A month a ago I started dating a really nice guy.... he's really nice and really cute, but I'm not in to kissing and hugging stuff and I'm definetly keeping my virginity so waht do I do with him?
2007-03-05 16:58:01 · 30 answers · asked by Maya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, virginity aside, you don't like kissing and hugging him? Girl, you don't like him. He's just a friend. You need to tell him this right away, don't string him along.
For future reference: If your idea "keeping your virginity" is the same as mine (no vaginal penetration, to put it bluntly), remember that using hands and mouths won't violate that particular definition.
2007-03-05 17:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him. Now that the relationship is new is the best time to tell him how you feel and together make decisions on what you what your relationship to be based on coz later you may never be able to. Be open. Be clear about your virginity, if he genuinely wants you he will still give you a go! Its all about mutual understanding and respect. On the while a little romance (no sex) just to keep the fire burning is vital.
2007-03-05 17:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sangie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been going out with my boyfriend 3 years and that i in reality see him some cases a year to boot if i had the alternative of leaving him i could (yet i cant cuz he's loopy bi-polar suicidal depressed and if i do, he will kill himself) yet what does he assume you to do? stay living house and knit and bake cookies all day? you're someone, you want some action too. i heavily omit having someone to be affectionate with each now and then in case your boyfriend is coming again living house quickly, perhaps it truly is truly well worth the wait i assume it relies upon how a lot you adore eachother
2016-12-05 07:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you have a very interesting view about what dateing is. Dateing should be a time to get to know the over person better then you would simply as friends and to stregthen your relationship through fun activities and simply being their for each other.
So do just that. Go out and have some fun. Get to know him better. A movie, dinner, putt-putt golf, whatever the two of you enjoy. Talk about things that interest each other and talk about each other. Dateing doesn't have to include all that other stuff.
2007-03-05 17:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by BoranJarami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So in essence you don't have a boyfriend...you have a friend. I know most women think we guys put too much emphasis on the physical contact in a relationship and sometimes I guess they are correct, but the truth of the matter is, if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend it is different than just having a friend and most of that difference is because of the sexual attraction and the physical contact. So its all good if you aren't in to the kissing, foreplay or sex etc but understand that what you are then describing is just a friendship and if thats what you want thats just fine too but to be fair to him I think you should let him know thats how you see the realtionship. That way in fairness to him he can decide if he is willing to be friends with you or opt to find someone else in which he would like to be in a more intimate relationship with. I hope this makes sense....Good Luck!
2007-03-05 17:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by chcman74 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him got out have fun, share your plans and activities
Kissing and hugging is not all
try to understand him... what kind of person he is and all stuff ..thats enough..
be a virgin till you get married or till you find a right guy for you!!!
Good Luck!!
2007-03-05 17:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by Raj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find other things that don't involve the depletion of your virginity. However, you are going to lose him pretty quick if your aren't into kissing, hugging, etc, so I would check my view on that
2007-03-05 17:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by forealztho69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of a date? Why do you think of a relationship as kissing and sex? Let me clue you in on something: a good relationship is one that is not based on kissing and sex. There should be a lot more to it.
2007-03-05 17:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy, make him your slave. Seriously, he's a boyfriend, not an odd coat hanger you get at the 99 cent store. Just hang out and be friends.
2007-03-05 17:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jack S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear! you are sitting on volcano which can erupt any time. I m afraid u will lose your virginty to him any how. Only one thing will keep his hands off you that is how strong defendent of your bodies sexual instincts are you? And if you are gone with the wind you are going to lose sooner or later the precious gem....................your virginity to some one who is never yours.
2007-03-05 17:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by SONA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋