for her.

2007-03-05 16:50:39 · 9 answers · asked by <Xariel the Stray> 2

I HAVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 4 YRS ALREADY. OVER THE PAST YRS WE HAVE GONE THRU SO MUCH DRAMA. WHEN I FIRST GOT WITH HIM THINGS WERE GOING GOOD, OR SO I THOUGHT. AFTER THE 1ST 7MONTHS HE TOLD ME HE HAD BEEN WITH SOMEONE ELSE THE ENTIRE TIME WE HAD BEEN TOGETHER SO I LET HIM GO. NOT TO LONG AFTER THAT HE CAME BACK TO ME AND I TOOK HIM BACK BECAUSE I WAS SURE THINGS WERE GOING TO WORK. WELL THE PAST KEPT COMING UP AND HE COULDNT HANDLE IT SO WE BROKE IT OFF. AGAIN NOT TO LONG AFTER THAT WE GOT BACK TOGETHER AND THINGS WERE GOING GOOD UNTIL I MOVED AWAY FOR A LITTLE WHILE. WE WOULD FIGHT AND ARGUE ALL THE TIME BUT SOMEHOW ALWAYS ENDED UP TOGETHER. WELL ONE DAY I "HAPPENED" TO COME ACROSS HIS EMAIL AND FOUND PICS OF HIM AND SOME FEMALE KISSING. I CONFRONTED HIM ABOUT IT AND ALL HE COULD SAY IS WHY ARE YOU GOING THRU MY STUFF. HE LATER APOLOGIZED FOR IT AND I TOOK HIM BACK. WELL ABOUT 3 WEEKS AGO I UNDERSTAND HE IS SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER GIRL BUT HE SWEARS HE LOVES ME. IM NOT TOO SURE

2007-03-05 16:50:18 · 19 answers · asked by Walking by faith 2

would a shy guy ever ask the girl he likes out..or does she have to make the first move? ..and if she does..will he reject her cause his to shy to say yes or what?

2007-03-05 16:50:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-05 16:49:35 · 4 answers · asked by love 1

I saw this guy that i liked, i looked at him few times, then he came nearby, but i didn't know what to do...Any idea on what is the best way to hit on a guy in a gay club?

2007-03-05 16:47:53 · 4 answers · asked by E Guy 1

2007-03-05 16:47:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi I'm melody and i'm christian. i met a guy 4 years ago and he is muslim, we didin't see each other, by the way we really love each other and he loves me from all his hearth. he keeps saying that if i marry him he will do anything for me. don't think that i'm stupid, i want marry him because he doesn't me because of my money, look or for using me. he loves me for my self and nothing else. by the way we both have strict family about our relogion. the problem is, he wants from me to change my religion to islam, because he thinks that in future we'll have alot of religion problem. He also respect to my religion very much. But i dont want to change my religion to islam but i'll respect his religion too. i keep saying that we won't have any religion problem and i'll try to do everything for him, because i love him. Now i am in that situation that i should choose one between my religion and HIM, and i can't forgot both of them i want both at the same time. Please tell me what i have to do.

2007-03-05 16:41:25 · 22 answers · asked by Washington D.C 1

There is a guy i really like. HE is so sweet, he is wonderful. WE have been talking for a while now and i think that we are ready to move on to something more serious. He is separated, but not divorced yet...i really wanna b with him. I asked him out today!!! HIS REACTION...he said yes but no. yes: he really like me! No: he wasnt divorced and i want him to b before anything happens. He said he would call back. This was @ 3 today....still has not called. Im sure he will...what should i do if he says no? Im gonna die..........

2007-03-05 16:41:04 · 10 answers · asked by maryj19_956 1

tell me why

2007-03-05 16:40:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

people have asked what i like about this person and i could never give a real answer other than qualities that alot of other women have. ive been thinking for a few days now and i cannot come up with a definate reasons that set a person apart from someone else. so im asking men, what is it that you like about your woman or to the women, what is it about them that they want men to like them for (excluding something like "i want someone to like me for who i am")

2007-03-05 16:39:39 · 6 answers · asked by thelittlelim 2

2007-03-05 16:38:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you like it? How does it make you feel?

2007-03-05 16:38:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been emailing and talking via phone with a young woman online and we were supposed to meet up this coming week. But, she told me that she changed her mind because I am recently divorced, within the past year or so, and she knows all about that. She seemed OK with the dirvorce situation, abut I told her that I am moving out of state in a few months, and she said that she no longer wants to meet up with me because she doesn’t see the point. If she really ends up liking me, what’s the point in meeting up if I’m only going to be moving away in a few months – coincidentally to a town close to where my ex moved to. She thinks I’m not ove rmy ex and I’m trying to keep my option open with her by moving so much closer to her, out of state. Why won’t she at least meet up and give me a chance?

2007-03-05 16:35:35 · 14 answers · asked by julia k 1

How many dates do you normally go on before sex?

1, 2, 3.. never?

How long would you date someone before giving up on the whole thing?

2007-03-05 16:34:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know this may be a shock to you or even sound weird but its been 3 weeks and i'm not gonna lie i still have feelings for you and i think about you all the time..i've gone out and done my thing with other girls but i still can't seem to find someone who made me feel like you did..you really are one of a kind..even though we don't make memories anymore i still smile at the ones we had..i feel like we ended everything because we were confused about what we both wanted and not because we stopped liking each other..i know i can't change the way you feel but i hate trying to forget about us and i just dont wanna look back and regret what we could have been because i know that if you gave me the chance i could make you happier then you could ever think..im not asking you to marry me but i would love if you could jus really think about "me and you" one last time..you don't need to answer me at all i'm not gonna take it the wrong way i know this is really random but i just felt like i should

2007-03-05 16:32:01 · 2 answers · asked by jon c 1

im kinda shy and i have a crush on this boy but we've never really talked,,,what should i do?

2007-03-05 16:31:15 · 9 answers · asked by still_sound 2

the next day she completely ignored me and flirted with this other guy in my class and kept lookin at me for a sec and then lookin away

2007-03-05 16:29:35 · 4 answers · asked by MJ Fan 23 2

ok, my boyfriend broke up with me friday cuz the "spark" wasn't there for him anymore. but he has been calling me alot and all here lately then tonight he called like 3 times and i was really busy (fire fighting) so i didn't answer the phone and when i got home he started talking to me online. Here is a letter he sent me. Please tell me if he really loves me?

hey, i'm sorry ur so upset with me that u won't even talk to me anymore. i was quick with u today cause i was on a call and pulling up at the hospital. i really need the spark back cause it just wasn't working before. i wish i wasn't so complicated. if it makes u feel any better, i still get jelious of the thought that ur out having fun and doing whatever with another guy. i really want us to be friends and maybe one day get back together stronger.i just hate the fact of getting the cold shoulder but if that's what u want then i don't guess i could blame u cause i done a lot of crap to u to hurt u. i hope i can talk to u again

2007-03-05 16:28:23 · 2 answers · asked by Selena H 1

We setup a date and day, I call she doesnt pick up. After I kinda start to ignore her, she brings it up how she just got my phone call one week later with some lame excuse. So when do you start ignoring a girl, no longer talk to her, and move on?

2007-03-05 16:26:01 · 25 answers · asked by SL1983 2